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post 1694224243 12-01-2023, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
https://www.bedpage.com/

And go to FL and select your city.
that site is almost useless
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post 1694224883 12-01-2023, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
i could do that too if I see the opening
Openings..... are made not waited for, be aggressive "let me buy you a drink"
There is an unspoken thing, we are iron brothers and sisters, we are to support each other and...It is our duty to support our brothers and sisters in the iron game!
post 1694225273 12-01-2023, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By x-trainer
Openings..... are made not waited for, be aggressive "let me buy you a drink"
im not afraid to do it either. just still pondering what my next move should be. i have a text as a draft right now but a couple guys are saying take it as friends for now and the message implies a bit more, but not overbearing
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post 1695000363 12-17-2023, 11:33 AM
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k today's the day I send her a more inviting message. got it wrote up haven't sent it yet
"I will be in town this coming weekend. We should really catch up. Let's hang out as friends and grab a drink. I'll treat."
or something else
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-Kingfabian: BBC loads: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=181634953&p=1666337753&viewfull=1#post1666337753
"America lost pretty much every war in history lol" -pandaboy89
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post 1695000393 12-17-2023, 11:34 AM
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Imagine being nervous over a 50 year old women, holy fukin beta, thats 20 years past the wall
post 1695000773 12-17-2023, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
k today's the day I send her a more inviting message. got it wrote up haven't sent it yet
"I will be in town this coming weekend. We should really catch up. Let's hang out as friends and grab a drink. I'll treat."
or something else
Shoot your shot. It's better to be shot down than living with the regret of never trying.

Worst is you're denied. Best is a 'yes'.

Then when all else fails, send a 'dik pic' to show her what's she's missing. srs.
I'm not blessed with riches, but I am rich with blessings.
Thank you, LORD, my God.
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post 1695000913 12-17-2023, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeFhurston⏩
Imagine being nervous over a 50 year old women, holy fukin beta, thats 20 years past the wall
where did I say i was nervous i don't believe i did. thanks for your input red
Originally Posted By Tuksonrider⏩
Shoot your shot. It's better to be shot down than living with the regret of never trying.

Worst is you're denied. Best is a 'yes'.

Then when all else fails, send a 'dik pic' to show her what's she's missing. srs.
thank you for your input buddy
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post 1695001003 12-17-2023, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
where did I say i was nervous i don't believe i did. thanks for your input red
"misc give me a confidence boost"
- Not nervous

Keep coping dork, catchin nerves over a ran through senior citizen, lmao
post 1695001173 12-17-2023, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeFhurston⏩
"misc give me a confidence boost"
- Not nervous

Keep coping dork, catchin nerves over a ran through senior citizen, lmao
i wasn't nervous though. she was married for a long time and senior citizens are in their 60s in case you forgot red. if you don't want to be positive please go
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post 1695001663 12-17-2023, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
k today's the day I send her a more inviting message. got it wrote up haven't sent it yet
"I will be in town this coming weekend. We should really catch up. Let's hang out as friends and grab a drink. I'll treat."
or something else
I think this is fine. Just get rid of the “I’ll treat” part. It’s not needed
post 1695001713 12-17-2023, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
i wasn't nervous though. she was married for a long time and senior citizens are in their 60s in case you forgot red. if you don't want to be positive please go
Yeah I was obviously being slightly hyperbolic for humours sake smooth brain, not literal. The point is she's old as fuk and past her prime by over 25 years.

I don't need to be positive, you need to get your chit together and wonder why you're chasing a 50 YO woman. You really dont have any other optiions?
post 1695001863 12-17-2023, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩
I think this is fine. Just get rid of the “I’ll treat” part. It’s not needed
yes

no simp vibes op. be cool. it's gonna be hard for you, but you can do it.
post 1695002103 12-17-2023, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
yes

no simp vibes op. be cool. it's gonna be hard for you, but you can do it.
Its gonna "be hard" to attract a 50 YO woman thats divorced and probably a single mother

Lol, miscers are beyond pathetic
post 1695002183 12-17-2023, 12:10 PM
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alright will be sending it sometime today. about to head out to try and find a gift.
Originally Posted By MikeFhurston⏩
Its gonna "be hard" to attract a 50 YO woman thats divorced and probably a single mother

Lol, miscers are beyond pathetic
not a concern since they are adults and on their own. (might be 1 i don't remember) otherwise yes that's an issue
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post 1695002443 12-17-2023, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
alright will be sending it sometime today. about to head out to try and find a gift.

not a concern since they are adults and on their own. (might be 1 i don't remember) otherwise yes that's an issue
lol

I Have no words.
post 1695004383 12-17-2023, 12:56 PM
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Oh man…”I’ve had a crush on you for years” was a bit juvenile when you’re trying to show her that you’ve matured. She’s 50 - something a bit more thought out and subtle but enough to pique her interest would have been better. But it’s done now - Goodluck with the next message! Nothing to lose!
post 1695005213 12-17-2023, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Lunu⏩
something a bit more thought out and subtle but enough to pique her interest would have been better.
Can you give us an example?
post 1695011533 12-17-2023, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By DustyCoochie⏩
Can you give us an example?
I’d probably start with a casual convo - ask what her plans for the holidays are.

Depending on her response, then suggest a place “I’ve heard about” that does a great Christmas cocktail (or whatever) and ask her if she’d like to join me for a catch up and a drink.

This is a more open ended way of getting her to meet and then see how things go. Even if she just wants to be friends, if she values the friendship or likes him at all, she’s likely to say yes to a catch up, and once they’re there, more forward moves can be made.
post 1695011693 12-17-2023, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Lunu⏩
I’d probably start with a casual convo - ask what her plans for the holidays are.

Depending on her response, then suggest a place “I’ve heard about” that does a great Christmas cocktail (or whatever) and ask her if she’d like to join me for a catch up and a drink.

This is a more open ended way of getting her to meet and then see how things go. Even if she just wants to be friends, if she values the friendship or likes him at all, she’s likely to say yes to a catch up, and once they’re there, more forward moves can be made.
Thanks!


By the way, what are your plans for the holidays?
post 1695013003 12-17-2023, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By DustyCoochie⏩
Thanks!


By the way, what are your plans for the holidays?
lol touché!
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