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post 1687814643 08-05-2023, 05:01 AM
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"There is no way to justify dating an 18yo when you are 30"

- Some random woman on the internet ...

Also :

* "No decent 30 year old man is trying to be with an 18 year old anyway"

In a world where we have openly homo relationships and people changing genders and also pro abortions . Why can't a man have his way ?

I am fully convinced that the society doesn't want to see a man win !
post 1687814703 08-05-2023, 05:07 AM
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You realize all these rules and judgments are a chit test right? And caring about what a woman thinks, much less a random woman on the internet, is how you fail.

Women are idiots. They make decisions and opinions based purely on how they feel, they do not use any kind of thought, logic or intelligence, only emotions. They had to invent the stupid concept of emotional intelligence just so they could have some claim to having intelligence. They are stupid. Let them say and think their stupid things and live your life how you want to live it. Life isn't a game, there's no score, no winning and losing, just do what you want.
post 1687814753 08-05-2023, 05:10 AM
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i see it as a win win

bang an 18 year old and society is mad about it lol
post 1687814933 08-05-2023, 05:20 AM
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the farther past 18 the more likely she is to be obese, as like 50% of them are nowadays.

that's reason enough.
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post 1687814973 08-05-2023, 05:23 AM
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Why do you care what society thinks? The main issue is if you plan to pump and dump 18 year olds.

There are two types of 18 year old:

Sloots - They're already a lost cause you have your fun and she'll be done with you pretty quickly.

Green - They're not very experienced in relationships, she'll see you as a long(er) term prospect who has a job, security her youth adds value that you might want to keep around.

Date the green one seriously enough and 1-2 years later she'll be 20 you'll be 32 and there'll be less stigma about it.

Met my GF when she was 19, now she's 24 and I just get compliments for it. Because I kept dating her for the long haul, not leaving her by the wayside for the next piece of young tang.
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post 1687814983 08-05-2023, 05:23 AM
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Even funnier, if it were some old guy banging an 18 year old guy they’d just say it’s some bear bottoming out his twink in some cute father/son relationship. Like, wut. These salty whores are truly bitter
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post 1687815183 08-05-2023, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink
You realize all these rules and judgments are a chit test right? And caring about what a woman thinks, much less a random woman on the internet, is how you fail.

Women are idiots. They make decisions and opinions based purely on how they feel, they do not use any kind of thought, logic or intelligence, only emotions. They had to invent the stupid concept of emotional intelligence just so they could have some claim to having intelligence. They are stupid. Let them say and think their stupid things and live your life how you want to live it. Life isn't a game, there's no score, no winning and losing, just do what you want.
I am in a current situation where my gf 19 and I am 25 , I have had some petty friends calling me out . I have seized contact with them , I can't believe how irrational and childish can people be , it's like some people never mature
post 1687815203 08-05-2023, 05:32 AM
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That random woman on the internet has a couple kids, a dried out, stretched vagina and no glow. She probably walks into the bar/club and gets some attention but as soon as some young 20yo HBB comes walking in she becomes invisible.
post 1687815253 08-05-2023, 05:34 AM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias
Why do you care what society thinks? The main issue is if you plan to pump and dump 18 year olds.

There are two types of 18 year old:

Sloots - They're already a lost cause you have your fun and she'll be done with you pretty quickly.

Green - They're not very experienced in relationships, she'll see you as a long(er) term prospect who has a job, security her youth adds value that you might want to keep around.

Date the green one seriously enough and 1-2 years later she'll be 20 you'll be 32 and there'll be less stigma about it.

Met my GF when she was 19, now she's 24 and I just get compliments for it. Because I kept dating her for the long haul, not leaving her by the wayside for the next piece of young tang.
I am a straight up no bs guy , so I am on the lookout for a wife . I don't have patience to play games when I should focus on work/study .
post 1687815313 08-05-2023, 05:39 AM
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Fuk what she thinks.

You stick your dick in that tight 18 year old, your dick gon melt like butter.
post 1687815573 08-05-2023, 05:56 AM
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fk some random sloot's opinion. you do you OP
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post 1687816413 08-05-2023, 06:29 AM
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These <insert age> can/can’t do whatever with <insert age> blanket statements are always retarded, because they assume everyone age X is like everyone else age X, when the truth is there’s massive variance amongst individuals. One 18 year old can be wildly different from another, and the same is true for a 30 year old, or any age for that matter.

At best they’re a very loose generalisation.

If you look at the wording of the topic statement, it’s actually phrased in such way as to suggest individual differences/circumstances SHOULD be discarded, which is dumb.
post 1687816703 08-05-2023, 06:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Brommando
- Some random woman on the internet ...

Also :

* "No decent 30 year old man is trying to be with an 18 year old anyway"

In a world where we have openly homo relationships and people changing genders and also pro abortions . Why can't a man have his way ?

I am fully convinced that the society doesn't want to see a man win !
One one hand, I agree it’s frowned upon to have such a large age difference in a relationship, but you make a great point when mentioning all the other weird crap that’s tolerated relationally in 2023.

In much earlier times, as soon as a woman had her period, she was fair game (not suggesting that should be accepted by todays standards). At least in the scenario expressed in OP, the girl is a legal adult.

But are we really surprised the machine is trying to keep men down?
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post 1687816793 08-05-2023, 06:42 AM
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did this last year, she was half Ukrainian half Russian and it did not go well lol

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post 1687816913 08-05-2023, 06:46 AM
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Some random woman's stupid opinion online is the world now?
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post 1687817273 08-05-2023, 06:57 AM
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Good thing men don't need to justify anything to women.
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178
That random woman on the internet has a couple kids, a dried out, stretched vagina and no glow. She probably walks into the bar/club and gets some attention but as soon as some young 20yo HBB comes walking in she becomes invisible.
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post 1687819823 08-05-2023, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By andyray
i see it as a win win

bang an 18 year old and society is mad about it lol
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Originally Posted By Brommando
I am fully convinced that the society doesn't want to see a man win !
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on a biological level it is ok, only 12 years age gap. Successful man, with income and high potential for building strong household. Dating healthy female in her prime child-bearing age. What is not to like? I would say it is his civic duty. Much better than same man dating 30 yo woman, whos fertility in sharp decline.
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by modern standards, its socially questionable.

The rule of thumb is half your age+7 so early 20's would be more appropriate

look at it from a different vantage point. Would you want your 18 year old daughter dating a 30 year old dude? The age difference is pretty huge considering most people's personalities and molded and change the most between the ages of 18-25. Whatever reason shes attracted to you at 18 will change drastically as she goes through her 20's.

Plus there's gap in relative interests. at 18 she's thinking about college and probably studying for her drivers test while you're already saving for retirement and thinking about what ETF's to invest in for your 401k. There's very little for you both to relate to. Essentially, the relationship is destined to fail.
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pic of the random pig who said that pls
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Part of it is jealously. Also 30 year old single women have really high expectations in a relationship and tend to artificially push the relationship along farther than the natural flow, which can be off-putting. There's a reason why they are still single at 30.

If you have a full head of hair you're much better off dating younger.
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When I was 32 I started dating a 17 year old. Long straight blond hair. Light blue eyes. Great face. Awesome body. Around 115 pounds.

Together for 4 years. Lived together. She still contacts me to do this day.

Nice girl but looking back probably not a great decision. I was a race horse trainer and owner and she grew up in that industry so we met doing that and she ended up helping me for most of those years. Race horse training is a 24/7 every day of the week job. At the barn everyday to train and then race 3-4 nights a week.

So it worked out that way and she was very beautiful so that didn't hurt lol.

But she was like any young girl. Immature and annoying at times. I wasn't looking to get married so it just all kind of worked out.

And btw no one every really said a bad word about the age difference. My dad loved it lol. He loved to flirt with her in an old man kind of way.
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Originally Posted By rollerball
Oh ffs man, can you just stop lol. 18-24 is the zenith of female beauty.
Oh I agree. I'm just saiyan, if you miss the boat and you let time pass you by and you wake up at 30 wanting an 18 year old, don't be surprised if people are...indifferent to your taste in women. You'll know there's an issue when people think she's your daughter.
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