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post 1705067431 08-15-2024, 01:06 PM
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Okay so this doesn't make sense. Your entire misc career on here has been pushing the idea of being a landlord and mogger, constantly showing how you have like 1 mil cash in your bank account, and practically a ceo/10k a day. Plus you're not even working right now.

So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?

post 1705073831 08-15-2024, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
So you had the kids first and then thought about how to afford it?
No

Myself and the wife each make deep into the 7 figures

Money is not really a decisive factor
post 1705074011 08-15-2024, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Basically, if either me or the wife or both go back to work at some point we’ll lose the free childcare which for 2 kids is around $100,000

Instead of paying $100,000 per year for 2 kids I could hire an early 20’s Russian girl to look after the kids

If we provide accomodation and food then the actual cash salary would be around $50,000

Some of them apparently do light housekeeping but we have cleaners and meal delivery service so whatever


Pros:
-mum would have another person to talk to when she’s here
-live in help/babysitter
-we have a massive house anyway so losing 1 brm/1 bath is nbd
-kids can get more consistent exposure to Russian language
-don’t have to walk kids to daycare or worry about them picking up random viruses

Cons:
?
I've been thinking the same thing actually. Crazy how hiring a live in caretaker is cheaper than decent daycare.
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
We get free (or, more precisely, 90% or more subsidised) provided you don’t have any individual reportable income

So on a $100,000 childcare bill I might pay $10k or less which is basically free
Must be nice to live in a welfare state.
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post 1705074531 08-15-2024, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Must be nice to live in a welfare state.
Universal healthcare too, and zero school shootings

Also an actual controlled immigration program

The list goes on
post 1705077321 08-15-2024, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Universal healthcare too, and zero school shootings

Also an actual controlled immigration program

The list goes on
And all it costs you and other kangaroocels is your freedom and manhood. Lol.
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post 1705078581 08-15-2024, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
So you had the kids first and then thought about how to afford it?
first off raising a kid doesn't really cost that much, or at least not nearly as much as antinatalists like you think
second shut the fuk up
third I don't think you should be judging anyone on their life's choices
fourthly shut the fuk up
post 1705078631 08-15-2024, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
No

Myself and the wife each make deep into the 7 figures

Money is not really a decisive factor
So then you're both just retarded? Or....

What am I missing here?

Either spend 100k a year which is meaningless monetarily for a mogger couple making millions a year....right?

Or 1 person just works...making 7 figures, and the wife and mother take care of the kids.

Either way the fact you'd rather both go back to work for money and let someone else raise your kid most of the day is genuinely retarded.
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I refuse to believe your day care is $100K?

I have two kids who go 4 days a week in Sydney (brand new day care) and its $42K a year...

How is it actually that high?
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post 1705079581 08-15-2024, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted By 24HrParking⏩
I refuse to believe your day care is $100K?

I have two kids who go 4 days a week in Sydney (brand new day care) and its $42K a year...

How is it actually that high?
Assuming:
-2 kids both 5 days a week
-Zero childcare subsidy

Do you qualify for any subsidy?

Our daycare is slightly more than some others in the area because they feed them and provide nappies and have slightly earlier drop offs and slightly later pickups

Plus it’s just an expensive area I suppose

Not going to go back on a wait list for a year to save a few bucks
post 1705079641 08-15-2024, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Assuming:
-2 kids both 5 days a week
-Zero childcare subsidy
Why do you get zero again? Do you guys earn that much?
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post 1705080701 08-15-2024, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By 24HrParking⏩
Why do you get zero again? Do you guys earn that much?
This year we are aiming at $0 in reportable income so get the maximum subsidy which is like 90 or 95 per cent (so in this scenario childcare is basically free)

If either of us are working in our regular jobs, or take paid leave, or make a profit distribution from the company to ourselves in that (personal) income year, we get no subsidy at all
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Universal healthcare too, and zero school shootings

Also an actual controlled immigration program

The list goes on
lol wtf you guys are flooded with chinese and indians
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Originally Posted By whitepaper⏩
lol wtf you guys are flooded with chinese and indians
That’s a relatively recent phenomenon

A lot of them would be Uber drivers and hospitality workers on working visas

In the long run most permanent immigrants have come from US and UK
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PM that Bodhy guy and maybe he'll take that gig.
Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Okay so this doesn't make sense. Your entire misc career on here has been pushing the idea of being a landlord and mogger, constantly showing how you have like 1 mil cash in your bank account, and practically a ceo/10k a day. Plus you're not even working right now.

So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?
Minus the wife, that pretty much describes 87.3% of the misc.
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Originally Posted By HaiMeesk⏩
PM that Bodhy guy and maybe he'll take that gig.



Minus the wife, that pretty much describes 87.3% of the misc.
Imagine the education bodhy can provide your kids OP.
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Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her

Hnnnng


on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
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Originally Posted By Misctastiic⏩
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her

Hnnnng


on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
It is weird, it'd be best if the you had a separate guest house. My mother has a house with a live in maid suite. It's attached to the house but has a separate entrance and can only be accessed via that entrance and not from within the main house.
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Originally Posted By Misctastiic⏩
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her

Hnnnng


on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Repped for the useful observation in the second half of your post
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Originally Posted By Misctastiic⏩
Imagine if somehow your wife started liking the fantasy of you both fuking her

Hnnnng


on a srs note, so this girl would live with you? Is she supposed to just stay in her room once the kids go to bed or is she walking around the living room with you? That would be weird if she's just always there
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
It is weird, it'd be best if the you had a separate guest house. My mother has a house with a live in maid suite. It's attached to the house but has a separate entrance and can only be accessed via that entrance and not from within the main house.
Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Repped for the useful observation in the second half of your post
A nanny is different to a maid, due to the kid's attachment. Do you have them join you for dinner, or do they eat in their quarters; not with the kids? Do you let them use the media room? Do you let them use the pool etc?

Kids get attached to them and they became something between the kid's friend and their "aunt". The normal boundaries between employer and employee don't work.

To me, the whole thing seems like a colossal pain in the arse.
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pro

you could bang her

con

I dont trust random ppl in my place. Stealing or doing other weird stuff
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Originally Posted By alphaalbertan8⏩
pro

you could bang her

con

I dont trust random ppl in my place.Stealing or doing other weird stuff
That’s a great point

I would need to install a safe for watches, wife’sjewellery and car keys

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We have a nanny, but she's not living with us - I'd never want someone else living with us like that.

Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
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Wife works as a nanny. she doesn't cook or clean the house, except occasionally cooks for the kid only. she basically takes them to school and picks them up and takes them to whatever extra activities they have. its just one kid and he's like 5-6 i think. also she have a car for her to use. so she doesn't have to use hers. beisdes driving to their house and driving home
Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
Wife works as a nanny. she doesn't cook or clean the house, except occasionally cooks for the kid only. she basically takes them to school and picks them up and takes them to whatever extra activities they have. its just one kid and he's like 5-6 i think. also she have a car for her to use. so she doesn't have to use hers. beisdes driving to their house and driving home




They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
What kind of hours does your wife work
Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
We have a nanny, but she's not living with us - I'd never want someone else living with us like that.

Au pairs are common in my social circles - I'm surprised more don't get smashed by the fathers to be honest.
What hours is your nanny working and how much do you pay her, if you’re happy to share
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
Wife works as a nanny. she doesn't cook or clean the house, except occasionally cooks for the kid only. she basically takes them to school and picks them up and takes them to whatever extra activities they have. its just one kid and he's like 5-6 i think. also she have a car for her to use. so she doesn't have to use hers. beisdes driving to their house and driving home




They probably do.. look at one of our heroes Arnold. he smashed that gargoyle of a maid. especially since they are living their 24/7
I'd rather get a maid and take care of my kid myself. Which is probably what I'll end up doing.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
I'd rather get a maid and take care of my kid myself. Which is probably what I'll end up doing.
They work from home. So i assume they need someone to keep an eye on the kid during those hours, since he's already an age where he's walking and talking. so it's not like a baby you can put in a play pen. but yeah i agree i would rather take care of the kid myself but if we both had careers that took up our mornings. i would rather what the people who pay the wife do.
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Okay so this doesn't make sense. Your entire misc career on here has been pushing the idea of being a landlord and mogger, constantly showing how you have like 1 mil cash in your bank account, and practically a ceo/10k a day. Plus you're not even working right now.

So if that's all correct, why would your wife ever have to go back to work in any way unless you've just been larping? Because anyone else I know where the guy makes even decent money, his wife is a stay at home mom because having someone else raise your kids is absurd unless you're really not able to. Plus your mom lives with you and is helping raise the kids? 2 kids? But you're going to piss out 100k for someone else to raise your kids?

Looking after kids is exhausting

The “little” one doesn’t sleep consistently so nobody else sleeps either

Maybe I’ll think differently about it in a year or so when I’ve had a nap
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