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post 1701320943 05-20-2024, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted By dudeguy2019⏩
Hold up. Are you actually a NEET currently, not in like a troll or ironic sort of way?

In your other threads you posted numerous times how you "made six figures" when it came to career and financial stuff.
Yes I'm currently NEET, I lost my job in Nov 2022 but had enough money to get by and still getting by so thats what I'm doing.

I'm now starting to prep for potential next moves, training myself on some new things. But in general, a big reason I dont have much motivation is cause I see myself single till death. So this experiment should help answer that for sure and then I know if I can continue rotting and doing the bare minimum or not.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Yes I'm currently NEET, I lost my job in Nov 2022 but had enough money to get by and still getting by so thats what I'm doing.

I'm now starting to prep for potential next moves, training myself on some new things. But in general, a big reason I dont have much motivation is cause I see myself single till death. So this experiment should help answer that for sure and then I know if I can continue rotting and doing the bare minimum or not.
Yeah that makes sense
post 1701335873 05-20-2024, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By DrakeMaye⏩
I'm rooting for you BBMG
thank you. I'm a bills fan though so go fuk yourself


Also, small update. In just about 24 hours I have 3 matches online.

I am frauding my height cause its the only way, but I'm only focusing on short girls who are less likely to really care. But they are all black girls so far who are very likely to care. So we'll see if anything progresses beyond some texting.
post 1701340283 05-20-2024, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Thanks I will. It doesnt even matter how it turns out, I just want to try to figure out definitively where I stand and then live the best life I can from there.
There's no need to be so extreme with your thinking. It's possible to stay open minded about things even if your time-boxed experiment returns 0.

I think I can steelman your perspective. If the ROI of an investment is too low, it may not make sense to continue investing.

The issue is that life isn't that simple. You will be naturally doing things in life where it's important to stay open minded about meeting someone. Letting yourself rot isn't healthy for you, even if no woman is ever in the equation.
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post 1701340363 05-20-2024, 05:22 PM
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OP, you've never told us what your occupation was. You claim 6 figures, but never went into details.

I bring this up because if you're STEM, you could do consulting work and meet women through the client companies.

It's definitely a path to consider.
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1701340913 05-20-2024, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By DrakeMaye⏩
I'm rooting for you BBMG
I meant to rep you but I repped BBMG instead by accident and now I'm on RC.
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post 1701341033 05-20-2024, 05:42 PM
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Bro you need a social circle to get laid. The meetup thing is good but step 1 is you have to make friends, not go after girls. Hopefully there's someone semi-normal at those meetup events. If not you'll be stuck around a bunch of awkward c*nts and never meet any females even if you do make friends with them.

Once you have a solid group of friends you can start going out together. Hopefully the friend group includes some females. You don't have to be friends with attractive ones, ugly ones will still bring along other friends. Hopefully you get lucky and eventually an attractive one tags along to a hangout/party.

Only then after all of that can you be properly rejected like the undesirable peasant that you are.
post 1701341213 05-20-2024, 05:47 PM
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I'm thugmaxxing OP. If you want tips, feel free to ask.
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post 1701341353 05-20-2024, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
Bro you need a social circle to get laid. The meetup thing is good but step 1 is you have to make friends, not go after girls. Hopefully there's someone semi-normal at those meetup events. If not you'll be stuck around a bunch of awkward c*nts and never meet any females even if you do make friends with them.

Once you have a solid group of friends you can start going out together. Hopefully the friend group includes some females. You don't have to be friends with attractive ones, ugly ones will still bring along other friends. Hopefully you get lucky and eventually an attractive one tags along to a hangout/party.

Only then after all of that can you be properly rejected like the undesirable peasant that you are.
Guess you haven't been following BBMG's threads... He literally did this, and his female friend rejected him when he asked her out.


BBMG's case is unique because he's 5'3". The traditional avenues of dating will not work for him.
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post 1701341443 05-20-2024, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
There's no need to be so extreme with your thinking. It's possible to stay open minded about things even if your time-boxed experiment returns 0.

I think I can steelman your perspective. If the ROI of an investment is too low, it may not make sense to continue investing.

The issue is that life isn't that simple. You will be naturally doing things in life where it's important to stay open minded about meeting someone. Letting yourself rot isn't healthy for you, even if no woman is ever in the equation.
You're correct in theory, but in practice we have one life and limited time.

The fact is my best life as a permanent incel is a lot different than one where I'm not. I'm not getting any younger, I want to get to a place soon where I can make a judgement on where my life is heading and lean in.
post 1701341563 05-20-2024, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
OP, you've never told us what your occupation was. You claim 6 figures, but never went into details.

I bring this up because if you're STEM, you could do consulting work and meet women through the client companies.

It's definitely a path to consider.
Not stem, my last job was strategy/product for a tech company.

Work doesn't work for me. I need volume and it just isn't there at work
post 1701341693 05-20-2024, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Not stem, my last job was strategy/product for a tech company.

Work doesn't work for me. I need volume and it just isn't there at work
So basically, you worked in a type of marketting field. That's good because there's a lot of consulting opportunities for someone with marketting savvy...

The only problem is that marketting is a "pretty people only" field - all the men are Chads and all he women are Stacy's...


You can still pursue marketing/sales consulting but you'd have to play the diversity angle since you can't play the Chad angle... not disrespecting, this is me legitimately throwing out ideas.
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post 1701342203 05-20-2024, 06:20 PM
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post 1701342273 05-20-2024, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
Bro you need a social circle to get laid. The meetup thing is good but step 1 is you have to make friends, not go after girls. Hopefully there's someone semi-normal at those meetup events. If not you'll be stuck around a bunch of awkward c*nts and never meet any females even if you do make friends with them.

Once you have a solid group of friends you can start going out together. Hopefully the friend group includes some females. You don't have to be friends with attractive ones, ugly ones will still bring along other friends. Hopefully you get lucky and eventually an attractive one tags along to a hangout/party.

Only then after all of that can you be properly rejected like the undesirable peasant that you are.
I already have friends. I have had groups of friends my entire life. Its weird how often there's this assumption that incels dont even have platonic friends. I do.

It has never lead to anything. In college or maybe early 20s that way makes sense but i'm in my 30s. Friends are not out and about like that. We arent having house parties like that. Its much smaller and closed off groups.

it doesnt work.
post 1701342333 05-20-2024, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩
Idk that's not really a good solution IMO. You're asking him to be fake. Meet and befriend a bunch of people he has no interest in in order to get a girl. Then what if he gets the girl? He has to continue the charade to hold onto her? That shiit would be mentally exhausting. I can't speak for BBMG or others on here but personally I'd rather be single than live a lie the rest of my life.
I dont think thats what he's saying. He for some reason assumed I dont have any friends. He's saying to make legitimate friends and opportunity should come from that, but it never has for me.
post 1701342653 05-20-2024, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I didnt dump all of them and those were 5 and 8 years ago in an entirely different part of the country. Its not relevant to whats possible or not today.

Yes I'm NEET, but this isnt about maintaining a relationship which is when that would be a problem. This about seeing whats possible.

If I'm fated to be incel, it validates my plan to stay NEET. If there seems to be opportunity I'll have some motivation to work.
This is ass backwards thinking. The only time being a 32 yr old black NEET is acceptable is if you're a Tyrone. And that's acceptance from ugly chicks or mentally ill women. Idk how much longer you have until you're money runs out but not having a job, life, OR friends is too many things against you. At least have one. Not saying you can't find anyone but your making a LVL 100 challenge a LVL 350 challenge. You're not really in a situation to determine if this is your final all or nothing or "see whats possible". I mean you should already be working for yourself, not waiting on some girl....which you've had before btw.

Either way I hope you actually stick with it and don't give up after the first girl that rejects you.
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I dont really give a fuk and this is all BS even if hes not trolling but ive found lots of taller girls didnt care as much about height as short girls. In the end it still dont matter when its all about face and money. height is 3rd usually as long as those first 2 are met.Only turbo sloots go after Rocky Dennis with big bank accounts
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You need to emulate Kevin Hart. Just be funny and successful and outgoing. Worked for Kevin.
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OP are you a virgin?
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
This is ass backwards thinking. The only time being a 32 yr old black NEET is acceptable is if you're a Tyrone. And that's acceptance from ugly chicks or mentally ill women. Idk how much longer you have until you're money runs out but not havinga job, life, OR friendsis too many things against you. At least have one. Not saying you can't find anyone but your making a LVL 100 challenge a LVL 350 challenge. You're not really in a situation to determine if this is your final all or nothing or "see whats possible". I mean you should already be working for yourself, not waiting on some girl....which you've had before btw.

Either way I hope you actually stick with it and don't give up after the first girl that rejects you.
Where is this coming from, I HAVE FRIENDS. I HAVE A LIFE in which I do thiings I enjoy.

I am NEET because I dont need the money right now and I dont have an incentive or future to work towards.

this is definitely going to tell me what I need to know. If I go all in on an entire summer and cant get anywhere, combined with my past experiences, a conclusion can be reached.ย I dont have to wait until I'm 60 and havent had sex in 30 years to accept my situation.
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
You need to emulate Kevin Hart. Just be funny and successful and outgoing. Worked for Kevin.
Kevin isnt 'just be funny'. He's one of the funniest men on planet earth. but just do that bro!!!

He isnt just successful. He's one of the most famous and richest comedians and actors on earth. But just do that bro!!

I am outgoing. I am funny. I am successful. But not to the insane extent it takes to be attractive to women in 2024.
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Originally Posted By Akd123⏩
I dont really give a fuk and this is all BS even if hes not trolling but ive found lots of taller girls didnt care as much about height as short girls. In the end it still dont matter when its all about face and money. height is 3rd usually as long as those first 2 are met.Only turbo sloots go after Rocky Dennis with big bank accounts
Height is #1 IF YOU ARE SHORT. If you dont meet the height requirement nothing else matters. Face and money have wiggle room. They're subjective/relative. Height is you either meet it or you dont and if you dont they are not attracted to you at all.

If you arent short, height doesnt matter that much. But if you are short, it can be everything. It can be the sole reason your dating life is hard.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Where is this coming from, I HAVE FRIENDS. I HAVE A LIFE in which I do thiings I enjoy.

I am NEET because I dont need the money right now and I dont have an incentive or future to work towards.

this is definitely going to tell me what I need to know. If I go all in on an entire summer and cant get anywhere, combined with my past experiences, a conclusion can be reached.ย I dont have to wait until I'm 60 and havent had sex in 30 years to accept my situation.
You're an idiot

so many of us have tried to help you.

you are short, and probably ugly, and also probably the least desirable ethnicity. You need to emphatically check every single other box. Employment is like the bare minimum. Do you just lie when you meet girls? So you're just burning through 20-30k/year?

You're so much stupider than I thought.
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
OP are you a virgin?
No, but I didnt even get my first kiss until I was 25. Lost virginity at 25. Only been with 2 girls and the last time was over 3 years ago.

I go on dry spells for years easily. and I have no idea when this one will end.
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
You're an idiot

so many of us have tried to help you.

you are short, and probably ugly, and also probably the least desirable ethnicity. You need to emphatically check every single other box. Employment is like the bare minimum. Do you just lie when you meet girls? So you're just burning through 20-30k/year?

You're so much stupider than I thought.
I graduated from the Ivy league and was making 6 figures for years. IT DIDNT HELP WITH WOMEN AT ALL.

So how are you now telling me how important a job is. If having a good job made the difference, I would have one. The whole issue is IT DIDNT MAKE A DIFFERENCE.

I havent been trying to meet girls since I've gone NEET you retard. Obviously not. I've given up for a long time. So I tell them whatever I feel like.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Height is #1 IF YOU ARE SHORT. If you dont meet the height requirement nothing else matters. Face and money have wiggle room. They're subjective/relative. Height is you either meet it or you dont and if you dont they are not attracted to you at all.

If you arent short, height doesnt matter that much. But if you are short, it can be everything. It can be the sole reason your dating life is hard.
You are one dumb motherfuker or a troll. which is it? Im a manlet and have had girls throw themselves at me when i was younger. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT! or are you calling me a liar? which is it. You calling me a liar you frauding ph@ggot?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I graduated from the Ivy league and was making 6 figures for years. IT DIDNT HELP WITH WOMEN AT ALL.

So how are you now telling me how important a job is. If having a good job made the difference, I would have one. The whole issue is IT DIDNT MAKE A DIFFERENCE.

I havent been trying to meet girls since I've gone NEET you retard. Obviously not. I've given up for a long time. So I tell them whatever I feel like.
That's not what I said little fella. You seem easily triggered by words from a stranger. Employment matters. It's not the only thing that matters. But girls are going to want to know what you do for work. So you're blowing through 20-30k/year? Six figures isn't that much, unless you're talking greater than a quarter-mil a year and assuming you made that for a lengthy period of time... you already said you aren't a STEMcel, you definitely are too stupid for sales. Math ain't math'n.

You concluded it didn't matter... you're yelling it. So you didn't have success with a good job, or without? But you've met different women during both times. Sounds like the goal is you want a family to provide for. Well you know what a good woman who wants children is not looking for? An unemployed loser with no ambition and no drive. Also have fun explaining this work gap to employers. What do you do all day?

Welcome to my ignore list chitstain.
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
That's not what I said little fella. You seem easily triggered by words from a stranger. Employment matters. It's not the only thing that matters. But girls are going to want to know what you do for work. So you're blowing through 20-30k/year? Six figures isn't that much, unless you're talking greater than a quarter-mil a year and assuming you made that for a lengthy period of time... you already said you aren't a STEMcel, you definitely are too stupid for sales. Math ain't math'n.

You concluded it didn't matter... you're yelling it. So you didn't have success with a good job, or without? But you've met different women during both times. Sounds like the goal is you want a family to provide for. Well you know what a good woman who wants children is not looking for? An unemployed loser with no ambition and no drive. Also have fun explaining this work gap to employers. What do you do all day?

Welcome to my ignore list chitstain.
I dont really see what your point is. Its pretty simple, I dont need to work for money I dont need to impress a woman who is going to reject me cause I'm short anyway.

If in this summer experiment I find that there are interested women, I can go on dates etc then that will renew my motivation career wise. But until I see evidence of that, I just dont give a chit about working unless I really need to.
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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩
Idk based on his comment it seems like he was saying your current friends would be useful in this (stuck with a bunch of awkward kunts). Sounded like he wanted you to meet new people outside you friend group who are more "normal" and meet/date their friends. And again I can't speak for you or others, but for me my only interest in doing that would be initiating romantic encounters. This would be be fake/phony and would be exhausting over a long period of time if that's what it takes to maintain the relationship.

I have a small group of close friends already and have no interest in meeting new people. Unfortunately their friends and relatives are all either in relationships or fat. So for my situation no prospects there.
My friends are normal. They cant work magic and make me attractive if I'm not.
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