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» Complete waste of time trying to figure out why a woman is NOT attracted to you?
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post 1673467913 12-24-2022, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined
I'm pretty much the same except I get 2nd looks from HBBs (hooter, bartenders, twin peaks girl caliber). Still struggle with 6s+ when it comes to getting laid consistently.

Don't even think about why a woman isn't attracted to you these days. Dating is a joke and should be a side mission. Too many variables and they'll never tell you the truth.
Coulda been anything from an ex to a new Tinder match tingling her vag. Complete waste of time. When it comes to us they seem to go to whichever cock the wind blows them to.
Yep. My last smash was a Twin Peaks girl, ded fkn srs.

Misc brethren speaking some balanced reasoning ITT, thanks bros.
Originally Posted By Briangumble
What if any, do you think your flaws are? Do you make good money or have a good career? Your own house?
I have plenty of flaws. Without going into too much detail, I'd say I bring a good bit to the table though from an overall perspective of looks, personality, talents, education & career, and general future outlook.

Have a solid career but am rentoid. I live in one of the most expensive U.S. cities though, so buying here seems laughable on one income.
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post 1673468163 12-24-2022, 03:53 PM
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post 1673468743 12-24-2022, 04:07 PM
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In my experience.. 1000%

But when they are into you.. its VERY obvious

Usually the ones I'm able to make laugh until they piss themselves seem to like me the most and stay around

I think if youre a chad.. you generally figure it out early in life.. if not.. if you have to question it.. you arent and just gonna be that guy and just gotta jestermax or careermax just to get an average girl
lifting helps too.


but still.. Idk.. I observe the same sht as you. Seeing unaesthetic guys with hot girls pretty much every day.. most of the time actually.
prolly cuz chads don't do relationships
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post 1673469573 12-24-2022, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah
You don’t have a good enough job most likely (very srs). Ever since I became an anesthetist and make $300k a year now I can have my pick of women basically (srs). Also growing a beard helped a lot and lifting weights helped a lot too but the biggest one was my job. I get 10x more matches now that I save people’s lives for a living and make bank than when I was just a bachelors in neuroscience applying to schools. Women want someone who can provide for them and protect them. Men want someone they can put a baby in and **** all the time.


Looks, money, status. A great job is 2/3 of those (money and status). Personality matters too so be comfortable with yourself too.
lold @ 'saving lives'

You're just putting people asleep by giving them drugs
post 1673470213 12-24-2022, 04:40 PM
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If you're chasing women hard, then chit changes once you've nailed them down for a bit, because it wasn't the real you/you ain't keeping that chit up.

Be yourself, increase your value (for yourself). Chicks will come.
post 1673470433 12-24-2022, 04:47 PM
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We’re only human so you can’t help but think about why does that 10 not like my look. I have no problem attracting attractive girls but there are many absolute bomb looking my perfect 10 that gives zero ****s about me. And I think to myself what does it take for these girls to be wowed. Then you start thinking about your flaws, I’m not loaded with money, I’m not tall, etc. We just gotta remember that these super hot girls can have whoever they want. So they can get that guy in the 1%, and when it’s not us we try to understand why, there’s a certain type of girl that most of us just don’t have access too. A lot of these girls don’t even go for the super hot guy. Guys that have money and clout have bigger reach with woman than just an attractive guy. And that’s where my issue is with these 10’s. They want guys with money and clout. And also guys that have everything, basically no flaws at all. I can’t and will never be able to compete with that.
post 1673470473 12-24-2022, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By CaseinPoint
If you're chasing women hard, then chit changes once you've nailed them down for a bit, because it wasn't the real you/you ain't keeping that chit up.

Be yourself, increase your value (for yourself). Chicks will come.
women are extremely perceptive of falsehoods, which is why they are so good at lying. but its no big deal it is in their nature. all the great philosophers have one common thread, to be true to yourself. It is said so often it becomes meaningless and overlooked, but it is one of the hardest things for a man to do because it requires complete self trust, few truly are themselves.
post 1673470493 12-24-2022, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826
We’re only human so you can’t help but think about why does that 10 not like my look. I have no problem attracting attractive girls but there are many absolute bomb looking my perfect 10 that gives zero ****s about me. And I think to myself what does it take for these girls to be wowed. Then you start thinking about your flaws, I’m not loaded with money, I’m not tall, etc. We just gotta remember that these super hot girls can have whoever they want. So they can get that guy in the 1%, and when it’s not us we try to understand why, there’s a certain type of girl that most of us just don’t have access too. A lot of these girls don’t even go for the super hot guy. Guys that have money and clout have bigger reach with woman than just an attractive guy. And that’s where my issue is with these 10’s. They want guys with money and clout. And also guys that have everything, basically no flaws at all. I can’t and will never be able to compete with that.
beta mindset. I can get any girl lol.
post 1673472023 12-24-2022, 05:29 PM
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No offense but you are probably less attractive then you think and you don't know how to talk to women.


For comparison I'm 5'8. **** hairline so I keep my head shaved bald. Athletic/good physique. Fairly reserved personality. No issues dating/meeting new women/getting laid with randoms. I'm maybe a 7/10 but since I'm a manlet you can knock me down to a solid 6/10.



In theory you should be having an 'easier' time then me since you are taller and have good hair. So what gives? Most likely not facially attractive. Uninteresting. Boring/average job or person all around. Etc.

You list a bunch of positive qualities/attributes but you must have weak points. Most women have fairly low standards.
post 1673472373 12-24-2022, 05:39 PM
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Former 7 now 6 from age, some like it some dont. Just be confident in who you are and put yourself out there.

Don't waste your time you can't figure it out.
post 1673475263 12-24-2022, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By guest89
No offense but you are probably less attractive then you think and you don't know how to talk to women.


For comparison I'm 5'8. **** hairline so I keep my head shaved bald. Athletic/good physique. Fairly reserved personality. No issues dating/meeting new women/getting laid with randoms. I'm maybe a 7/10 but since I'm a manlet you can knock me down to a solid 6/10.



In theory you should be having an 'easier' time then me since you are taller and have good hair. So what gives? Most likely not facially attractive. Uninteresting. Boring/average job or person all around. Etc.

You list a bunch of positive qualities/attributes but you must have weak points. Most women have fairly low standards.
I rated myself a 6.5 dude.

I've slept with 40 women in my 34 years...that's after having only been with the high school broad until my mid/late-20s.

Only a few of those smashes would I take back.

So I don't think it's that I struggle talking to women, or that I'm ugly.

Things have changed for the worse for every non-Chad since social media blew up.

Definitely didn't have this much trouble pre-2012 (no eod).
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post 1673475833 12-24-2022, 07:04 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah
You don’t have a good enough job most likely (very srs). Ever since I became an anesthetist and make $300k a year now I can have my pick of women basically (srs). Also growing a beard helped a lot and lifting weights helped a lot too but the biggest one was my job. I get 10x more matches now that I save people’s lives for a living and make bank than when I was just a bachelors in neuroscience applying to schools. Women want someone who can provide for them and protect them. Men want someone they can put a baby in and **** all the time.


Looks, money, status. A great job is 2/3 of those (money and status). Personality matters too so be comfortable with yourself too.
Lol you are so wrong. I’m 26 making 300k at a prestigious tech company everyone knows. Girls do NOT care when dating
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post 1673476083 12-24-2022, 07:08 PM
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Are you putting these women on a pedestal or something? It sounds like you are coming off as needy or over-investing.

Try not giving a chit what they think of you. Treat them as objects you use to gratify your needs and watch how the worm turns. Once you get them chasing you instead of you chasing them the script flips and you will find yourself in a much happier position.

Don't try to win their affection, if they don't show immediate interest in you and aren't hitting you up to go out then disregard and find another one.
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post 1673476413 12-24-2022, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By HokieBrah
Lol you are so wrong. I’m 26 making 300k at a prestigious tech company everyone knows. Girls do NOT care when dating
Gonna have to agree.

I have my 2nd prestigious job that pays relatively well. (I often work with star athletes and celebrities) but yeah it don't matter that much unless you have private jet, supercar money.
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post 1673476903 12-24-2022, 07:29 PM
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Women don't care that much about looks brah. Plenty of 5/10s are out there with 8/10 females.
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