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post 1671978683 11-29-2022, 03:12 PM
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Mindblowing some of you marriedcels are okay with your wife having male friends

Tell me you are a cuck without saying it.
post 1671979083 11-29-2022, 03:19 PM
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Do you have any female friends?
post 1671979093 11-29-2022, 03:20 PM
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its ok, aslong as
she doesnt stay too
long at his house.
post 1671979533 11-29-2022, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Destor
Do you have any female friends?
No. If I'm talking to a girl, it's 100% because I plan to fk her in the future.
post 1671979643 11-29-2022, 03:30 PM
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Mind blowing? As if any of these loser miscers are high value enough bots too their wife seeing male friends.
post 1671980403 11-29-2022, 03:40 PM
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A true alpha isn’t worried.

If you are a beta I can understand your concerns.

Dead srs
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post 1671980733 11-29-2022, 03:44 PM
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My wife has several very gay male friends. I can only think of one male coworker she's befriended. Our families get together for special occasions once in awhile. My wife has never had a problem with me having some female friends.
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post 1671980923 11-29-2022, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Mike1991
A true alpha isn’t worried.

If you are a beta I can understand your concerns.

Dead srs
Why wife a sloot who wants to have male friends in the first place?

Would you say you are more 'alpha' (cringy term, btw) than Andrew Tate by any metric?
post 1671981383 11-29-2022, 03:52 PM
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My wife is still friends with dudes who desperately wanted to date her when we were younger. They live across the country and sometimes stop by if they're in the area. I think it's hysterical that these dudes are still hung up on my wife.

Meanwhile if the knew her they'd have been glad I ate the bullet for them...
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post 1671981453 11-29-2022, 03:53 PM
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An Alpha knows he will kick her ass to the curb and never think about her again if she gets caught cheating.
post 1671981703 11-29-2022, 03:56 PM
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Chit like this is symptomatic of a power imbalance in the woman’s favor in the relationship (which is most relationships). The only real power is sexual demand. If you have more demand than your girl, you won’t need to control her because she’ll never even consider doing some dumb chit like this that may displease you. But if the power is in her favor, good luck, she’s ultimately going to do whatever she wants and you’re the bad guy
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post 1671982003 11-29-2022, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Mike1991
A true alpha isn’t worried.

If you are a beta I can understand your concerns.

Dead srs
Half agree, a true alpha also knows how to set boundaries on what kind of friendships are okay, as it is also fair for a female to do the same with her husband.
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post 1671982273 11-29-2022, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
Half agree, a true alpha also knows how to set boundaries on what kind of friendships are okay, as it is also fair for a female to do the same with her husband.
Don't disagree but when you think you've got her so wrapped around your finger and you're still a HVM in your mid-50's WGAF? Is my chick gonna cheat on me with someone who's uglier, makes less cash, is in much worse shape, isn't tall, doesn't have my hair, etc?

Zero chance of that.
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post 1671982543 11-29-2022, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By SillieBazzillie
Don't disagree but when you think you've got her so wrapped around your finger and you're still a HVM in your mid-50's WGAF? Is my chick gonna cheat on me with someone who's uglier, makes less cash, is in much worse shape, isn't tall, doesn't have my hair, etc?

Zero chance of that.
Not zero chance of that, typical narcissist delusion to to think this way actually. “She’d never cheat on me” and then she does for someone who is more emotionally available and attentive. Happens all the time. In general any bish could cheat on you. You can’t be overly worried about that possibility imo or overinvest to the point where if it happened you’d be ruined
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post 1671982823 11-29-2022, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By SillieBazzillie
Don't disagree but when you think you've got her so wrapped around your finger and you're still a HVM in your mid-50's WGAF? Is my chick gonna cheat on me with someone who's uglier, makes less cash, is in much worse shape, isn't tall, doesn't have my hair, etc?

Zero chance of that.
the chances are low...but never zero.
post 1671982953 11-29-2022, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By SillieBazzillie
Don't disagree but when you think you've got her so wrapped around your finger and you're still a HVM in your mid-50's WGAF? Is my chick gonna cheat on me with someone who's uglier, makes less cash, is in much worse shape, isn't tall, doesn't have my hair, etc?

Zero chance of that.
I have NFC because I have not been in my mid 50s yet so youve got me on that one
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post 1671983013 11-29-2022, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok
Not zero chance of that, typical narcissist delusion to to think this way actually. “She’d never cheat on me” and then she does for someone who is more emotionally available and attentive. Happens all the time. In general any bish could cheat on you. You can’t be overly worried about that possibility imo or overinvest to the point where if it happened you’d be ruined
this is also true, women and cheaters in general do not always cheat up, and in fact very commonly cheat down. It is a bit narcissistic to think just because of the qualities you have you can control another person's behavior. At best you reduce the risk of it happening but never to zero.
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post 1671983133 11-29-2022, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
this is also true, women and cheaters in general do not always cheat up, and in fact very commonly cheat down. It is a bit narcissistic to think just because of the qualities you have you can control another person's behavior. At best you reduce the risk of it happening but never to zero.
Exactly. And conversely, looking better than your girl could exasperate her insecurities causing her to seek outside validation. Never say “this thing could never happen to me” because then you’re setting yourself up to be a huge fool when it does
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post 1671988573 11-29-2022, 05:51 PM
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Its intolerable for a few reasons. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with fear/insecurity.

- Its disrespectful to their husband/ boyfriend. We know these dudes are just waiting for a chance to fukk or slide in if things get rocky.
- It opens the door for emotional issues with the woman. They are emotional creatures. They might love their husband and never intend on cheating. But that doesn't mean they won't develop feelings for that other person.
- Out of all of the people on the planet. All of the females on the planet. They choose to be friends with and spend time/ energy cultivating a relationship with someone that wants their relationship to fail/ wants to **** them.


If a married woman is willing to be 'friends.' She's open to flirting and sexual innuendo's. And due to women being on emotional roller-coaster's they are also prone to cheating if you catch them at just the right time. The amount of women that are happily married in a loving relationship that have no desire to leave their husband who will fukk another guy is staggering.



I know guys like to cope with the thought that their woman won't cheat. They aren't 'insecure' so its not a big deal. Etc. But at the end of the day if guys could pick their wife/gf's friends. They wouldn't be picking dudes to be part of their friend group. The simple truth is cheaters cheat and loyal people don't. But you don't have to tolerate some guy trying to push your woman's boundaries and trying to **** her by playing the long game. Furthermore if your woman insists he's just a friend and isn't flirty sometimes/hasn't tried to **** her, she's probably lying.



My rule of thumb has always been simple. If a woman won't drop her guy friends for you. Plow other women on the side and don't get attached.
post 1671988663 11-29-2022, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted By guest89
Its intolerable for a few reasons. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with fear/insecurity.

- Its disrespectful to their husband/ boyfriend. We know these dudes are just waiting for a chance to fukk or slide in if things get rocky.
- It opens the door for emotional issues with the woman. They are emotional creatures. They might love their husband and never intend on cheating. But that doesn't mean they won't develop feelings for that other person.
- Out of all of the people on the planet. All of the females on the planet. They choose to be friends with and spend time/ energy cultivating a relationship with someone that wants their relationship to fail/ wants to **** them.


If a married woman is willing to be 'friends.' She's open to flirting and sexual innuendo's. And due to women being on emotional roller-coaster's they are also prone to cheating if you catch them at just the right time. The amount of women that are happily married in a loving relationship that have no desire to leave their husband who will fukk another guy is staggering.



I know guys like to cope with the thought that their woman won't cheat. They aren't 'insecure' so its not a big deal. Etc. But at the end of the day if guys could pick their wife/gf's friends. They wouldn't be picking dudes to be part of their friend group.

The simple truth is cheaters cheat and loyal people don't. But you don't have to tolerate some guy trying to push your woman's boundaries and trying to **** her by playing the long game. Furthermore if your woman insists he's just a friend and isn't flirty sometimes/hasn't tried to **** her, she's probably lying.
I have female friends who I would never flirt with or make advances on or am lingering around waiting for. I also believe I am not the only man on this planet or even close to who has this same relationship with some women. That is why I can not think it fair to say a woman should not have male friends, and it is based on boundaries.
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Gf has a few guy friends. Sometimes she sleeps over there if there is a party. I don't mind as long as she answers her phone when I call. Rarely she doesn't.
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Originally Posted By Gaedj
No. If I'm talking to a girl, it's 100% because I plan to fk her in the future.
What if she's ugly and boring but kind and is friends with one of your friends and you're not tryna f*ck her.

What then
post 1671989043 11-29-2022, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Mike1991
A true alpha isn’t worried.

If you are a beta I can understand your concerns.

Dead srs
Cringe

you think james bond would allow his sloots to have male friends lmao
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post 1671990033 11-29-2022, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
I have female friends who I would never flirt with or make advances on or am lingering around waiting for. I also believe I am not the only man on this planet or even close to who has this same relationship with some women. That is why I can not think it fair to say a woman should not have male friends, and it is based on boundaries.
Maybe, but that assumes the 'guy friend' in question has ethics/integrity. I know a lot of guys that have had affairs with a lot of women that are married/in relationships. In general I don't trust the intentions of other men. Especially where an attractive female is concerned.



I'm a fairly laid back guy. But I would never compromise on this. I'd also never argue or negotiate this. I'm not going to be monogamous with anyone that texts/snapchats/hangs out with other guys.



Also want to say my GF has a couple of gays that she's friends with and has basically known for 20+ years that I don't care about. But those dudes are also harmless twinks and I don't necessarily think of them as men.
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Originally Posted By guest89
Maybe, but that assumes the 'guy friend' in question has ethics/integrity. I know a lot of guys that have had affairs with a lot of women that are married/in relationships. In general I don't trust the intentions of other men. Especially where an attractive female is concerned.



I'm a fairly laid back guy. But I would never compromise on this. I'd also never argue or negotiate this.

I'm not going to be monogamous with anyone that texts/snapchats/hangs out with other guys.
Are you okay with your girl texting other men if she doesn't talk about anything sexual and doesn't meet them in real life?
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Lol you’re an incel who acts like an 8 year old. Lol at being so insecure.
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Originally Posted By Mike1991
A true alpha isn’t worried.

If you are a beta I can understand your concerns.

Dead srs
I never gave a fuk, then my old lady fuked another dude.

That caught my attention though, but I still dgaf what my gf does.
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Originally Posted By Gaedj
No. If I'm talking to a girl, it's 100% because I plan to fk her in the future.
this. people dont make 'friends' with the opposite gender. unless you are a ****ggot
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post 1671990813 11-29-2022, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Gryphonly
Lol you’re an incel who acts like an 8 year old. Lol at being so insecure.
You sound like a brainwashed feminist. Did acting like a ****git ever help you score a poosy?
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