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Thread: Intervention for notbadnotbrad

post 10000214149 06-14-2026, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Going to some billionaire chicks house shortly

This girl lives in rosedale and a house that’s like a museum

She had an entire fridge just for Voss waters

One time she took us to nobu and spent 1.2k on her dads credit card

Need to be on a flight tmw for 9am too

It’s over
^^Bag her and you won't have to worry about a thing in life.

But, seriously. Everyone is different. I still know very successful people in their 40s who still go out hard on the weekends (not all weekends). When they go out, they still party like they're in their 20s.

I had to dial it down when I was around 30, which meant quitting drinking so I'd stop doing the other stuff. I didn't want it interfering with my career.

You'll know when it's time to dial it down. Just don't kid yourself and you'll be alright.
post 10000214159 06-14-2026, 03:25 PM
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Notbadnotbrad, what do you want?
post 10000214206 06-14-2026, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
So you’re right

And here is my dilemma

I am a people pleaser but I don’t want to be a loser with no friends

But all my friends just go out

So what’s the alternative … sitting alone at home
Stop being a ppl pleaser. I was the same and had to stop. Life becomes easier if can.

As a ppl pleaser you put others (mostly mongo losers) ahead of yourself. Put yourself first - learn to "love" yourself - what you're good at and can do - then it's easy to cut these losers out.

If you get there you might not even need these type of friends, but can go out wherever and don't give a fk. Doing that, ppl will come to you and you make friends based on your own energy if makes sense.

Get friends your own age or older - not these ones that care about canthal tilt.
post 10000214223 06-14-2026, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
So you’re right

And here is my dilemma

I am a people pleaser but I don’t want to be a loser with no friends

But all my friends just go out

So what’s the alternative … sitting alone at home
find friends who drink, but don't do drugs. maybe join a squash league so you can find some high quality connections.

back in my party days, i was never exposed to pepsi. i didn't meet a single person who did that chit. everybody i met just drank alcohol. a few people smoked weed.

actually one exception - when i was partying in Brazil my buddy bought some pepsi from a sketchy drug dealer in Copacabana Beach. he offered me some and i simply said "no thanks, i'll just stick to alcohol".

i don't know where you hang out where everybody is snorting lines srs.
post 10000214234 06-14-2026, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky⏩
find friends who drink, but don't do drugs. maybe join a squash league so you can find some high quality connections.

back in my party days, i was never exposed to pepsi. i didn't meet a single person who did that chit. everybody i met just drank alcohol. a few people smoked weed.

actually one exception - when i was partying in Brazil my buddy bought some pepsi from a sketchy drug dealer in Copacabana Beach. he offered me some and i simply said "no thanks, i'll just stick to alcohol".

i don't know where you hang out where everybody is snorting lines srs.
I’m not from Toronto

But I remember the first time I was ever exposed to it

I was working at some finance company doing sales … got invited to a pre drink and there was just copious amounts of it

Then every party since like 9/10 people were doing it ,,, even people you’d never expect… ceos, lawyers, doctors etc
post 10000214244 06-14-2026, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I’m not from Toronto

But I remember the first time I was ever exposed to it

I was working at some finance company doing sales … got invited to a pre drink and there was just copious amounts of it

Then every party since like 9/10 people were doing it ,,, even people you’d never expect… ceos, lawyers, doctors etc
I've never experienced that, thank God
post 10000214309 06-14-2026, 05:36 PM
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I'm around more alcoholics than anyone here and have been with a couple intimately. Unless they want to get help they won't change. Best thing you can do is distance yourself from them IRL. I wish him the best
Not in the AM
post 10000242531 07-03-2026, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By steffo99⏩
Stop being a ppl pleaser. I was the same and had to stop. Life becomes easier if can.

As a ppl pleaser you put others (mostly mongo losers) ahead of yourself. Put yourself first - learn to "love" yourself - what you're good at and can do - then it's easy to cut these losers out.

If you get there you might not even need these type of friends, but can go out wherever and don't give a fk. Doing that, ppl will come to you and you make friends based on your own energy if makes sense.

Get friends your own age or older - not these ones that care about canthal tilt.
i'm not buying this people pleaser narrative

he contacted the bag man himself yesterday

he should take responsibility isn't that the first step after admitting u have a problem what do u say @donny2yucky
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