Usually no because that was a hard pass from the husbands - but one guy was into it and she was older so didn't have to worry about pregnancy. Had to get a full STD panel before they would let me though. After that it was game on and pretty hot to unload inside somebody who's begging for it while her husband is across the room. She would also take it in her mouth and snowball him.

There was lots of variance in terms of what was allowed/they wanted. Some guys liked watching, some guys didn't. One didn't even allow kissing on the lips because it was too intimate.

It’s crazy, I’ve met people like this. Sex is cool(sometimes even no condom), but absolutely no kissing because they have a boyfriend.

Nice body ugly face is my limit

Won't bang a sloot with a horrible body even if her face is nice

Most couples have rules and boundaries, it's pretty normal. Some of them might not make sense to you or me as the other guy involved, but I guess it does to them. One couple also had limits on positions, like missionary wasn't allowed because again, it was too intimate.

For some people if they get cheated on…it's worse if the person had feelings for the other person than if it was just sex. Weird

This is often the trap that people getting into ENM fall into. They set a rule that there's no emotional involvement allowed, but at some point it almost becomes inevitable if you're actually dating another person. It's why 90% of those situations fail and end up with the couple splitting up.

Couple swapping is a recipe for disaster. What I did was literally just fulfill a fantasy like a gigolo would and that was it, plus I made sure that if the wife reached out outside the sexual part, I shut it down immediately.