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post 1541210581 01-19-2018, 08:26 PM
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whoah no idea so many people felt this way. feelsbadman. thanks for the responses
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post 1541211211 01-19-2018, 08:32 PM
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I've been feeling this way for months. Realized my best friend (girl) will probably get a boyfriend once we graduate, and I'll never hear from her again. A lot of people here don't like having girls as close friends but she means everything to me and we would both do anything for each other to make the other succeed. She's even bought stuff for me when I was sick a few times, just acted really nice.

A lot of my friends have gone their separate ways. They don't text anymore, they just keep to themselves. It's cool, I know they have their own lives, and so I do my best to just let them be themselves. Probably only have about five or so people I actually talk to on a consistent basis, and who I would never forget. I've been consistently rejected by girls to the point where i just don't care anymore. I've stopped trying. All these feelings have been building up inside since September of last year.

Feelsbadman but I just continue on w/life, no point in giving up.
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post 1541212441 01-19-2018, 08:45 PM
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It sucks when you feel that way, especially when you find people more tuned into digital devices than actual people.
post 1541213181 01-19-2018, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
lol this, majority of people have felt that way at some point. I've felt completely alone since my last break up, use to having someone to txt/talk to all day everyday. That's just life though, just use the time to focus on and improve yourself brah.
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post 1541213321 01-19-2018, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
lol this, majority of people have felt that way at some point. I've felt completely alone since my last break up, use to having someone to txt/talk to all day everyday. That's just life though, just use the time to focus on and improve yourself brah.
Everyone feels like this after a break up. The problems is always trying to fill that void.
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post 1541213471 01-19-2018, 08:55 PM
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post 1541213571 01-19-2018, 08:56 PM
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All the damn time. Just focus on work, lifting, running and taking care of some of my family and that gets me through the day. Just sucks thinking about getting older and such, feel I'll be even more isolated.
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post 1541213581 01-19-2018, 08:56 PM
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Yeah, tbh my biggest fear is dying alone
post 1541214161 01-19-2018, 09:03 PM
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wat a sad thread

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I am VERY VERY GLAD that I do not have this problem! I have many friends to talk to, and any time I feel like doing something I can arrange it! I often find myself declining invitations around Friday and Saturday because I get too many texts!

I also have a thin blonde girlfriend and we have a great time whenever we go out! At work I have a lot of chats with my coworkers because I perform well and help others, and so they are good to me in return.

I am VERY happy with my life and this thread makes me feel so good DEEP INSIDE MY CHEST that I will never have the problems the rest of you do!

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post 1541215351 01-19-2018, 09:16 PM
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post 1541215591 01-19-2018, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted By PrehistoricUFO⏩
I am VERY VERY GLAD that I do not have this problem! I have many friends to talk to, and any time I feel like doing something I can arrange it! I often find myself declining invitations around Friday and Saturday because I get too many texts!

I also have a thin blonde girlfriend and we have a great time whenever we go out! At work I have a lot of chats with my coworkers because I perform well and help others, and so they are good to me in return.

I am VERY happy with my life and this thread makes me feel so good DEEP INSIDE MY CHEST that I will never have the problems the rest of you do!


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post 1541238221 01-20-2018, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I think life is really like that for very extraverted people. Their days are filled with social connections and social events and they really cannot relate to loneliness or isolation.

And if they lose one person like in a relationship breakup then they have a big group of people to fall back on for support plus it doesn't take them long to find someone new because they're just surrounded by people all the time with a big social network. Really such a different way of life.
Yeah introverts usually choose a person or two to be with, and when that person leaves they are left even more alone. It's weird always being alone, I often reminisce about the times several years ago where I was somewhat connected to society and had no problem socializing and going out.....but now I feel like I'm on a different planet. It's so strange to see the world from both an points of view, and how different both life styles are
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post 1541245711 01-20-2018, 07:20 AM
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post 1541245791 01-20-2018, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes and most extraverts really can't relate or understand because it's so natural for them.

My two friends are both extremely extraverted and social and their life is a blur of social events. They are very rarely or ever alone and they're always either talking to people or meeting with people or on their way to do so. Juggling all their social appointments and trying to fit everyone in. It's a completely different lifestyle.
Lol is this what you Think? Random social friends =\= really friends or a partner. When a partner disappears we get just as down
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post 1541246231 01-20-2018, 07:30 AM
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post 1541246821 01-20-2018, 07:40 AM
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I am a pretty big introverted person and I concur with people who say we choose a select few friends and rather have smaller tight nit groups. I was this way in High School and College. Ultimately I regret ever being this way. It's natural for friendships to come and go because of real life getting in the way. You cannot always count on people, even if you know them for a lifetime ( I don't blame them.) Having a small group of friends in the end has hurt me more than it has helped. While it's true having more friends as an extrovert does not mean they are all good friends, you still have options, lots.

As you get older as an introvert it becomes even more difficult to keep/make/find new friends. Your friends will move away for job opportunities. They will get married and have kids..etc. So you are stuck with trying to make friends and it isn't always easy for us.

Loneliness sucks mane. Humans weren't meant to be alone and with modern society it's only going to get worse with social isolation. Therefore I've been attempting to make new friends/social groups to slow down the inevitable but at times it seems like a fruitless task.
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The sooner you realize this is true and accept it, the better off you're going to be.

Even married people feel alone and uncared for.
Originally Posted By dulcis⏩
It is hitting me hard today. I have a boyfriend who keeps needing more alone time and has asked to just be left alone for a few days. Damn I just don't even feel like I have a relationship at all at this point.

I know I need to move my ass along and stop trying to make it work. I am a pretty solid girlfriend with a lot of love to give and I am just throwing it in the wind and hearing nothing back. Ugh.
At some point you have to gain some self-respect and just leave this relationship behind. You'll feel a lot better in the long run, especially if you initiate it.

For you introverts out there, it's just a label, it doesn't have to be your life, you can become an extroverted person, you CAN change, it's a matter of determination and confidence and a few other factors and realizations, but I know it's possible because I've done it.
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Originally Posted By acetylcoa⏩
i guess its normal to feel this but i guess if you look deeper we all have someone who cares for us.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Hm I don't know, they are both married with kids and their marriages seem pretty stable. Even if they did get divorced they'd have tons of people to fall back on.

Their connections are hedged because they have so many of them so then it's not such a big deal to lose one compared to if all your affection is focused on one person.
This is where your wrong. Losing a close partner hurts everyone regardless of how many friends you have
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yup it gets much worse with age because people get into relationships, marriage, kids, and then they focus mostly on their family after that. If they have any time left over after family and work they'll see their existing friends and probably won't be interested in making new ones.
It kinda sucks for me because I do hang out with a few of my married w/o/ kids friends and at times I feel like I cannot relate to them and as a "couple" they want to hang out with another married couple.
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Originally Posted By BowlingWizard⏩
I've been feeling this way for months. Realized my best friend (girl) will probably get a boyfriend once we graduate, and I'll never hear from her again. A lot of people here don't like having girls as close friends but she means everything to me and we would both do anything for each other to make the other succeed. She's even bought stuff for me when I was sick a few times, just acted really nice.

A lot of my friends have gone their separate ways. They don't text anymore, they just keep to themselves. It's cool, I know they have their own lives, and so I do my best to just let them be themselves. Probably only have about five or so people I actually talk to on a consistent basis, and who I would never forget. I've been consistently rejected by girls to the point where i just don't care anymore. I've stopped trying. All these feelings have been building up inside since September of last year.

Feelsbadman but I just continue on w/life, no point in giving up.
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Like DeNiro says in Heat.....

I'm alone....I am not lonely.

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So basically to feel less lonely we have to socialize more right?

Socializing is draining to introverts therefore we can't do it as much or do not desire to do it as much, right?

So what choice do we have?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You're right. I guess I mean extraverts will have many other people to support them in a breakup and for companionship to go do stuff with so they are not alone after a breakup. Plus it's easier to meet someone new if you are social.
No offense but you sound sad as fuk
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Originally Posted By dulcis⏩
It is hitting me hard today. I have a boyfriend who keeps needing more alone time and has asked to just be left alone for a few days. Damn I just don't even feel like I have a relationship at all at this point.

I know I need to move my ass along and stop trying to make it work. I am a pretty solid girlfriend with a lot of love to give and I am just throwing it in the wind and hearing nothing back. Ugh.
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Originally Posted By Bren1093⏩
So basically to feel less lonely we have to socialize more right?

Socializing is draining to introverts therefore we can't do it as much or do not desire to do it as much, right?

So what choice do we have?
This. I struggle to even go into restaurants most of the time because I have to socialize. Unless I'm doing something thrilling or exercising I don't talk. You'll most likely find me talking after an intense workout or something but that's about it. Like to choose my times of being social very carefully
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