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post 1694883163 12-14-2023, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
That doesn’t happen in the feminist world we live in. I certainly don’t know any men IRL who “run the household” other than Middle Eastern and Indian men. Then once the feminists tell the woman she’s oppressed on the playground she gets divorce ideas.
Men now a days are weak, and that's why society is collapsing.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1694883433 12-14-2023, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
A part of my soul died when that chapter of my life ended.
look after your daughter, enjoy your freedom


and enough with this sap sad chit, don't be a sad kunt , srs


you weren't put on this earth to be a sad kunt and cry over sloots, go grab life the balls and live it up
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post 1694883493 12-14-2023, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Men now a days are weak, and that's why society is collapsing.
You are an educator in this thread.

What he stated in that post just demonstrates the point. The populations with the problems he is pointing out is sufferring the most when it comes to reproduction rates, lack of marriage and relationships.. etc. Once the men are weak, all of those things will start to fail. You aren't seeing weak, defeated men because of poor romance opportunity and a failing society, you're seeing poor romance opportunity and a failing society because men are acting defeated and weak (when they shouldn't be doing that). People mistake the cause for the effect here.
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post 1694883633 12-14-2023, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Chrysippus⏩
You are an educator in this thread.

What he stated in that post just demonstrates the point. The populations with the problems he is pointing out is sufferring the most when it comes to reproduction rates, lack of marriage and relationships.. etc. Once the men are weak, all of those things will start to fail. You aren't seeing weak, defeated men because of poor romance opportunity and a failing society, you're seeing poor romance opportunity and a failing society because men are acting defeated and weak (when they shouldn't be doing that). People mistake tje cause for the effect here.
Exactly. Women aren't becoming feminists because of the "patriarchy", they're becoming feminists because there are no strong men to lead them, no strong fathers, no strong husbands. So they try to take things into their own hands, and who can blame them.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1694893603 12-15-2023, 06:26 AM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
Relationships are a two way street. You can’t ever fully control another human being.

You just have to have faith things work out for the best.

The only thing you have some control over in this life is yourself.

Maybe.

I personally don’t believe in any freewill anymore.
The bolded is straight truth. It always makes me laugh when someone says they don't believe in divorce and that they'll never get divorced. If your wife/husband decides they want a divorce there's not a thing you can do about it. You're going to be divorced.
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post 1694893713 12-15-2023, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
It's really simple. The man chooses the woman, not the other way around. The man runs the household, not the other way around. You see where this is going?
The man doesn't just choose the woman . The woman has to also choose the man. Last I checked that was a two way street.

Traditionally and ideally I also still believe the man should set at the head of the table. Not as a superior but as a equal to his wife but also to instill the family values properly.

A mother and a father should be a TEAM. Both walking in goosestep for the common cause. Not one walking and the other one following.
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post 1694894643 12-15-2023, 06:52 AM
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That's life mane
I'm back, bitches!
post 1694895133 12-15-2023, 07:05 AM
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Chin up bro

Dated my first girl 7-8 years and sometimes wonder about her and why it didn't work out. She lives on the other side of the world now.
post 1694895203 12-15-2023, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted By GooBaaa⏩
Sometimes it doesn’t work out my ******

That’s life
This^^^

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I loe e.
post 1694895223 12-15-2023, 07:07 AM
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Sounds rough boyo. Was hoping you still had contact with your daugther, but reading through the thread it seems her mom is keeping her away form you.

If something like that happened to me and my son, it would take a lot for me to not stay and remain depressed about it.

Sorry you had to go through all that. Hopefully when she's older she'll realize and come looking for you.
post 1694897433 12-15-2023, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
Relationships are a two way street. You can’t ever fully control another human being.

You just have to have faith things work out for the best.

The only thing you have some control over in this life is yourself.

Maybe.

I personally don’t believe in any freewill anymore.
Know them feels all too well, but... you're last line in the post is contradictory. It is freewill that makes our heart want..or don't want.

We cannot control others because of freewill. All we can do is control ourselves, and give away the only thing we truly own in this broken world, our hearts.

From my heart, I pour out my love like water to anyone, and everyone. Some will drink, some won't, some will even spit it back in my face. Yet, I still choose give it away again and again and again. I choose that because I am no longer afraid to break what's already broken, my heart. srs.

Move on, learn, choose to forgive, choose to live, choose to love. Life is full of hurts, but also full of wonderful beauty if you are brave enough to risk your heart.
I'm not blessed with riches, but I am rich with blessings.
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post 1694897523 12-15-2023, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider⏩
Know them feels all too well, but... you're last line in the post is contradictory. It is freewill that makes our heart want..or don't want.

We cannot control others because of freewill. All we can do is control ourselves, and give away the only thing we truly own in this broken world, our hearts.

From my heart, I pour out my love like water to anyone, and everyone. Some will drink, some won't, some will even spit it back in my face. Yet, I still choose give it away again and again and again. I choose that because I am no longer of afraid to break what's already broken, my heart. srs.

Move on, learn, choose to forgive, choose to live, choose to love. Life is full of hurts, but also full of wonderful beauty if you are brave enough to risk your heart.
Wise man.

Safe bet that the great philopshers through out history would agree with you..

Let idiots keep walking in a circle of idiocy and lunacy.

Wear your scars with honor and pride. I promise you the others having kitting of note to wear or of honorable mention.
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post 1694899603 12-15-2023, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By John
Sounds rough boyo. Was hoping you still had contact with your daugther, but reading through the thread it seems her mom is keeping her away form you.

If something like that happened to me and my son, it would take a lot for me to not stay and remain depressed about it.

Sorry you had to go through all that. Hopefully when she's older she'll realize and come looking for you.
It is brutal it causes horrendous depression when the ex tries to keep the daughter away from you and constantly tells the daughter horrendous things about you. He told her I was a fat bitch who was a train wreck with meds, so then when she became severely depressed, bedridden and didn’t go to school she received no professional help. Finally it continued for months and he got a therapist for her. Then that didn’t help so he went the med route but she was scared to death of the weight gain so she didn’t go.

I was near suicide between that and a stressful job in 2017. It helped when she started driving and didn’t have her Dad polluting her mind when he drove her around. Then she came around to me.

But she still favors Dad even though he did horrendous things to her last year by screaming at her to get out of bed and go to school and I intervened and stopped him, so I just try to do my best each day and hope she keeps her relationship with me. I can’t choose if she will or won’t, though.

I just pray hard and walk on eggshells.
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