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03-17-2024, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted By 4ea⏩
dont ghost her, dont message her immediately. wait a day or two then call or text her and tell her you want to see her again next weekend.

it sounds like she likes you which means shes going to be testing you to see if you get too emotional or desperate.



*edit, i would have preferred if you had waited at least a little bit man. be very careful not to act too interested, she might interpret that as being desperate.

at the very least, dont immediately respond to her text messages
Yeah she declined a second date. I lost. I would have fuked her for sure. I acted too fast and probably could have done several things better. None the less it’s not a match and no sex from her. Time to rage workout
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03-17-2024, 10:48 AM
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She lives 90 minutes away. Jesus christ. That alone throws her into the garbage. From what I recall, you're not an ugly dude, no homo, your max distance should be 30 minutes/20 miles.
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03-17-2024, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
Yeah she declined a second date. I lost. I would have fuked her for sure. I acted too fast and probably could have done several things better. None the less it’s not a match and no sex from her. Time to rage workout
Don't worry bout it bro

She probably had 4 other dates with 4 other dudes this past week too
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03-17-2024, 10:50 AM
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she wanted you to **** slam her that night and instead you were a little kunt about it. shes off getting a man who will beat the **** out of her and face **** her
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03-17-2024, 11:41 AM
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she wanted you to **** slam her that night and instead you were a little kunt about it. shes off getting a man who will beat the **** out of her and face **** her
No if anything I was to assertive and came across desperate. She was boring I would have stuck around to fuk her.
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03-17-2024, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
She was boring I would have stuck around to fuk her.

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03-17-2024, 12:25 PM
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Goes on a first date and shows her his 100's of bumble matches…

Jesus christ lol
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03-17-2024, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
Yeah she declined a second date. I lost. I would have fuked her for sure. I acted too fast and probably could have done several things better. None the less it’s not a match and no sex from her. Time to rage workout
Other than showing her the Bumble matches (you could have just told her that you're overwhelmed with matches on the apps to get that msg across instead of showing her) and not making out with her in the bar while dancing, I don't think you did anything wrong. Sounds like her interest was lukewarm to begin with. Waiting an extra day to text her wasn't going to make her accept a second date.
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03-17-2024, 12:43 PM
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missed the part where he purposely showed her all his bumble matches.

seems fake. how you have hundreds of matches, so wrapped up over one chick, need advice how to get to 2nd base with her like a 12 year old. Also bumble all your matches expire if you dont chat them.

if you really had hundreds of matches you would just find another sloot on there.
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03-17-2024, 01:22 PM
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I regret reading all of that.
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03-17-2024, 02:06 PM
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missed the part where he purposely showed her all his bumble matches.

seems fake. how you have hundreds of matches, so wrapped up over one chick, need advice how to get to 2nd base with her like a 12 year old. Also bumble all your matches expire if you dont chat them.

if you really had hundreds of matches you would just find another sloot on there.
That’s what I’m doing. I already have a date for next week. When you get rejected it does fyk with ya
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03-17-2024, 02:28 PM
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03-17-2024, 02:56 PM
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Showing her your dating matches seems like straight up autism. But then again I'm not the one who should be giving advice in these threads.
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03-17-2024, 03:39 PM
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Showing her your dating matches seems like straight up autism. But then again I'm not the one who should be giving advice in these threads.
yeah I think showing her my matches, complementing that she looks good, pushing the touching, not thinking of better topics to discuss, and texting her to fast today all cocked blocked me. I learned from this. I honestly am only stronger now. It sucks those cause this broad was hot af and would have been an amazing fuk. I ll move on.
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03-17-2024, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
yeah I think showing her my matches, complementing that she looks good, pushing the touching, not thinking of better topics to discuss, and texting her to fast today all cocked blocked me. I learned from this. I honestly am only stronger now. It sucks those cause this broad was hot af and would have been an amazing fuk. I ll move on.
bro she just wasnt into you the same way you were not into her. the convo is boring = no chemistry.

never ever show your matches. she should pick up hints along the way anyway. made your self look insecure right there

dont over analyse. if the girl is into you she'll text first to check how you got home safe etc
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03-17-2024, 04:11 PM
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Actually read all that, and the whole thing seemed miserable.


Massive amount of overthinking, bar was distracting, too many heads around, boring conversation, dry questions.


Didn't hear shyt about wit, laughter. Nothing.


Best part was probably she grinded on your little cawk. You didn't even go in to put your tongue in her mouth.


Let's be honest, you wanted to show off the bumble messages to show her you have options or whatever to make you feel like a big shot.


For a guy like you it seems like you have no experience with women, yet have a lot of success with matching on apps.


Then you make the stupid comment about how it's hard having so many options. Sure that went over well in the kunts head.


Then you go out there are show all this doubt about the initial conversation.


Weird story.


Typical miscer.


Just date somebody else since your phone is going off every minute with a new match.
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03-17-2024, 08:19 PM
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Actually read all that, and the whole thing seemed miserable.


Massive amount of overthinking, bar was distracting, too many heads around, boring conversation, dry questions.


Didn't hear shyt about wit, laughter. Nothing.


Best part was probably she grinded on your little cawk. You didn't even go in to put your tongue in her mouth.


Let's be honest, you wanted to show off the bumble messages to show her you have options or whatever to make you feel like a big shot.


For a guy like you it seems like you have no experience with women, yet have a lot of success with matching on apps.


Then you make the stupid comment about how it's hard having so many options. Sure that went over well in the kunts head.


Then you go out there are show all this doubt about the initial conversation.


Weird story.


Typical miscer.


Just date somebody else since your phone is going off every minute with a new match.
Yeah I fuked it up man. She knew what I looked like I sent videos of myself. All I had to do was play it cool and be fun but I sucked. I need to work on it. I m already moving on man with other matches all I can do. I m going to watch some videos about building interest and fun conversations. I work remote from home. This is killing my social skills.
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03-17-2024, 08:42 PM
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Learn how to escalate man jfc. Some women are a lot less obvious about their green lights. You cuddled in the beach and she had her arms around you? She danced and pushed her ass into you? How much bigger of a green light do you need to shove your tongue down her throat and tell her you want her?

She just wanted a confident guy to blow her back out.
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03-17-2024, 08:45 PM
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Learn how to escalate man jfc. Some women are a lot less obvious about their green lights. You cuddled in the beach and she had her arms around you? She danced and pushed her ass into you? How much bigger of a green light do you need to shove your tongue down her throat and tell her you want her?

She just wanted a confident guy to blow her back out.
u prob could have banged her
dont show bumble matches again to a girl, not a good look
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