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post 1537229561 12-11-2017, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted By PhilAUS
Previous relationship ended because i didnt want to get married or have kids, she pressured me heaps and i was "no thnx jess"

Got engaged to a new lass in August and plans for dat dere wholesome family life starting next october.

Old sloot found out and messaged me "I THOUGHT YOU NEVER WANTED TO SETTLE DOWN AND YOU SETTLE DOWN WITH THE NEXT GIRL"

Replied back with "Nu phone, who dis"
lmfao rofl lol
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post 1537229671 12-11-2017, 08:25 PM
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She went lesbian. Srs
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post 1537229721 12-11-2017, 08:26 PM
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Was ready for kids and I wasn't :/ Was 3 years older than me so that didn't help. Was better off for both of us I didn't want to feel rushed and I didn't want her to feel like I was holding her back. Was a 3 1/2 year relationship so still hitting me in the feels.

Edit: Geez looks like that was the case for alot of brahs here
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post 1537230901 12-11-2017, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Willful
What a pharking coincidence that I break up with a girl and see this thread on the misc the exact same day.

Snooped on her phone due to feeling uneasy (she hasn't wanted sex in a while, has been extra harsh towards me, and just acting a little different in general). First time ever doing that. Good thing too, found out she was sexting someone from her class for a few days. Confronted her about it and she admitted they pharked once recently. Come to find out she did it out of spite because of her thinking I called her a gold digger (to be fair I worded the associated topic very poorly).

Had a fairly lengthy heart to heart in person after work today on the subject, concluded that I wanted to split because I didn't want to be paranoid about her, and that she wouldn't want that either. There's always the future though, they say time mends all wounds right?
There is no future. She got taken to pound town while you two were together (that's enough right there) and was not going to tell you.
post 1537231181 12-11-2017, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Willful
Why's loyalty such a rare trait?
it isnt rare, you are going for the wrong women and probably have a weak personality
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post 1537231391 12-11-2017, 08:53 PM
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She moved to Cali with her family.
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post 1537231471 12-11-2017, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Willful
Fair 'nuff
not being a dik bruh, but their are things that shouldnt be forgiven and there are things that can.

when a chick cheats on you, never go back and never forgive. move on and be a man about it, you are worth more then that

everyone respects a man like that, not just women.
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post 1537232401 12-11-2017, 09:09 PM
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Wife went on business in Philadelphia
Met some football players for the eagles, last name of cocks
Cheated on me with him, I begged her to stay, but she left anyways
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post 1537232901 12-11-2017, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted By melDorado
She was angry a lot and i found it boring she didn't have any freinds
Same here! She would increasingly get angry with me. Ex gf had no friends or any kind of hobbies.

Just wish she had been a little more balanced with life.
post 1537233091 12-11-2017, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted By KyBrah32
Coincidentally just ended this morning. It was completely unexpected we just spent the past 4 days together and things seemed great, but she texts me on my drive home and says she doesnt see us going anywhere and she isnt "falling for me". Wtf man.

Proceeded to go NC and blast metal for the rest of the day
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post 1537233571 12-11-2017, 09:24 PM
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Found out she was having a misscairge and I dipped asap
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post 1537233841 12-11-2017, 09:27 PM
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I thought things were going well. We were dating for about a month and I told her I can't wait until I meet her family. And she said "Aww you're not the type of guy I bring home to my parents. You're the type of guy I jerk off in a back alley in the middle of the night"
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post 1537234491 12-11-2017, 09:35 PM
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Dated for about 3 months. I dumped her after finding out that she gave her dog away a few months before I met her due to being “busy.” If she’d give her dog away when life got tough, I figured she’d do the same thing to me. No thanks Jeff.
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post 1537234681 12-11-2017, 09:37 PM
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U dat bored boyo? In on misc survey.




































Jk don’t wanna cry.
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post 1537235011 12-11-2017, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted By rubyharo
U dat bored boyo? In on misc survey.




































Jk don’t wanna cry.
shhhh only dreams now
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post 1537237941 12-11-2017, 10:09 PM
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Sloot broke my heart when she suddenly didn't want to hang out anymore. She had recently got anew job and I'm sure she monkey branched There. She texted me one day saying we needed to talk. Man I never felt my heart get stomped on like that before, not even with my first gf.

Took that **** like a champ though. Told her it was no worries, wasn't meant to be, deleted her number and never talked to her since. Took a few months to get over her, but I'm full brad again. We all gon make it
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post 1537238051 12-11-2017, 10:10 PM
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Not a relationship but went NC on her because she was trying to play me and kept flaking. She's viewed my Snapchat stories so I know she still want this dik but like I told her, she has to earn it.
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post 1537238081 12-11-2017, 10:10 PM
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post 1537238571 12-11-2017, 10:16 PM
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had been dating for a year, she was a really awesome girl, but had some pretty awful trust issues/emotional problems because she got abused as a child, i gave it as much patience as i had and then some, but it was literally driving me insane so had to end it

sh*t really hurts when you know they're a good person but they have issues

people who abuse children need to be fuking shot on sight and buried in an unmarked grave, its heartbreaking how it can destroy their whole life
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post 1537242521 12-11-2017, 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Ted
had been dating for a year, she was a really awesome girl, but had some pretty awful trust issues/emotional problems because she got abused as a child, i gave it as much patience as i had and then some, but it was literally driving me insane so had to end it

sh*t really hurts when you know they're a good person but they have issues

people who abuse children need to be fuking shot on sight and buried in an unmarked grave, its heartbreaking how it can destroy their whole life
Sad but true. 2 girls I dated and 1 I knew were all either raped/molested, and the chit you see them do is mindboggling. It’s like they are fighting themselves to not phuck you over but are at the will of their damage. It’s a shame bc you can see the struggle in their eyes, but you know w experience that they can’t fight it.
post 1537243511 12-11-2017, 11:36 PM
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post 1537243801 12-11-2017, 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted By miscHelix
sloots gon sloot.
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post 1537243871 12-11-2017, 11:43 PM
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I wouldnt tell her stuff that was going on in my life, some really bad family stuff/eating disorder/self esteem stuff, because I wanted to protect her. I was distant and it caused her to be distant, when I realized I was being distant it was too late. I've still never told her what I was going through when we broke up.. ah those were some hard fuking times m8s.
post 1537244321 12-11-2017, 11:52 PM
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Married 15 years grew apart. No cheating just the relationship ran its course. Next relationship was almost 2 years she went back to her ex who was the father of her kids. Nfg. Just move on to the next mistake.
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post 1537245261 12-12-2017, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By githurdone
Sad but true. 2 girls I dated and 1 I knew were all either raped/molested, and the chit you see them do is mindboggling. It’s like they are fighting themselves to not phuck you over but are at the will of their damage. It’s a shame bc you can see the struggle in their eyes, but you know w experience that they can’t fight it.
Troof to this. I will never date another damaged girl ever again. Their subconscious psyche is so fukked.

One GF I had was molested at 9 years old, had a very strict and mean step-dad, and had all sorts of other issues going on.

She's now 32 and divorced with 2 kids and I can't imagine how trapped she feels now. In the end I went off on her....called her a piece of trash, loose wore out bitch, etc...last thing I ever said to her after a year of dating.

I knew she had issues, but I still held every disrespectful and whorish thing she did against her. It's like she had zero self control.

Not our responsibility to save these hoes. It's sad, but they are not worth anything past a one night stand.
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I'm still delaying the inevitable with my current girl. We've been on a month break on my behalf as I told her I needed space. It's tough because she's beautiful, family oriented, doesnt party, and isn't an attention whore on social media.

We dated 2 years and the last 3-4 months it seemed like I was doing everything wrong in her mind, and we would have major verbal fights over it. The last 3 weekends together we fought every time, and the last straw was us fighting at her cousin's wedding (all because I said something that pissed her off).

She still texts me every single day even though I only respond 50% of the time. We spoke on the phone last Friday and she apologized and admitted she was wrong, but I still have that feeling that if I go back to her sooner or later it'll come back. She also told me she will wait and always be available to me but I feel the fire I had for her has burnt out. It's a tough decision I'm making as I don't know if I'll find somebody better. However, I haven't been as happy as I am being single now in a long time.

Also, I'm 31 and just started making 200k+. Already have a trip to the bahamas for new years booked with the boys along with spring break in Cancun. I weighed my options and am going to live like a king and see what happens. I'd rather live like a champ while I am young enough and have the money than to get old and regret that I didn't explore the world and fuk more gorgeous women. At the same time, I may regret leaving the girl I'm with behind but fuk it, going with my gut and going to travel/live lavishly.
post 1537246161 12-12-2017, 12:39 AM
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She was bipolar but refused to take meds, finally pulled the plug
post 1537246911 12-12-2017, 01:03 AM
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I completely believe that she is on the spectrum, and most likely has aspergers.

When you've got someone who's out of tune with social norms/cues, it's hard to have a relationship or talk about anything serious.

The only thing I feel bad about is the fact she will miss out on me, srs. I put in work.
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Originally Posted By WeDoPullups
Troof to this. I will never date another damaged girl ever again. Their subconscious psyche is so fukked.

One GF I had was molested at 9 years old, had a very strict and mean step-dad, and had all sorts of other issues going on.

She's now 32 and divorced with 2 kids and I can't imagine how trapped she feels now. In the end I went off on her....called her a piece of trash, loose wore out bitch, etc...last thing I ever said to her after a year of dating.

I knew she had issues, but I still held every disrespectful and whorish thing she did against her. It's like she had zero self control.

Not our responsibility to save these hoes. It's sad, but they are not worth anything past a one night stand.
The beta in me wants to disagree, but after being phucked in the head you learn kill or be killed. By the time my girl was done w me I thought I was the one who was raped.
Originally Posted By Ephedra
I'm still delaying the inevitable with my current girl. We've been on a month break on my behalf as I told her I needed space. It's tough because she's beautiful, family oriented, doesnt party, and isn't an attention whore on social media.

We dated 2 years and the last 3-4 months it seemed like I was doing everything wrong in her mind, and we would have major verbal fights over it. The last 3 weekends together we fought every time, and the last straw was us fighting at her cousin's wedding (all because I said something that pissed her off).

She still texts me every single day even though I only respond 50% of the time. We spoke on the phone last Friday and she apologized and admitted she was wrong, but I still have that feeling that if I go back to her sooner or later it'll come back. She also told me she will wait and always be available to me but I feel the fire I had for her has burnt out. It's a tough decision I'm making as I don't know if I'll find somebody better. However, I haven't been as happy as I am being single now in a long time.

Also, I'm 31 and just started making 200k+. Already have a trip to the bahamas for new years booked with the boys along with spring break in Cancun. I weighed my options and am going to live like a king and see what happens. I'd rather live like a champ while I am young enough and have the money than to get old and regret that I didn't explore the world and fuk more gorgeous women. At the same time, I may regret leaving the girl I'm with behind but fuk it, going with my gut and going to travel/live lavishly.
Dude.. if she isn’t a sloot, and won’t cheat, you dun goofed. Healthy, trustworthy, good looking girls are less likely to exist than unicorns.
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