Its intolerable for a few reasons. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with fear/insecurity.

- Its disrespectful to their husband/ boyfriend. We know these dudes are just waiting for a chance to fukk or slide in if things get rocky.
- It opens the door for emotional issues with the woman. They are emotional creatures. They might love their husband and never intend on cheating. But that doesn't mean they won't develop feelings for that other person.
- Out of all of the people on the planet. All of the females on the planet. They choose to be friends with and spend time/ energy cultivating a relationship with someone that wants their relationship to fail/ wants to **** them.


If a married woman is willing to be 'friends.' She's open to flirting and sexual innuendo's. And due to women being on emotional roller-coaster's they are also prone to cheating if you catch them at just the right time. The amount of women that are happily married in a loving relationship that have no desire to leave their husband who will fukk another guy is staggering.



I know guys like to cope with the thought that their woman won't cheat. They aren't 'insecure' so its not a big deal. Etc. But at the end of the day if guys could pick their wife/gf's friends. They wouldn't be picking dudes to be part of their friend group. The simple truth is cheaters cheat and loyal people don't. But you don't have to tolerate some guy trying to push your woman's boundaries and trying to **** her by playing the long game. Furthermore if your woman insists he's just a friend and isn't flirty sometimes/hasn't tried to **** her, she's probably lying.



My rule of thumb has always been simple. If a woman won't drop her guy friends for you. Plow other women on the side and don't get attached.

It's not to do with the guy in the relationship, it's to do with other dudes. Let's be real, no guy hangs out with a woman because they 'have so much in common'. It's always because the dude's a vulture waiting for an opportunity to smash.