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post 1521457821 10-04-2017, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
So I've been chatting with this female I added a while back for weeks now...and in the middle of our chatting she opens up she has a bf lol....

All this time I thought she was single cuz there's not a single pic of her with her bf on her FB.


lmao....just lmao...
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post 1521457861 10-04-2017, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
Who knows? Maybe she doesn't have a boyfriend. Maybe she doesn't really care about him too much.

Anyways, don't dwell on it too much. And next time, don't wait several weeks before finding out that a girl has a boyfriend. Make your intentions clear from the start. You won't waste your time, and you won't be so preoccupied later on.

You can still make a move if you want to, though you'll likely get rejected, and even if you succeed, it'll create more drama than it's worth. But again, you have to make your intentions clear and not act like you just want to be friends and be a orbiter.
One way I show my intentions to a girl is just by giving her a smile...
post 1521457931 10-04-2017, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008
...why? Just leave it alone, you should NOT be salty over a woman rejecting you that you literally hardly know. Just leave the list alone, it's just social media.
I'm in the office and I find it irritating whenever she likes my status...but I admit, I do find her really attractive...
post 1521458201 10-04-2017, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
I'm in the office and I find it irritating whenever she likes my status...but I admit, I do find her really attractive...
Take this as your test to actually learn to get the **** over rejection. Again I will warn you - it's just a bitch. There is NO REASON to be so hung up and delete and block her. That is weak, and you will look weak to not just her, but feel weak yourself.

And you'll one day see the dude she's dating, and it will end up being some guy with nothing special about him.

If you delete her you will never learn to deal with the fact that women are just women, being women.
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Originally Posted By RC2008
Take this as your test to actually learn to get the **** over rejection. Again I will warn you - it's just a bitch. There is NO REASON to be so hung up and delete and block her. That is weak, and you will look weak to not just her, but feel weak yourself.

And you'll one day see the dude she's dating, and it will end up being some guy with nothing special about him.

If you delete her you will never learn to deal with the fact that women are just women, being women.
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post 1521463551 10-04-2017, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By ClevageGobbler


nothing can top this
That was the fakest thing that has ever happened
post 1521464541 10-04-2017, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
yeah ouch really....fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu


Neverhad this terrible feelingin a while(srs)
Mind is in a pretzel
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This thread needs the PepeStickingForkInOutlet meme.
post 1521466221 10-04-2017, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008
She lied to you so you wouldn't hit on her. And the subsequent liking of your pics is to get you into orbit. It's simple, and I would reccomend you don't dwell on it. My experience of women is if they want you, they actually physically chase you through constant messaging.
Pretty much this. My first thought was she didn't have a boyfriend in the first place. You hardly know her, let it roll off your shoulders and move on OP
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post 1521861001 10-08-2017, 12:24 AM
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btw she invited to use messenger as well...and asked to install on my phone...does it say something?
post 1521861441 10-08-2017, 12:33 AM
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
btw she invited to use messenger as well...and asked to install on my phone...does it say something?
no.
fukn Brozart
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post 1521861471 10-08-2017, 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Brozart
no.
what are you implying bro...?

Already have it installed before she even asked me to tho LOL
post 1521862101 10-08-2017, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted By ClevageGobbler


nothing can top this
Don't believe this is real one bit
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post 1521867691 10-08-2017, 04:08 AM
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Originally Posted By ClevageGobbler


nothing can top this
oh my God!!

I couldnt contain myself when he kept repeating 'you're my cutiepie!' and then the trains coming in.....loooool

too funny. wonder why she knocked him out, prolly had some bishes on the side.
post 1521867801 10-08-2017, 04:16 AM
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
btw she invited to use messenger as well...and asked to install on my phone...does it say something?
Aww OP. I read some of your posts above.

This girl is playing around with you, she doesn't like you ENOUGH. Trust me on that.

She wants to keep you around so u can keep giving her attention which she probably doesnt get from her supposed boyfriend. Also, most ppl I know do not post their relationships with their bf/gf online, only a handful of people really do that.

I tell you what to do. You block, delete, and never talk with her again. You dont need that kind of emotional/mental strain in your life.

Go and do that now, or you'll forever be a *******. Got it?
post 1521867871 10-08-2017, 04:19 AM
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
Aww OP. I read some of your posts above.

This girl is playing around with you, she doesn't like you ENOUGH. Trust me on that.

She wants to keep you around so u can keep giving her attention which she probably doesnt get from her supposed boyfriend. Also, most ppl I know do not post their relationships with their bf/gf online, only a handful of people really do that.

I tell you what to do. You block, delete, and never talk with her again. You dont need that kind of emotional/mental strain in your life.

Go and do that now, or you'll forever be a *******. Got it?
Appreciate the response and that's actually what I was thinking the other week...She keeps liking my statuses and just the other day...I invited her to like my page and she immediately liked it back like she was on a hurry or something...
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
Appreciate the response and that's actually what I was thinking the other week...She keeps liking my statuses and just the other day...I invited her to like my page and she immediately liked it back like she was on a hurry or something...
Block, delete and never talk with her again srs


Shes not worth your time at all. She will be the same flaky type of person in a relationship as she is right now.

First impressions do count, and if she took so long to tell you she was already taken whilst also showing clear signs of interest/flirting, she is not serious and probably someone who will do the same thing to you if you ever get with her.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
Block, delete and never talk with her again srs


Shes not worth your time at all. She will be the same flaky type of person in a relationship as she is right now.

First impressions do count, and if she took so long to tell you she was already taken whilst also showing clear signs of interest/flirting, she is not serious and probably someone who will do the same thing to you if you ever get with her.
darn...this is my first time blocking a female on fb lol

let me take a deep breath first....
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What if she's not in a relationship and she only said she has a bf as a defense mechanism since we haven't really met in real life? She is friends with my cousin on fb tho...

It's weird...no pics of bf on fb and IG...what is this?

And some of her statuses imply that she is single and trying to convince her self that being in a relationship will not necessarily make you a happy person or something like that.
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
darn...this is my first time blocking a female on fb lol

let me take a deep breath first....
Blocking her makes you look like a complete bitch. Want to drive her nuts? Pretend she doesn't exist.
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Originally Posted By mikeyk
Blocking her makes you look like a complete bitch. Want to drive her nuts? Pretend she doesn't exist.
Somebody already blocked me but I got over it eventually...

I only said she was beautiful and she blocked me? I wasn't even harassing her LOL

If I don't block her now...Trust me, I will get another notification from her tomorrow. 100 % dead serious...
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Originally Posted By MesoPeaks
What if she's not in a relationship and she only said she has a bf as a defense mechanism since we haven't really met in real life? She is friends with my cousin on fb tho...

It's weird...no pics of bf on fb and IG...what is this?

And some of her statuses imply that she is single and trying to convince her self that being in a relationship will not necessarily make you a happy person or something like that.
OP -

I'm telling you straight up, she is not being honest with you, she is being flaky and willl be flaky all throughout unless you nip it in the bud early on.


You can either go ahead with this train wreck and realize 3+ years after she's wiped you out emotionally, financially (?) and really messed up ur outlook on future relationships.

She seems flaky, and dishonest.

Not a good combo.


Block and delete and dont look back
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ded at online crush and never met in RL

you better no older than 16 otherwise night men
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Originally Posted By goonsondeck
ded at online crush and never met in RL

you better no older than 16 otherwise night men
I get super weak inside when I see an attractive female. It's part of my personality I guess....
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Originally Posted By mikeyk
Blocking her makes you look like a complete bitch. Want to drive her nuts? Pretend she doesn't exist.
Oh yeah that works only to an extent tho. She'll eventually think you are the biggest A-hole and will lack any due respect for you in the future if you ever choose to hit her up again (and guys always do lol)

Block & delete and be done with it.

If you ignore her, and u already are emotionally whipped like OP is, then u wont be able to keep it on going, you really wont.
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Sounds like you were unworthy to monkeybrach to. Happens all the time; also to me. Such is life, boyo. Try to focus on positive things and meet other women, it will get your mind off this girl.
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Originally Posted By zarathu5tra
Sounds like you were unworthy to monkeybrach to. Happens all the time; also to me. Such is life, boyo.Try to focus on positive things and meet other women, it will get your mind off this girl.
That's what I am doing right now...
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a few days after I left this thread...I discovered there's a feauture that you could do to not let a particul;ar person see your posts on ********...that's what I did...I put her name there so she would not see the stuff that I post...then after a week or so...I decided to bring back to normal so she could see it again...then boom...shes liking my stuff again...I guess, I will play her game LOL...
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So I ended up unfriending her on ********....so sick already LOL
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