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Thread: Am I the ******* here? (Dating 30+)

post 1683764653 05-31-2023, 09:32 PM
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Originally Posted By HighTide11⏩
I’m back at work now and texted her to see what’s up and why she’s acting cold. She says she lost respect for me. Only thing I can think of is because I didn’t want to immediately date her after that week of interaction.

Thoughts? She flat out said she lost respect for me, which for me is a complete insult, as if I’m a scum bag. She initiated the flirtation with me so I initiated the physical contact for sure but wtf?
Yeah, I don't think it's that complicated. Your gut is right. You hurt her with your lack of interest in a relationship (totally legit), and she struck out at you with the loss of respect comment, knowing where to hit you. You did nothing wrong. Now she's just being a fickle, manipulative bitch who isn't worth a second thought. And bitches like this hate when you go NC, because they crave those games and by withholding, you're not letting her play. Sounds like you already have better options, hell solitude would be a better option. Next her.
post 1683764943 05-31-2023, 09:39 PM
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Awesome pics

Srsly 10/10
post 1683765003 05-31-2023, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted By HighTide11⏩
Yeah that’s the plan. I’ve got a few I’m chatting up right now so I’m sure I’ll be over this soon but the “lost respect” comment just triggered me hard for some reason. She made the comment at 7pm tonight so it was fresh.
It triggered you because that was the point. She knew you liked her because you were chasing.
post 1683767273 05-31-2023, 10:27 PM
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One of two theories

A) she’s not used to modern dating/ hook up culture and got butt hurt that you weren’t down to say you weren’t seeing other girls from the beginning.

B) she’s a total slut that got passed around the cock carousel and one of her girlfriends told her no sex without commitment.


I’d say most likely A, because a true slut wouldn’t be able to contain herself and would have craved the cock in front of her.

Either way she’s obviously crazy so best to let het go but the only response is either NC or putting the guilt back on her by saying something like “sucks you feel that way I thought we were having fun together.”

But who wants to deal with a B like that
post 1683768133 05-31-2023, 10:46 PM
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Ask her why but anyways who gives a fuk. If you aren’t getting sex and don’t think she’s got an incredible personality then you’re massively wasting your time lol.
post 1683768703 05-31-2023, 10:58 PM
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she sounds retarded and thinks you're gonna play the game with her. Using sex as leverage. Thinks she has the upper hand. Just ghost her and see who has the upper hand ahahahaha





lucky though. **** never happens to me mane
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post 1683769913 05-31-2023, 11:26 PM
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I’ve already decided I’m going with the no contact. If I decide I want to be petty about it or if she texts me at some point and I want to make her feel like poop, I know she cleans her yard on fridays like clock work.
She said she will see me in the neighborhood if I want to talk about it, I’ll walk the dog again and will just walk right past her without acknowledging her if she even try’s to say hi, but to be honest I’m not even upset or bothered anymore about this so I know I won’t even do that.

I’ll just keep doing my yard work shirtless and make her regret her decisions.
post 1683770383 05-31-2023, 11:42 PM
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awesome pics. didnt read. negged
post 1683770663 05-31-2023, 11:49 PM
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Become "exclusive", bang that old poon and buy her house for a discount. Then go NC.
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