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"There is no way to justify dating an 18yo when you are 30"
08-05-2023, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
I pulled 2 wives through their education. It actually helps when one partner is already educated and making income, gives a higher chance of going for highest education level for his wife.by modern standards, its socially questionable.
The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate...
at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate...
at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
There were studies showing that gap is more socially acceptable for mature women. When 18 yo finally grow up to 45, she will be married to 57 yo man
08-05-2023, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
BasedIf, one day when I’m 50, I’m able to snag a 20-22 year old (I admit 18 does seem just a bit too young personally) I’m parading that bish around everywhere.
Imagine having this broad holding on to you knowing you are going to penetrate those walls after a fistful of cialis.
Most guys out there coping for those 30+ year old, sagging, mentally ill women.
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08-05-2023, 09:15 AM
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In all fairness, if you're a man in your 30's, then literally the only thing you should have in common with a woman who is 18 to say mid-20's-ish is sex. Most women are boring as chit until they are least well into their 20's.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Went out to the gym then coffee with some girls at the boxing club I go to 2 day ago.I’m almost 50 and I want to date a 20 year old.
They told me some guy there after class was asking about me and had been watching me. He is 20…
I told them I wasn’t looking for anything at the moment, but even if I was—I don’t think I’d be able to date that young for myself personally. Just seems very different in where our mindsets would be.
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08-05-2023, 09:30 AM
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08-05-2023, 09:30 AM
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When a women says this, she is just MAD that you preffer prime sloots and you being able to get them. Basically trying to gaslight you into thinking it is wrong so you would go to her old ass instead.
The best date I had in the past few years was with a fresh 18 year old - she had no baggage and was super carefree.
I was happy for once not to listen to depressing shyt all the time.
The best date I had in the past few years was with a fresh 18 year old - she had no baggage and was super carefree.
I was happy for once not to listen to depressing shyt all the time.
08-05-2023, 09:35 AM
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Aside from the fact that the majority of women do not take care of themselves and age terribly. Older women also carry around a ton of baggage that they absolutely cannot shut up about.
Try and find a woman 25 or older that doesn't have kids, that is happy, cheerful and never complains/talks about the following:
-Her ex
-Her past relationships
-Drama with other females
-Drama with her family
-Past dates/adventures/things she's done with other men
As someone who dated casually all throughout his 20s and early 30s. I'll tell ya. Its not likely you find a girl over 21 that isn't fukked up over some dude she dated previously. The cold hard truth is the more dudes a girl sleeps with the worse she'll be. And if she's ever been in love with someone and had that end badly. She's going to be damaged/fugged up. The majority of men learn to cope with a psychologically damaged woman who had some dude wreck her. But its never first choice.
Silencespeaks is a great example. Tons of women out there that are still fugged up over some relationship that ended 5+ years ago.
Try and find a woman 25 or older that doesn't have kids, that is happy, cheerful and never complains/talks about the following:
-Her ex
-Her past relationships
-Drama with other females
-Drama with her family
-Past dates/adventures/things she's done with other men
As someone who dated casually all throughout his 20s and early 30s. I'll tell ya. Its not likely you find a girl over 21 that isn't fukked up over some dude she dated previously. The cold hard truth is the more dudes a girl sleeps with the worse she'll be. And if she's ever been in love with someone and had that end badly. She's going to be damaged/fugged up. The majority of men learn to cope with a psychologically damaged woman who had some dude wreck her. But its never first choice.
Silencespeaks is a great example. Tons of women out there that are still fugged up over some relationship that ended 5+ years ago.
08-05-2023, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
Women like silencespeaks should be sent to concentration camps period.Aside from the fact that the majority of women do not take care of themselves and age terribly. Older women also carry around a ton of baggage that they absolutely cannot shut up about.
Try and find a woman 25 or older that doesn't have kids, that is happy, cheerful and never complains/talks about the following:
-Her ex
-Her past relationships
-Drama with other females
-Drama with her family
-Past dates/adventures/things she's done with other men
As someone who dated casually all throughout his 20s and early 30s. I'll tell ya. Its not likely you find a girl over 21 that isn't fukked up over some dude she dated previously. The cold hard truth is the more dudes a girl sleeps with the worse she'll be. And if she's ever been in love with someone and had that end badly. She's going to be damaged/fugged up. The majority of men learn to cope with a psychologically damaged woman who had some dude wreck her. But its never first choice.
Silencespeaks is a great example. Tons of women out there that are still fugged up over some relationship that ended 5+ years ago.
Try and find a woman 25 or older that doesn't have kids, that is happy, cheerful and never complains/talks about the following:
-Her ex
-Her past relationships
-Drama with other females
-Drama with her family
-Past dates/adventures/things she's done with other men
As someone who dated casually all throughout his 20s and early 30s. I'll tell ya. Its not likely you find a girl over 21 that isn't fukked up over some dude she dated previously. The cold hard truth is the more dudes a girl sleeps with the worse she'll be. And if she's ever been in love with someone and had that end badly. She's going to be damaged/fugged up. The majority of men learn to cope with a psychologically damaged woman who had some dude wreck her. But its never first choice.
Silencespeaks is a great example. Tons of women out there that are still fugged up over some relationship that ended 5+ years ago.
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My buddy is 36 and brought this awesome 21 year old girl out boating with us yesterday. Seems like he’s actually dating her. Didn’t seem odd at all, and I didn’t think she was 21 outside of when she said her age.
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There's not much value a 30 year old is gonna get in an 18 year old besides their youthful beauty and carefree (naive) disposition, let's just be real. better off just finding some girl in her early to mid 20's if you are trying to have kids or a serious relationship
I'm in my early 30's now and came back to college, and I've only met two girls around that age that I'd consider, and I thought they were both 21+ when I met them. They were intelligent, witty, calm, classy, and just had a really top tier demeanor to them and were insanely pretty. Nothing like a typical anxious, dumb, immature college freshman/sophomore.
Even as someone who has spent alot of time around zoomers over the past 4 years to finish school, and who has a ton of friends in that 19-25 range now, the maturity gap is glaring and most 30 year olds would never be able to connect with an 18 year old.
I'm in my early 30's now and came back to college, and I've only met two girls around that age that I'd consider, and I thought they were both 21+ when I met them. They were intelligent, witty, calm, classy, and just had a really top tier demeanor to them and were insanely pretty. Nothing like a typical anxious, dumb, immature college freshman/sophomore.
Even as someone who has spent alot of time around zoomers over the past 4 years to finish school, and who has a ton of friends in that 19-25 range now, the maturity gap is glaring and most 30 year olds would never be able to connect with an 18 year old.
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08-05-2023, 09:50 AM
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Even if i was 70 years old I would literally pay these 18 to 20 year olds than spend a min with some 30 year old hag. Men are attracted to beauty and these young girls will always have glow.
And its only on the internet that you read such stories esp. reddit. There was a time an article about Leonardo was posted and so many people were just saying how gross it was that he is dating some 25 year old model.
And its only on the internet that you read such stories esp. reddit. There was a time an article about Leonardo was posted and so many people were just saying how gross it was that he is dating some 25 year old model.
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
Tbh I did not have anything in common with my ex gf or any of my female friends, I read different books than then , I have different careers aspirations, I want to lift better (none of them hardly do any) , you get what I'm trying to say right? Men and women have different interests and none of that will ever change .by modern standards, its socially questionable.
The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate
look at it from a different vantage point. Would you want your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old dude? The age difference is pretty huge considering most people's personalities and molded and change the most between the ages of 18-25. Whatever reason shes attracted to you at 18 will change drastically as she goes through her 20's.
Plus there's gap in relative interests. at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate
look at it from a different vantage point. Would you want your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old dude? The age difference is pretty huge considering most people's personalities and molded and change the most between the ages of 18-25. Whatever reason shes attracted to you at 18 will change drastically as she goes through her 20's.
Plus there's gap in relative interests. at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
Also I wouldn't mind my daughter dating a guy older than her , if I approve of him . Ideally I don't want my daughter dating anyone XD
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
Women at any age group are gonna have different interests than men , my girlfriend is 19 she is cs major and undergrad while I'm doing ms cs . What exactly are common interests between men and women ? Her favourite movies are : Barbie , 10 things I hate about you . My fav movies : Black Hawk Down , Gladiator. Men and women never share the same interests at any point in life .There's not much value a 30 year old is gonna get in an 18 year old besides their youthful beauty and carefree (naive) disposition, let's just be real. better off just finding some girl in her early to mid 20's if you are trying to have kids or a serious relationship
I'm in my early 30's now and came back to college, and I've only met two girls around that age that I'd consider, and I thought they were both 21+ when I met them. They were intelligent, witty, calm, classy, and just had a really top tier demeanor to them and were insanely pretty. Nothing like a typical anxious, dumb, immature college freshman/sophomore.
Even as someone who has spent alot of time around zoomers over the past 4 years to finish school, and who has a ton of friends in that 19-25 range now, the maturity gap is glaring and most 30 year olds would never be able to connect with an 18 year old.
I'm in my early 30's now and came back to college, and I've only met two girls around that age that I'd consider, and I thought they were both 21+ when I met them. They were intelligent, witty, calm, classy, and just had a really top tier demeanor to them and were insanely pretty. Nothing like a typical anxious, dumb, immature college freshman/sophomore.
Even as someone who has spent alot of time around zoomers over the past 4 years to finish school, and who has a ton of friends in that 19-25 range now, the maturity gap is glaring and most 30 year olds would never be able to connect with an 18 year old.
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Originally Posted By OzzyDio⏩
We don't just want sex , we want babies too !In all fairness, if you're a man in your 30's, then literally the only thing you should have in common with a woman who is 18 to say mid-20's-ish is sex. Most women are boring as chit until they are least well into their 20's.
08-05-2023, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
Any man worth their salt isn't trying to bang women 10 - 30 years older than themselves for any reasons other than using them as pump 'n dump cum dumpsters.Went out to the gym then coffee with some girls at the boxing club I go to 2 day ago.
They told me some guy there after class was asking about me and had been watching me. He is 20…
I told them I wasn’t looking for anything at the moment, but even if I was—I don’t think I’d be able to date that young for myself personally. Just seems very different in where our mindsets would be.
They told me some guy there after class was asking about me and had been watching me. He is 20…
I told them I wasn’t looking for anything at the moment, but even if I was—I don’t think I’d be able to date that young for myself personally. Just seems very different in where our mindsets would be.
You demonstrate wisdom to be aware of this. It is what it is, might as well know better for your own sake than bask in delusions about it.
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Originally Posted By Maestro⏩
That rule was valid for a time when women werent incredibly promiscuous, like right now. Times have changed, and men value purity and exclusivity over being able to talk about the same tv shows or about having the same life experience or whatever.by modern standards, its socially questionable.
The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate
look at it from a different vantage point. Would you want your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old dude? The age difference is pretty huge considering most people's personalities and molded and change the most between the ages of 18-25. Whatever reason shes attracted to you at 18 will change drastically as she goes through her 20's.
Plus there's gap in relative interests. at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate
look at it from a different vantage point. Would you want your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old dude? The age difference is pretty huge considering most people's personalities and molded and change the most between the ages of 18-25. Whatever reason shes attracted to you at 18 will change drastically as she goes through her 20's.
Plus there's gap in relative interests. at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
Now if you want a WIFE, then younger is the way to go. Finding one that is hot enough and mature/intelligent enough to have a good healthy relationship with, well thats a completely different matter, that is tough on its own, but hey, if you have access to the most desired women (young), be welcome to try to find one that is RS worthy.
About your scenario, i wouldnt want my 18 year old girl dating a 30 year old dude, because i would worry about his intentions, because the chances of a relationship with that wide of an age gap working are really slim, therefore id think she would just get hurt or used. Then again, since shes my daughter, i have to TAKE that role, the role of protector, its in my instincts to do so and i would question her, the guy, and if anything happened that i didnt like id step in. Its natural for me to want to protect my daughter, and since im a man i know how men are.
In this case id demand a serious one on one conversation with the guy before he even takes her out in a single date, and then i would watch over the relationship with a lense. If months or years go by and for whatever reason the guy gives me the impression that hes actually a good intelligent noble man and my daughter loves him, then theyd have my blessing. Love is a risk, so are relationships. People get hurt/heartbroken, you cant as a parent ever be sure of something being good or bad for your children. Sometimes you just gotta let life trace its own path.
However, if im on the other side, the side of the 30 year old that wants to bang a 18 year old, well its not my responsibility to protect her or her fathers feelings, so expecting me to change my behaviour and decisions by putting myself in the shoes of others is a bit naive. We dont live in Utopia.
Now personally, 18 is way too young, so anything other than a casual relationship aka just fuking would be kind of a waste of time, but hey, i wont judge any relationship because again, im not in their shoes.
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Women only shame men because they feel entitled to these men despite neglecting them for years. Men are placed into 2 categories: 1. group that gets ton of sex/dating experience without necessarily having to self improve and 2. Other group that are told they need to work on themselves, save up money, get a car and nice place and have everything in place before women consider them. This is why under 30, we see 64% of men are single. When these women want something serious and finally hits them that the guys that will **** them won't marry them, they switch to these men and select the guy with the most wealth who is readily willing to commit/fall in line. These women then lie to themselves that they physically love these men but can't do it for long which is why most first time marriages end in divorce within 6-7 years.
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
True words from Gandhi - My favorite Quote is "Bitches ain't **** but hoes and tricksYou realize all these rules and judgments are a chit test right? And caring about what a woman thinks, much less a random woman on the internet, is how you fail.
Women are idiots. They make decisions and opinions based purely on how they feel, they do not use any kind of thought, logic or intelligence, only emotions. They had to invent the stupid concept of emotional intelligence just so they could have some claim to having intelligence. They are stupid. Let them say and think their stupid things and live your life how you want to live it. Life isn't a game, there's no score, no winning and losing, just do what you want.
Women are idiots. They make decisions and opinions based purely on how they feel, they do not use any kind of thought, logic or intelligence, only emotions. They had to invent the stupid concept of emotional intelligence just so they could have some claim to having intelligence. They are stupid. Let them say and think their stupid things and live your life how you want to live it. Life isn't a game, there's no score, no winning and losing, just do what you want.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Nah, not when the dad is smart,based, masculine and charismatic like me.This all makes sense in theory.
Just be aware that in reality most daughters of controlling fathers become huge sloots to rebel against her father.
Just be aware that in reality most daughters of controlling fathers become huge sloots to rebel against her father.
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Originally Posted By iabs⏩
18 yo were drafted in Vietnam War , what you talking about a kid ?That is an accurate statement, that's borderline ped0 behavior, don't care how physically developed she is, that's a kid.
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