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03-03-2024, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Would never consider having kids after your 30’s . Imagine you’re in your mid forties and you knock a sloot up . That’s what I definitely want , a 20 YO living in my basement when I’m trying to retire
Brb have a kid in your 20s and then have a 35 YO living in your basement when you're trying to retire
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03-03-2024, 04:37 PM
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Trump fathered a gigachad at 60 years old. But it's harder the older you get.
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03-03-2024, 04:43 PM
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Whenever you have one, there are tradeoffs, so you just find what works for you.

If I'd had a kid in my 20s or most of my 30s, I don't think it would have gone as well as it is going for me in my 40s. I have the time, the patience and the money to be the kind of dad I want to be. I didn't want to be pushing a kid on the swings or feeding the ducks back then; I wanted to conquer the world.

We arrange WFH so that we look after her ourselves, instead of getting a nanny. 10 years ago, that wouldn't have worked so well.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!

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03-03-2024, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Onlinedatingcel⏩
Trump fathered a gigachad at 60 years old. But it's harder the older you get.
not if you find a mid 20s sloot to creampie on the daily
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03-03-2024, 05:10 PM
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Maybe its selfish, but if I got a sloot pregnant in my 20s, it would have killed all the hobbies I enjoy so much (HPDEs, Sports) also doing what I want, whenever I want. I am in my late 20s now and have a dog and I think even that is a lot of responsibility. You can't just stick a baby in a cage and go out.
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03-03-2024, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
2010 date and doesn't know new accounts get a default age of 52 the day it's made unless the user specifies
How long has this been a thing?
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03-03-2024, 05:44 PM
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once you are too old to attract a fertile mate
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03-03-2024, 05:53 PM
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When you 'feel too old'.

Anyone on this forum should have a fairly active lifestyle. I'm in my early 40s and we are talking about having a second child. Our beautiful baby is just over 7 months old now.

I'll soon be carrying her on my back for long hikes. Important to keep in shape, even if leading a blessed existence srs.


Originally Posted By FrostF⏩
Having kids is the worst decision you can make.
You're welcome to think so, and weed yourself out of the gene pool. Quite a few Miscers seem happy to do so.

But that doesn't make you qualified to give life advice to others. Just saying.
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03-04-2024, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
How long has this been a thing?
Over 10 years ar least
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03-04-2024, 10:59 AM
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became a dad at 43, my son turns 17 this year and me 60…………….best thing i ever did

I am an outlier interms of fitness , youthful vigour and decent personality …….we have a great relationship and watching him come into his own in School, Sports, Friends and Girls is a joy that cannot be matched by any other achievment.

Best thing i ever did no question for him and me
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03-04-2024, 11:01 AM
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Whenever women of child bearing age no longer want your seed.

Originally Posted By EnochsProphecy⏩
When you are too old to attract women who can bare children.
I should have read the thread before posting
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03-04-2024, 11:02 AM
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Had my first child right after I turned 37, planning on at least 3 more. My wife was 24 at the time so she's still in her childbearing prime.
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03-04-2024, 11:03 AM
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30 for sloot, 40 for dude.

Honestly who wants to be 60yo when your crotch fruit is getting out of high-school?

You will be the weird old couple at the kids sporting events.
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03-04-2024, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By baldbrah⏩
30 for sloot, 40 for dude.

Honestly who wants to be 60yo when your crotch fruit is getting out of high-school?

You will be the weird old couple at the kids sporting events.
It was unusual in the baby boomer era, it'll probably be significantly more common 15 years from now

People need to have more kids, if it's gonna be later then so be it
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03-04-2024, 11:36 AM
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Had my first when I was 32/wife was 30, now i'm 36 and our second is 6 months old.
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03-04-2024, 11:39 AM
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30 years old no kids yet

Met a good girl back in September been dating since

If all works out probably have kids and married within the next few years

Good luck
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03-04-2024, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
My wife and I were both 46 when our daughter was born.
Natty? I just assume o40 I can bust inside and not sweat it too much
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03-04-2024, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By baldbrah⏩
30 for sloot, 40 for dude.

Honestly who wants to be 60yo when your crotch fruit is getting out of high-school?

You will be the weird old couple at the kids sporting events.
My grand mother was 46 when having my dad

My late uncle was 51 having children. Didn't live long enough to see them graduate high school …had 2 boys
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03-04-2024, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
My grand mother was 46 when having my dad

My late uncle was 51 having children. Didn't live long enough to see them graduate high school …had 2 boys
Not ideal to be in your 50s changing diapers.
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03-04-2024, 01:07 PM
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Natty? I just assume o40 I can bust inside and not sweat it too much
All natty. She came off birth control, we had one miscarriage and then a healthy baby girl after 2 years. A lot of women don't conceive or carry to term for a while after coming off long term birth control. The doc said her age didn't really factor in to it, as many women in their 20s have similar experiences.

In the UK, more children are being born to women over 40 than under 20. It's hardly common, but some women conceive naturally in to their 50s.
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03-04-2024, 01:19 PM
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if given the choice between LOVE and RICHES; most CURS would probably choose RICHES. If you can leave the CURS a Healthy Inheritance then any age is probably ok to sire some CURS
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03-04-2024, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
All natty. She came off birth control, we had one miscarriage and then a healthy baby girl after 2 years. A lot of women don't conceive or carry to term for a while after coming off long term birth control. The doc said her age didn't really factor in to it, as many women in their 20s have similar experiences.

In the UK, more children are being born to women over 40 than under 20. It's hardly common, but some women conceive naturally in to their 50s.
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03-04-2024, 01:44 PM
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Plenty of years to have children, shouldn't even be on your radar.

What you're running out of time for is finding a woman you actually want to spend enough years with to raise children.

Lmao at anyone who marries (or heaven forbid, impregnates) a woman they've known less than 5 years and have never lived with. Lmao just lmao.
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03-04-2024, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By ChingonGuero⏩
Having kids in your mid to late 30s is not easy. I'm in my late 30s with a 2 year old and another one on the way, and in my limited experience 1) it's harder to tolerate chronic sleep deprivation in your 30s than in your 20s; 2) it's marginally harder to keep up with a toddler's energy level in your late 30s than in your 20s, but shouldn't be much of a factor if you aren't a fat tub of lard and have maintained some semblance of cardiovascular fitness; 3) one of the adjustments i've had to make is going from spending 1.5 - 2 decades being able to do whatever I want in my free time, and basically having unlimited free time outside of work, to feeling like a rotter if I have an hour to myself on a Saturday afternoon because such a block of uninterrupted free time is a rare luxury these days.

The two hardest things for me have been the lack of sleep and not being able to work out whenever and for however long I want.
But it's easier because you should have money in your mid 30s to pay for nannies, people to clean your house for you, etc.
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03-04-2024, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
But it's easier because you should have money in your mid 30s to pay for nannies, people to clean your house for you, etc.
I dropped from working 80 hours a week to 40 when we had a kid and we bought a new, kid friendly house whilst my wife was pregnant. We pretty much rearranged how our lives worked to suit having a kid.

I appreciate that not everybody is going to be able to do something like that, but being older does give more flexibility.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!

The only dangerous thing about an exercise is the person doing it.

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03-04-2024, 02:26 PM
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The cut-off point to find a high quality Western woman is probably in the mid 20s. Beyond that you get the leftovers who are bitter, come with baggage and are worn out from the cawk carousel.

Any Western man with half a brain should consider doing the Passport Bro thing and finding a nice traditional younger model overseas. With age, I don't think this is an issue even in your 60s srs.
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03-04-2024, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted By FrostF⏩
Stop grasping for staws OP.

Having kids is the worst decision you can make. There are some women who have the inate desire sure but it is our jobs as men to stand up to them and say "No!"

If you need purpose that aint it OP
This must be the gayest post i have ever read in my 10 years on misc.

Any man that doesnt want kids is a freak srs.
Please list your reasons why having kids is the Worst life decision.
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03-04-2024, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian⏩
Plenty of years to have children, shouldn't even be on your radar.

What you're running out of time for is finding a woman you actually want to spend enough years with to raise children.

Lmao at anyone who marries (or heaven forbid, impregnates) a woman they've known less than 5 years and have never lived with. Lmao just lmao.
don't know about living with but probably should know her close to 5 years considering the amount of crazies out there. 10% of women seem worthy of impregnating but after knowing them 3-4+ years maybe closer to 1-2%. at least after that time you can somewhat know if you can deal with her amount of crazy.
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03-04-2024, 03:26 PM
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at 38 im gonna give up on kids. not a big deal but i definitely don't want to be alone.
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03-04-2024, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By hockeyman1⏩
at 38 im gonna give up on kids. not a big deal but i definitely don't want to be alone.
75k and you can use a surrogate in another country.
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