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post 1676935893 02-10-2023, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Like others have said it happens and it's normal. I will say though if the above keeps happening, that's not normal at your age and I would make an appt with your doctor.
Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
At 21 years old? Yeah that's worrisome. I'm 32 and have never had that happen to me.
That’s why I’m saying something must be wrong. I have had a pain in my lower back for some time now too. Maybe a nerve is being hit?

Have not felt horny for a week either
post 1676935933 02-10-2023, 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
Just get viagra its not worth the headache. Probably just your mind running too much its a normal proble. Contact your local wickr groups for a quick hookup or try those private doctors you can use online & get the receipt asap. I do that chit, costs like 30 bucks for the consultation via chat & get the new receipt instantly.
Scroll up I’ve told my age
post 1676936033 02-10-2023, 02:08 PM
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At 21 this isn’t normal. I was bricked up 24/7 @ 21, felt good men
post 1676936083 02-10-2023, 02:08 PM
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post 1676936153 02-10-2023, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted By headturner1⏩
At 21 this isn’t normal. I was bricked up 24/7 @ 21, felt good men
I am normally srs. Just past two weeks have been weird. And on wednesday afternoon I got a semi when she was texting slooty things she would do to me later, but couldn’t get hard at all that evening even when she was fully undressed and tried her best by grinding her ass on my dink.
post 1676936203 02-10-2023, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Scottybby⏩
That’s why I’m saying something must be wrong. I have had a pain in my lower back for some time now too. Maybe a nerve is being hit?

Have not felt horny for a week either
I'm not a doctor but the pain in your lower back, possible kidney stone...that would mess things up. Doesn't hurt to make an appt and get checked out.

Feel better.
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post 1676936213 02-10-2023, 02:12 PM
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Not sure what everyone else is talking about it’s not normal.

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post 1676936333 02-10-2023, 02:15 PM
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This forum is full of retards, incels, and trolls.

It's just anxiety unless you legit have no sex drive.
post 1676936423 02-10-2023, 02:17 PM
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By the tone of your replies, you're obviously anxious, that's going to make it 10x worse, calm down a little, learn to meditate, biofeedback, once you're calm, you'll be fine.
post 1676936463 02-10-2023, 02:18 PM
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happened to me many times

it's all in your head, probably performance anxiety.

next time relax, make some drinks or watch a movie with her before banging her brains out (ded srs)
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post 1676936543 02-10-2023, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
Doesnt matter dude. Its psychological erectile dysfunction. Theres nothing wrong with you lmao, youre 21. Mf i got a viagra receipt at 17 because i got that chit after ripping my cawk druing a sesh.
Even after i got over it, sometimes i might have some feels on the back of my mind, so when it gets down to business i cant fully get in the mood & chit wont work.
Now that you failed once and youre a anxious teenager, youre going to get into a spiral & its only going to get worse srs. Pop the blue a couple times and youre good, then u wont need it anymore.
Also its just a vasodiolator, it literally lowers your bloodpressure, making your veins bigger. Its prettymuch stronger citrulline malate. You wont die
I see what you’re saying
Just feels abnormal and might be an indicator something is wrong with my body?
Originally Posted By Midi77⏩
By the tone of your replies, you're obviously anxious, that's going to make it 10x worse, calm down a little, learn to meditate, biofeedback, once you're calm, you'll be fine.
Yeah im obv worried about my dick and frustrated and sad
post 1676936553 02-10-2023, 02:19 PM
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It’s cause you’re gay srs
post 1676936663 02-10-2023, 02:21 PM
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most likely aniexty, But dont worry you wont be the only one that it has happend too. I think every man has had it a few times.

try it enjoy it more then instead of focusing on performing.

(eat nuts) healthy fats.
get enough sleep.
there are also herbal supplements for blood flow.
post 1676936723 02-10-2023, 02:22 PM
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ED at 21? Damn, tour's over bro.

Sounds like anxiety though, too worried about performance effects performance.
post 1676936843 02-10-2023, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By LiveLaughLoath⏩
This forum is full of retards, incels, and trolls.

It's just anxiety unless you legit have no sex drive.
Originally Posted By CeBKa⏩
happened to me many times

it's all in your head, probably performance anxiety.

next time relax, make some drinks or watch a movie with her before banging her brains out (ded srs)
You guys keep saying anxiety but what do you mean? I wanted her really bad and she is into me. I know she thinks I’m goodlooking and wanted to fuk me too. I wanted to fuk her and in my head she and the whole situation was hot as fuk. But my dick just had no feeling srs. Best I got was a semi and then she tried putting it in while on top and it just flopped right out. then after it bend so couldnt even get in
post 1676937023 02-10-2023, 02:26 PM
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Now it will be in your head and you'll be focused on hoping you get hard next time
post 1676937083 02-10-2023, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Titansfan08⏩
Now it will be in your head and you'll be focused on hoping you get hard next time
Okay so what do i do about it?
post 1676937143 02-10-2023, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Scottybby⏩
Okay so what do i do about it?
If it were me I'd try a viagra to get you some confidence back that you know you can bang her good.
post 1676937193 02-10-2023, 02:30 PM
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Would make a doctor's appointment just to be sure.
post 1676937263 02-10-2023, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
Would make a doctor's appointment just to be sure.
Lol i have a female huisarts. Just tell her I couldn’t get hard once?
post 1676937323 02-10-2023, 02:33 PM
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sounds like you need to consider trt + cialis
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post 1676937663 02-10-2023, 02:40 PM
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neither could i

but i was wasted and she was fat
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post 1676937723 02-10-2023, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
sounds like you need to consider trt + cialis
I can’t get this or viagra without a prescription
post 1676938193 02-10-2023, 02:54 PM
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Maybe you're just not really that attracted to her specifically, but you feel like you should be. Could be something about her that isn't clicking for you
post 1676938233 02-10-2023, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted By LDARidonot⏩
Maybe you're just not really that attracted to her, but you feel like you should be. Could be something about her that isn't clicking for you
Could also be the case. I don’t know her that well (met her about a month ago) and aren’t in a relationship. But we def click personality wise and always have a great time chilling. I am certainly not in love with her but find her really really hot and have lust for her
post 1676938483 02-10-2023, 03:03 PM
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It’s all mental. Putting too much pressure on yourself because she’s hot and you like her. Maybe you rushed into it and weren’t quite ready. It doesn’t sound very manly and keeping with the stereotype that we are all brutes capable all the time, but it happens.

Next time you can take it slower, do oral and other stuff, focus on her and not put pressure on yourself, since she’s ok with it and you’ve communicated about it, it’s fine. Even say some **** like “I usually don’t have intercourse in the first dates”. But then of course you will anyway, as the expectation and pressure is off.

Also 21 is still pretty young so you’re still discovering yourself sexually what your style is and what you like and works for you. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Finally you can do all the typical things like taking the right vitamins, no porn, sleep etc but at your age it’s not even an issue, it’s more a placebo. Dick pills won’t matter if it’s mental, and at your age not necessary. I’d wait and have them as final resort. You don’t wanna keep relying on that.
post 1676939043 02-10-2023, 03:14 PM
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I only get this when the vibe is off or if the sloot smells.

But if we're connected emotionally then I'm rock hard, no homo

Its all psychological. You have to feel safe and secure to get a boner. Anxiety or stress will fuk it up
post 1676939223 02-10-2023, 03:18 PM
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post 1676939633 02-10-2023, 03:25 PM
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Are you cutting/dieting? I find i can lose some libido during that time.
But as Gios said above, just relax next time and focus on pleasuring her. I find watching them cum as I’m eating them out very boner inducing.
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post 1676939873 02-10-2023, 03:29 PM
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