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08-15-2024, 12:06 PM
#31
lmao imagine making your wife work when you have young kids
08-15-2024, 01:38 PM
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08-15-2024, 01:46 PM
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Okay so this doesn't make sense. Your entire misc career on here has been pushing the idea of being a landlord and mogger, constantly showing how you have like 1 mil cash in your bank account, and practically a ceo/10k a day. Plus you're not even working right now.
So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
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08-15-2024, 02:29 PM
#34
Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
No
So you had the kids first and then thought about how to afford it?
Myself and the wife each make deep into the 7 figures
Money is not really a decisive factor
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08-15-2024, 02:32 PM
#35
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
I've been thinking the same thing actually. Crazy how hiring a live in caretaker is cheaper than decent daycare.
Basically, if either me or the wife or both go back to work at some point we’ll lose the free childcare which for 2 kids is around $100,000
Instead of paying $100,000 per year for 2 kids I could hire an early 20’s Russian girl to look after the kids
If we provide accomodation and food then the actual cash salary would be around $50,000
Some of them apparently do light housekeeping but we have cleaners and meal delivery service so whatever
Pros:
-mum would have another person to talk to when she’s here
-live in help/babysitter
-we have a massive house anyway so losing 1 brm/1 bath is nbd
-kids can get more consistent exposure to Russian language
-don’t have to walk kids to daycare or worry about them picking up random viruses
Cons:
?
Instead of paying $100,000 per year for 2 kids I could hire an early 20’s Russian girl to look after the kids
If we provide accomodation and food then the actual cash salary would be around $50,000
Some of them apparently do light housekeeping but we have cleaners and meal delivery service so whatever
Pros:
-mum would have another person to talk to when she’s here
-live in help/babysitter
-we have a massive house anyway so losing 1 brm/1 bath is nbd
-kids can get more consistent exposure to Russian language
-don’t have to walk kids to daycare or worry about them picking up random viruses
Cons:
?
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Must be nice to live in a welfare state.
We get free (or, more precisely, 90% or more subsidised) provided you don’t have any individual reportable income
So on a $100,000 childcare bill I might pay $10k or less which is basically free
So on a $100,000 childcare bill I might pay $10k or less which is basically free
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08-15-2024, 02:43 PM
#36
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Must be nice to live in a welfare state.
Universal healthcare too, and zero school shootings
Must be nice to live in a welfare state.
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08-15-2024, 03:43 PM
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Hard to pick a less trustworthy cultural background. Hiring a wild animal would be safer.
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08-15-2024, 04:06 PM
#38
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
And all it costs you and other kangaroocels is your freedom and manhood. Lol.
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08-15-2024, 04:07 PM
#39
Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
first off raising a kid doesn't really cost that much, or at least not nearly as much as antinatalists like you think
So you had the kids first and then thought about how to afford it?
second shut the fuk up
third I don't think you should be judging anyone on their life's choices
fourthly shut the fuk up
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08-15-2024, 04:09 PM
#40
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
So then you're both just retarded? Or….
No
Myself and the wife each make deep into the 7 figures
Money is not really a decisive factor
Myself and the wife each make deep into the 7 figures
Money is not really a decisive factor
What am I missing here?
Either spend 100k a year which is meaningless monetarily for a mogger couple making millions a year….right?
Or 1 person just works…making 7 figures, and the wife and mother take care of the kids.
Either way the fact you'd rather both go back to work for money and let someone else raise your kid most of the day is genuinely retarded.
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08-15-2024, 04:12 PM
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I refuse to believe your day care is $100K?
I have two kids who go 4 days a week in Sydney (brand new day care) and its $42K a year…
How is it actually that high?
I have two kids who go 4 days a week in Sydney (brand new day care) and its $42K a year…
How is it actually that high?
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08-15-2024, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted By 24HrParking⏩
Assuming:
I refuse to believe your day care is $100K?
I have two kids who go 4 days a week in Sydney (brand new day care) and its $42K a year…
How is it actually that high?
I have two kids who go 4 days a week in Sydney (brand new day care) and its $42K a year…
How is it actually that high?
-2 kids both 5 days a week
-Zero childcare subsidy
Do you qualify for any subsidy?
Our daycare is slightly more than some others in the area because they feed them and provide nappies and have slightly earlier drop offs and slightly later pickups
Plus it’s just an expensive area I suppose
Not going to go back on a wait list for a year to save a few bucks
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08-15-2024, 04:31 PM
#43
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Why do you get zero again? Do you guys earn that much?
Assuming:
-2 kids both 5 days a week
-Zero childcare subsidy
-2 kids both 5 days a week
-Zero childcare subsidy
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08-15-2024, 04:52 PM
#44
Originally Posted By 24HrParking⏩
This year we are aiming at $0 in reportable income so get the maximum subsidy which is like 90 or 95 per cent (so in this scenario childcare is basically free)
Why do you get zero again? Do you guys earn that much?
If either of us are working in our regular jobs, or take paid leave, or make a profit distribution from the company to ourselves in that (personal) income year, we get no subsidy at all
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08-15-2024, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Universal healthcare too, and zero school shootings
Also an actual controlled immigration program
The list goes on
Also an actual controlled immigration program
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lol wtf you guys are flooded with chinese and indians
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08-15-2024, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted By whitepaper⏩
That’s a relatively recent phenomenon
lol wtf you guys are flooded with chinese and indians
A lot of them would be Uber drivers and hospitality workers on working visas
In the long run most permanent immigrants have come from US and UK
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08-15-2024, 05:10 PM
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PM that Bodhy guy and maybe he'll take that gig.
Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Minus the wife, that pretty much describes 87.3% of the misc.
Okay so this doesn't make sense. Your entire misc career on here has been pushing the idea of being a landlord and mogger, constantly showing how you have like 1 mil cash in your bank account, and practically a ceo/10k a day. Plus you're not even working right now.
So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
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08-15-2024, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By HaiMeesk⏩
Imagine the education bodhy can provide your kids OP.
PM that Bodhy guy and maybe he'll take that gig.
Minus the wife, that pretty much describes 87.3% of the misc.
Minus the wife, that pretty much describes 87.3% of the misc.
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08-15-2024, 05:20 PM
#49
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
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08-15-2024, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Misctastiic⏩
It is weird, it'd be best if the you had a separate guest house. My mother has a house with a live in maid suite. It's attached to the house but has a separate entrance and can only be accessed via that entrance and not from within the main house.
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
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08-15-2024, 05:30 PM
#51
Originally Posted By Misctastiic⏩
Repped for the useful observation in the second half of your post
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
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08-15-2024, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Misctastiic⏩
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Hnnnng
on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
It is weird, it'd be best if the you had a separate guest house. My mother has a house with a live in maid suite. It's attached to the house but has a separate entrance and can only be accessed via that entrance and not from within the main house.
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
A nanny is different to a maid, due to the kid's attachment. Do you have them join you for dinner, or do they eat in their quarters; not with the kids? Do you let them use the media room? Do you let them use the pool etc?
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Kids get attached to them and they became something between the kid's friend and their "aunt". The normal boundaries between employer and employee don't work.
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08-15-2024, 06:00 PM
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pro
you could bang her
con
I dont trust random ppl in my place. Stealing or doing other weird stuff
you could bang her
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I dont trust random ppl in my place. Stealing or doing other weird stuff
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Originally Posted By alphaalbertan8⏩
That’s a great point
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you could bang her
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I dont trust random ppl in my place. Stealing or doing other weird stuff
you could bang her
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08-15-2024, 06:41 PM
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We have a nanny, but she's not living with us - I'd never want someone else living with us like that.
Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
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08-15-2024, 06:43 PM
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Wife works as a nanny. she doesn't cook or clean the house, except occasionally cooks for the kid only. she basically takes them to school and picks them up and takes them to whatever extra activities they have. its just one kid and he's like 5-6 i think. also she have a car for her to use. so she doesn't have to use hers. beisdes driving to their house and driving home
Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
08-15-2024, 06:47 PM
#57
Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
What kind of hours does your wife work
Wife works as a nanny. she doesn't cook or clean the house, except occasionally cooks for the kid only. she basically takes them to school and picks them up and takes them to whatever extra activities they have. its just one kid and he's like 5-6 i think. also she have a car for her to use. so she doesn't have to use hers. beisdes driving to their house and driving home
They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
What hours is your nanny working and how much do you pay her, if you’re happy to share
We have a nanny, but she's not living with us - I'd never want someone else living with us like that.
Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
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08-15-2024, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
I'd rather get a maid and take care of my kid myself. Which is probably what I'll end up doing.
Wife works as a nanny. she doesn't cook or clean the house, except occasionally cooks for the kid only. she basically takes them to school and picks them up and takes them to whatever extra activities they have. its just one kid and he's like 5-6 i think. also she have a car for her to use. so she doesn't have to use hers. beisdes driving to their house and driving home
They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
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08-15-2024, 06:52 PM
#59
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
They work from home. So i assume they need someone to keep an eye on the kid during those hours, since he's already an age where he's walking and talking. so it's not like a baby you can put in a play pen. but yeah i agree i would rather take care of the kid myself but if we both had careers that took up our mornings. i would rather what the people who pay the wife do.
I'd rather get a maid and take care of my kid myself. Which is probably what I'll end up doing.
08-16-2024, 05:24 PM
#60
Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Looking after kids is exhausting
Okay so this doesn't make sense. Your entire misc career on here has been pushing the idea of being a landlord and mogger, constantly showing how you have like 1 mil cash in your bank account, and practically a ceo/10k a day. Plus you're not even working right now.
So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
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