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» Can't really get anywhere in life while dealing with my GF. Raging hard af
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post 1671343533 11-18-2022, 09:50 AM
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Can't really get anywhere in life while dealing with my GF. Raging hard af

Anyone has had such an issue - constantly dealing with your women's moaning? Feel like every dude that fails is just giving up his life to deal with constant devalution and being put down.

All my energy gets drained to listen to her constant moaning about how I failed to do this and that.
Constantly questioning my ways of resolving issue and life decisions.

Trying to tell her that the more she puts me down and wastes my time with explaining the same thing for the 100 time, the bigger the chance is that we won't get anywhere. Srs getting stressed as hell all the time due to her, it ruins my productivity and losing motivation to get things done right. In the end it is a lose-lose situation for both of us.

Problem is that it is so easy to resolve this if she just STFU and trusts me in what I do. Instead she decides to moan again about Sally getting pregnant with her boyfriend, who will eventually seperate like everyone I know who decided to have a child while being still a deadbeat or a maggot in society.

Was on a 4-day heavy workload outside of town and had to be away from her during that period. Not even before coming back to her, she absolute moaned the hell out of nowhere how people are marrying and having kids while I'm outside of town working. Had to listen to this crap 3 times on the phone in one day.


How dafuq do I explain to dis b1tch that if we want to get somewhere in life, I have to work my ass off which means that I will need the fukin space. And every maggot she refers to as an example who decided to stay with his wife 24/7 is a total miserable unsuccesful wreck that has debts and works some turd-rate job. I don't want that life.

My work scheduele plans in the future involve a lot of traveling and focus. Don't really think I will be able to fulfill my dream if I continue dealing with her shyt.

Dead srs thinking to give her the boot. Would srs get way further in life for 2 months alone compared to the last 3 years dealing with constant BS. Also we can't have any normal conversation anymore, everytime I start talking about something she brings up babies or some retarded mistake I did more than a year ago.
post 1671343583 11-18-2022, 09:50 AM
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Didn’t read but pics may help in our assisting of your problem.
post 1671343623 11-18-2022, 09:51 AM
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didn't read a single word. Negged for no pics
post 1671343923 11-18-2022, 09:55 AM
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Read the first line.


If your woman isn't helping you get ahead, get a new woman.
See BrianDaMans sig.

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post 1671343953 11-18-2022, 09:56 AM
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Leave and do you bro.

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post 1671343993 11-18-2022, 09:57 AM
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Didn't read a single line of that. But if you are allowing a sloot to hold you back, that says more about you than her.


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You are a cuck.
post 1671344023 11-18-2022, 09:57 AM
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IMO, it's worth it to prioritize work over shoots, at least while you're trying to get a foundation set.
post 1671344103 11-18-2022, 09:59 AM
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Lmfao, don't tolerate her nagging. Give her an ultimatum, stfu or gtfo.
post 1671344553 11-18-2022, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper
Read the first line.


If your woman isn't helping you get ahead, get a new woman.
/thread
post 1671344903 11-18-2022, 10:12 AM
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Dude I'm in the same exact place !

I've been with her for almost 4 years and she drains all energy from me, I've slapped her around and she's faithful so for that reason I respect her but seems that I can't get **** done it's always something with her I might just drop her, she was a virgin when I met her so pretty marriage material, but idkn do what you feel will be best for u
post 1671344923 11-18-2022, 10:13 AM
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It will only get worse the longer you are with her and the more serious you get with her.
post 1671344933 11-18-2022, 10:13 AM
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Skimmed this for less than 1 second.

You have 2 choices:

1. Move toward becoming a successful man.
2. Continue being dragged down by this loser.
post 1671345073 11-18-2022, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted By ionzephyr
/thread
qfe
post 1671345323 11-18-2022, 10:19 AM
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beat her
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post 1671345363 11-18-2022, 10:20 AM
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There are ~4,000,000,000 women on Earth. You don't have to put up with anything from any of them.
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post 1671345423 11-18-2022, 10:21 AM
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Now is a good time to get out.
post 1671345573 11-18-2022, 10:24 AM
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Whenever a woman gets disagreeable, send her packing.

Either she comes back agreeable, sucking a whole lot of dick,

Or she doesn't.

Either way your quality of life improves.

Also,

Never get married.
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post 1671345733 11-18-2022, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Drew23
There are ~4,000,000,000 women on Earth. You don't have to put up with anything from any of them.
bro p3do much? 1/4 of those are underage, inb4 chris hansen
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1671346193 11-18-2022, 10:32 AM
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glad to read most of these answers. if the relationship isn't benefitting you both, move on. no time for miserable people in your life.
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post 1671346373 11-18-2022, 10:34 AM
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She probably either wants you to put her in her place, or dump her.

A lot of women don't dump, they break up without mentioning it to their spouse, find a replacement, then try and get the guy to dump her so she can play victim and monkey-branch easier to her replacement (who she probably already fukked or hinted she would fuk to) without looking like a massive whore.

And if you put her in her place, she'll either be turned on and appreciate being lead, or she'll use THAT as an excuse to pull the trigger and cheat (or dissuade the already existing guilt for cheating she has already done.) EITHER WAY, putting her in her place will give you an answer. And I don't mean physically, I mean bluntly and cleanly telling her she's being a detriment and to either pack her sh!t or to "come correct" as the kids say.
post 1671346393 11-18-2022, 10:34 AM
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post 1671349363 11-18-2022, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater
Skimmed this for less than 1 second.

You have 2 choices:

1. Move toward becoming a successful man.
2. Continue being dragged down by this loser.
This. No fukign way she cuts that chit out when/if you do become successful with her around. Getting rid of people who are a drain on your life in any way is a great way to go about things.
Originally Posted By nickh04
beat her
...... This too.
post 1671349733 11-18-2022, 11:29 AM
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lay down the law and tell her to stfu and give her own medicine and start telling her she is holding your career back
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post 1671351393 11-18-2022, 11:54 AM
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I think the relationship may have run its course on this one. She obviously wants to get married and progress the relationship and it seems like you're not quite ready to do that yet.

You can kinda tell that even if you were to propose to her today, she would hold it against you for the rest of your life that you didn't propose sooner. She thinks you're taking too long, and she'll never forget it.

They say most serious relationships last about 6 months longer than they should.

I think that's the case here.
post 1671366273 11-18-2022, 04:03 PM
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did not read, negged
post 1671366393 11-18-2022, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper
Read the first line.


If your woman isn't helping you get ahead, get a new woman.
x5000 to the n'th degree.

I would also like to add. If your women isn't helping you get ahead while giving you head. She isn't a keeper.
post 1671366483 11-18-2022, 04:05 PM
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Did not read only read thread title

Negged

See sig; line 1
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post 1671366533 11-18-2022, 04:06 PM
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pathetic display, OPie srs

get a molecule of self worth and dump that dumb bitch
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post 1671367023 11-18-2022, 04:13 PM
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sounds like the tours been over for a long-time bro


cut your losses and move on
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post 1671367253 11-18-2022, 04:17 PM
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Anyone have cliffs and pics? (Ded fkn Srs)
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