08-03-2024, 06:30 PM
#31
there are tons of people in happy relationships who don't have a higher purpose. that's bullchit IMO
OP needs to meditate, go to volunteer events, and just get out of his own head. stay in the present, and focus on being joyful and spread that joy to others. stop fapping too if he does that. see the good in life and cut out all negativity.
OP needs to meditate, go to volunteer events, and just get out of his own head. stay in the present, and focus on being joyful and spread that joy to others. stop fapping too if he does that. see the good in life and cut out all negativity.
Monster0ultra self proclaimed "Chad" face pic looks like vtech school shooter: https://i.imgur.com/z2m6Why.jpg
- TugOfPeace
- 1012 ng/dl
-
- TugOfPeace
- 1012 ng/dl
- Join Date: Oct 2013
- Posts: 3,050
- Rep Power: 166,022
-
Quote
08-03-2024, 06:51 PM
#32
Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
bro, dont blame yourself. women deliberately screw up relationships for no other reason than to test her mans nuts. this happens all the time.
I just ruined another fuking relationship with a beautiful fun chick.
the best piece of advice i could give any man about dating women is do not get attached, and certainly dont treat her like you love her. the only way to keep her interested is to play mean head games with her.
believe me when i say this, i wish it was not like that but it is.
Merica
<I.L.H.|C.O.E.>
RIP YGST
08-03-2024, 07:12 PM
#33
OP is a good guy and he's gonna make it (srs)
- AdvancedDreamer
- Registered Retard
-
- AdvancedDreamer
- Registered Retard
- Join Date: Nov 2014
- Posts: 7,655
- Rep Power: 91,053
-
08-03-2024, 07:17 PM
#34
It's very simple, so simple you'll think it's foolish and write it off only to come to the end of your life feeling the same way no matter how much you accomplish. The reality is and always will be..
No Jesus No Peace
Know Jesus Know Peace
No Jesus No Peace
Know Jesus Know Peace
- Paul Kreul
- Registered User
-
- Paul Kreul
- Registered User
- Join Date: Apr 2006
- Location: United States
- Posts: 20,625
- Rep Power: 316,746
-
08-04-2024, 10:16 AM
#35
Originally Posted By Chasbrah⏩
yes, i ve bought some of the books being mentioned. hopefully they help long term. i def prefer romantic relationships over friend zones, i dont often keep women around if it ends up being platonic, very rarely at least. Yeah thats a whole other thing to watch your partner pass away. That fukin suks and def requires strength
Legit recommendations and good to see the misc still has some legit bros (among the others that are admittedly bringing the lols ITT).
I don't think there's anything wrong with feeing a higher level of satisfaction with having a partner around and if that's what makes you tick, then you should go for it- I certainly enjoy company with intimate partners (even in a non-intimate context).
I think perhaps the other side of that coin is finding fulfillment in platonic relationships as well. You've got some solid interests which I'm sure lots of people share, and I'm always interested to see older men and women who's partners have passed on and no-doubt left a hole, but those individuals maintain their interests and other connections and remain happy and healthy. I've seen family be both a positive, and negative for these sort of cases.
I share your view on kids- they may well fill a void, but it's a huge gamble to take if that's a big part of the reason you're having them. People often complain and part of that is they can't change their situation easily once kids are in the picture (while remaining a responsible adult).
It sounds cliche but communicationa and certain personality traits sound important to you in a partner. You're old enough to wait to find the right one but in the meantime, have some open (up-front with intentions) fun with others in the meantime- you never know what might come of it.
I don't think there's anything wrong with feeing a higher level of satisfaction with having a partner around and if that's what makes you tick, then you should go for it- I certainly enjoy company with intimate partners (even in a non-intimate context).
I think perhaps the other side of that coin is finding fulfillment in platonic relationships as well. You've got some solid interests which I'm sure lots of people share, and I'm always interested to see older men and women who's partners have passed on and no-doubt left a hole, but those individuals maintain their interests and other connections and remain happy and healthy. I've seen family be both a positive, and negative for these sort of cases.
I share your view on kids- they may well fill a void, but it's a huge gamble to take if that's a big part of the reason you're having them. People often complain and part of that is they can't change their situation easily once kids are in the picture (while remaining a responsible adult).
It sounds cliche but communicationa and certain personality traits sound important to you in a partner. You're old enough to wait to find the right one but in the meantime, have some open (up-front with intentions) fun with others in the meantime- you never know what might come of it.
No way would I ever want to have kids without a stable partner. I couldn't imagine having kids and then losing interest or seperating from the mother of my child. I would hope to be madly in love with her and together forever, but does that happen often these days? i guess not really, sucks. I imagine you share a similar view here
Def, if i dont get steady communication, i start to feel a pullback and it would just make me appear insecure. I do need a partner who communicates, but still need to address my route issues cause it is always a matter of time before i snap.
Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
yeah i dont necessarily want more responsibilities and chit to deal with on an every day basis, more income wouldnt hurt but it never does.
there are tons of people in happy relationships who don't have a higher purpose. that's bullchit IMO
OP needs to meditate, go to volunteer events, and just get out of his own head. stay in the present, and focus on being joyful and spread that joy to others. stop fapping too if he does that. see the good in life and cut out all negativity.
OP needs to meditate, go to volunteer events, and just get out of his own head. stay in the present, and focus on being joyful and spread that joy to others. stop fapping too if he does that. see the good in life and cut out all negativity.
I like the ideas of meditate, volunteer, and getting out of my own head. going to read and maybe do a short guided imagery/mediation session in a bit.
Originally Posted By 4ea⏩
alot of truth in what you say. sometimes the more detached you are, the more they are interested. once they have your balls, it can be over especially if they are shallow.
bro, dont blame yourself. women deliberately screw up relationships for no other reason than to test her mans nuts. this happens all the time.
the best piece of advice i could give any man about dating women is do not get attached, and certainly dont treat her like you love her. the only way to keep her interested is to play mean head games with her.
believe me when i say this, i wish it was not like that but it is.
the best piece of advice i could give any man about dating women is do not get attached, and certainly dont treat her like you love her. the only way to keep her interested is to play mean head games with her.
believe me when i say this, i wish it was not like that but it is.
Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
you are too man, thanks for everything.
OP is a good guy and he's gonna make it (srs)
Originally Posted By Paul Kreul⏩
i like this quote. I will pray today too.
It's very simple, so simple you'll think it's foolish and write it off only to come to the end of your life feeling the same way no matter how much you accomplish. The reality is and always will be..
No Jesus No Peace
Know Jesus Know Peace
No Jesus No Peace
Know Jesus Know Peace
IF YOU DONT SQUAT, YOU AINT SQUAT
- Legendsneverdie
- Registered User
-
- Legendsneverdie
- Registered User
- Join Date: Aug 2007
- Age: 38
- Posts: 10,235
- Rep Power: 98,555
-
Bookmarks
- Digg
- del.icio.us
- StumbleUpon
Posting Permissions
- You may not post new threads
- You may not post replies
- You may not post attachments
- You may not edit your posts