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post 1681737693 04-29-2023, 03:03 PM
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post 1681737913 04-29-2023, 03:07 PM
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You're not wrong at all

I would wtf at her and go nc

wtf was she thinking? Just straight up disrespectful and insane to text you to still come thinking it's a normal situation
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post 1681737943 04-29-2023, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
You're annoyed because your feels got hurt. She started selling you the dream (low body count, good girl, doesn't like ONS, wants a relationship bla bla bla) and you fell for it, started to like her and then she was on some other dik as soon as you weren't around.

Look at her actions, not what she says.

She's not GF material. I'd keep her around to smash if she's hot/good in bed, otherwise next it.
Came in to say this.

Selling the dream is a real thing, then actions being different. Major red flag for me.
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post 1681738113 04-29-2023, 03:14 PM
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She’s just not that into you, OP. She never will be. Let that sink in.
post 1681738153 04-29-2023, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
Came in to say this.

Selling the dream is a real thing, then actions being different. Major red flag for me.
Lol, yeah selling the dream is fairly typical Narcissist sloot behavior to speed up the passionate part of the relationship.
post 1681738183 04-29-2023, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By severagee⏩
Ty brother. I may be a hypocrite; I did sext this one tinder girl a couple times since classmate and I started sleeping together. But haven't met up with anyone else since. And I think you're right about her wanting me to fight for her attention. Continually inviting me out last night to come with her to the club when I'm 70 pounds/7 inches bigger than this dude she walked in with.

She's been snapping me/sending memes all day, I've just been leaving her on read. Part of me wonders if she even knows I'm annoyed, but nobody can be that oblivious.

I had zero intent of becoming official with her, but may have caught feelings for her more than I want to admit since she and I have been so close since day 1.
She's trying to rile you up - some girls (and guys) get off on being able to control other people's emotions. Just play it cool, hit the "ha-ha" reaction to some of the memes and don't let her know she got to you. If she asks, just say you were busy or w/e. If she wants to play oblivious, you can too lol.

IMO you got off pretty easy here, got a couple good smashes in and have a good reason to exit stage left as soon as she showed her true nature. Charge this one to the game and keep hustlin cuz!
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post 1681738793 04-29-2023, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By paramparam⏩
This. Its a redflag sure, but most likely she just being a young sloot playing young sloot games. I think she wants you OP. telling the friends kinda seals the deal.
Situation is.. op can't win now.
He ignores her and then the manlet keeps texting her, sleeps with her, maybe sexes her better.
shes already been deprived for a bit..
then, the manlet wins.

nc is best

just trying to think of her logic of inviting op out with her WHILE shes with the other guy..
maybe some weird way she can have them in some sort of competition for her and compare side by side.. probably didnt even plan it that way but her sloot brain did unconsciously
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post 1681738973 04-29-2023, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol, yeah selling the dream is fairly typical Narcissist sloot behavior to speed up the passionate part of the relationship.
I wouldn't say its to speed up the passion. It's the same old fashioned "Ive never done this before; I would never; Hard Nos, I'm not usually like this..." and then doing exactly opposite. Trying to protect an image. it's easier just to be honest and throw the truths out there. At least we have the info and can do something with it. otherwise, we learn to never trust. it will itch at us forever. Trust me.
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post 1681739333 04-29-2023, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By severagee⏩
She's been snapping me/sending memes all day, I've just been leaving her on read. Part of me wonders if she even knows I'm annoyed, but nobody can be that oblivious.
lmao.. sounds like she is..

a lot of sloots have a ton of guy friends and think nothing of it.

not the type of sloot you want to date though
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post 1681739523 04-29-2023, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
Situation is.. op can't win now.
He ignores her and then the manlet keeps texting her, sleeps with her, maybe sexes her better.
shes already been deprived for a bit..
then, the manlet wins.

nc is best

just trying to think of her logic of inviting op out with her WHILE shes with the other guy..
maybe some weird way she can have them in some sort of competition for her and compare side by side.. probably didnt even plan it that way but her sloot brain did unconsciously
Yeah i backtracked on my opinion, i didnt read the thread properly first. I totally missed that sloot was in the concert w manlet first without asking OP to show up.
If she was like that since the start then yeah maybe id let it slide but not after she decides manlet is no good.
post 1681739973 04-29-2023, 03:57 PM
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yes you have a right to be annoyed. realistically you shouldn't be though. be glad you smashed a few times and dont take it personally.

girls that hookup with classmates always have a similar story, "cant do casual sex", "want to date", whatever because you see the same people, everyday, for 4 years. If you get the rep of being a sloot, EVERYONE in your close circle and everyone you see each day knows that

I can almost guarantee if you weren't in her class, shed of been more straight up since she would of been less concerned about others hearing about it

she also is likely playing games to fuk with you
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post 1681740813 04-29-2023, 04:13 PM
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Just act like nothing happened and nothing bothers you at all.
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post 1681741243 04-29-2023, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Just act like nothing happened and nothing bothers you at all.
This, and keep in mind, a chitty as she is being towards you, she’s being much worse to her online date. Lol at hanging out with casual smashes while on a date.
post 1681742843 04-29-2023, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
This, and keep in mind, a chitty as she is being towards you, she’s being much worse to her online date. Lol at hanging out with casual smashes while on a date.
I doubt she's being terrible to the manlet, he's just a date that she probably isn't making promises to. She's has all the power there, so she'll either choose to have sex with the manlet, or likely she will just use him as company and give him nothing.
post 1681743393 04-29-2023, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Just act like nothing happened and nothing bothers you at all.
Ding ding ding, winner and still champion.

Casual = casual, so she can have 6 dates next week and sleep with you on Sunday.
If you don't clarify status, then it is always casual.
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post 1681743513 04-29-2023, 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I doubt she's being terrible to the manlet, he's just a date that she probably isn't making promises to. She's has all the power there, so she'll either choose to have sex with the manlet, or likely she will just use him as company and give him nothing.
True, but I’d be pretty insulted if my date took me out with a friend group including a guy she’s been fuking on the side. But I didn’t date people without there being a chance that it could lead to more.
post 1681743973 04-29-2023, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted By 3fifty⏩
Misc will be full of immature responses so be selective in what you read.


Honestly, the mature answer is no, you should probably let this slide. It's not fantastic, it may be a SLIGHT red flag, but in all reality you two haven't had a talk about exclusivity yet. If you two think there could be something there (which is usually worth knowing/finding out), talk about it with her. Just tell her maybe you two should try it out, see if she's down to be exclusive and take this seriously for a month or two.


If she does stuff like this after that talk, yes, of course. That's a red flag and worthy of ending unless you got some sign/reason to think you shouldn't, but if you haven't had that talk, no, don't end a possibility because of this. You two aren't exclusive yet.
I was thinking this too.^^

Maybe she was thinking you didn't want anything more? I don't know but it sounds like you need to have conversation about where you might want to take it.

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post 1681767033 04-30-2023, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
It's over
Now go be happy
post 1681767213 04-30-2023, 04:37 AM
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You guys who fall for this chit are all idiots

If you don't live with one another or within 10 mins of one another where the visit pop in is a distinct possibility, you can tell her whatever you want but you should still be playing around with other women because you damn sure know she'll be doing the same.
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