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post 1687420503 07-29-2023, 02:05 PM
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congrats!
post 1687420963 07-29-2023, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
Grats dude.

I was ambivalent about having a kid until she was born and I saw her face, at which point it hit me. You can't explain it properly to somebody who hasn't experienced it.

Wait until their face lights up and they shout "dadda" when you come home; it will wreck you.
Right? My wife and I have had ample time to enjoy a fantastic relationship, travel, the ups and downs and so on. I'll never forget the moment where she told me she was pregnant, and now the first cry of our little baby.

I couldn't understand, as you say, until now. And now - egads man, I can't wait to hear her say "papa" the first time haha.
post 1687423833 07-29-2023, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Right? My wife and I have had ample time to enjoy a fantastic relationship, travel, the ups and downs and so on. I'll never forget the moment where she told me she was pregnant, and now the first cry of our little baby.

I couldn't understand, as you say, until now. And now - egads man, I can't wait to hear her say "papa" the first time haha.
I lived a pretty wild life before I got married and had a child. It changed my life for the better in so many ways.

I know the joy you have just experienced and it only gets better.

Congrats.
post 1687424243 07-29-2023, 03:27 PM
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Congratulations! Being a father is my favorite part of my life's journey.
post 1687424513 07-29-2023, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Haha yeah, so everyone says. How many kids do you have now?

This is our first, can't imagine folks who have 5 (a colleague of mine does).

Damn.
Just the one. Such a lovely, manageable number.

Honestly, hell is only the first few months. Some guys are different, but I hated the newborn stage. They can't do ANYTHING. They're basically just decorations at that stage. Cute, useless decorations that chit a lot, have a cry that can peel paint off the wall, and have a 6th sense to prevent you from doing things that could potentially create a sibling.
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post 1687424833 07-29-2023, 03:39 PM
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Enjoy it boyo. They really do grow up too fast.
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post 1687426273 07-29-2023, 04:12 PM
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post 1687427093 07-29-2023, 04:30 PM
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post 1687427283 07-29-2023, 04:35 PM
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post 1687433033 07-29-2023, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
Mazel Tov OP!
Thank you!
Originally Posted By multiplemiggs⏩
Congrats brah
Thanks breh!
Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
Man it would suck to have you as a parent. Can’t stand poor people.

Congrats OP, glad you’re not like this guy.
Thanks as well. Children are a serious commitment - I couldn't live with myself if I wasn't certain I can provide a seriously high quality of life, on top of the emotionally mature and amazing relationship I have with my wife as the bedrock for this.
post 1687433523 07-29-2023, 06:48 PM
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Congrats man. Bet it’s quite the feeling. I’ve got a few more months yet until my son arrives, then I can know the feels too
post 1687436433 07-29-2023, 08:07 PM
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Can't wait for the cope from nokidcels. Congrats OP.
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post 1687438033 07-29-2023, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Congrats boyo! I’m happy to hear the good news. On spread. And yeah, also what Gandalf said lol.
Thanks man - had no idea you were a dad too! Any words of wisdom?
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Congratulations on your baby girl!!! Enjoy every second!

And def don't do this! lol

Thanks, LOL. Seems like my singing to her in the womb helps - now at her most fussy, if I sing the song I did then she just sort of stares at me for a few minutes haha. It impressed the midwives, and my wife too.

Your son is off to college right? Apologies if I misremember.
post 1687438113 07-29-2023, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin⏩
I'm curious how some people get that "high feeling" and others don't feel anything or have negative feelings and bail (like certain demographics). Nonetheless, congrats!
I don’t feel anything. Not to say I don’t love my kids but there is no “high”. Sometimes I worry something is wrong with me.

But to OP congrats, the world needs more good dads raising strong kids. I wish you health and happiness.
post 1687438153 07-29-2023, 08:59 PM
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Congrats bro! Wishing you and your family all the best!



post 1687438483 07-29-2023, 09:10 PM
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Congrats brother! It’s a hell of a journey and one of those few things in life where most cliche sayings hold true.

A few tips you might hear a million times but, again, hold true:

1) Remember that you and your wife are a TEAM! Sleep deprivation and stress can be brutal in compromising this team, which makes game planning around the “who does what and when” to be a critical piece. There will be unexpected sh*t (some literally) that goes down, so the more you can eliminate unpredictability the better.
2) Take as many pictures and videos as you can! It’s so great being able to look back on anything and everything.
3) Listen to feedback from others but ALWAYS remember that nobody knows your baby like you and your wife do. Trust your instincts here.

Enjoy the ride!
post 1687438883 07-29-2023, 09:24 PM
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post 1687457873 07-30-2023, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By GuineaDago585⏩
Congrats brah.

Do not know these feels but every father I’ve talked to says the moment their child is born it’s a level of love nobody else could understand. One day.
Thanks dude. The feels are very different - and I couldn't understand it until it happened.
Originally Posted By rjthegreat10⏩
Congrats mate! all the best!
Thanks so much!

Glad to see the parents crew out on Misc. Those feels!
post 1687458073 07-30-2023, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By BrickEX⏩
Congrats brother! It’s a hell of a journey and one of those few things in life where most cliche sayings hold true.

A few tips you might hear a million times but, again, hold true:

1) Remember that you and your wife are a TEAM! Sleep deprivation and stress can be brutal in compromising this team, which makes game planning around the “who does what and when” to be a critical piece. There will be unexpected sh*t (some literally) that goes down, so the more you can eliminate unpredictability the better.
2) Take as many pictures and videos as you can! It’s so great being able to look back on anything and everything.
3) Listen to feedback from others but ALWAYS remember that nobody knows your baby like you and your wife do. Trust your instincts here.

Enjoy the ride!
lol @team

You forgot to add it increases the chance of divorce
post 1687458283 07-30-2023, 10:08 AM
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post 1687458753 07-30-2023, 10:17 AM
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Congratulations! It's all amazing, even the rough teen years. I loved ages 0-12!
post 1687458803 07-30-2023, 10:18 AM
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Congrats! Enjoy every second of it. I know she's a baby now and at that stage is seems like she's going to be with you forever, but in 18 years you're going to look back and wonder where the time went. My oldest will be a senior this year and it seems like just yesterday we brought him home from the hospital.
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post 1687460003 07-30-2023, 10:51 AM
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Kids are the best, man
post 1687460933 07-30-2023, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Thanks man - had no idea you were a dad too! Any words of wisdom?



Thanks, LOL. Seems like my singing to her in the womb helps - now at her most fussy, if I sing the song I did then she just sort of stares at me for a few minutes haha. It impressed the midwives, and my wife too.

Your son is off to college right? Apologies if I misremember.
Awwww that's sweet! I used to play the soundtrack to Meet Joe Black while I was pregnant and then would put it on a loop at night in my sons nursery. It seemed to help him sleep.

And he is a full fledged adult. Over 21. I took him to his first beach bar experience a few weeks ago. lol
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post 1687461463 07-30-2023, 11:27 AM
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Congrats, brah! My kid is due in December and I cannot wait for these feels.
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post 1687461563 07-30-2023, 11:29 AM
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OP, it will be interesting to see how long it is before you move house.

You can have a great house in an area that you really like as a couple, then add a baby and find the house/area doesn't work any more, as the pros and cons have completely changed.

Alot of people move house between their first child being born and that child starting kindergarten.
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Congrats dude, I hope your first child is a masculine child...
post 1687462213 07-30-2023, 11:42 AM
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congrats dude. hopefully i get those feels one day.
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Originally Posted By Broady78⏩
All the best to you and your new family....
Thank you! And that's really what it is, the new "addition to the family" as such.
Originally Posted By ParsleyTea⏩
congrats!
Thank you!

Nice to see so many parents here srs, and folks happy with the nuclear family
post 1687468693 07-30-2023, 02:04 PM
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Congratulations.

The notion of having a child until this very day intimidates me more than anything I have experienced so far. And I have served in the military, led a team of sadistic rugby players while at university and have faced people in my current line of work that have enough money and power to have you terminated without a trace on them. And Still having a child intimidates me more. srs


Perhaps it's different kind of responsibilities, ones which I am happily accepting and the other I cannot.
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