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post 1541710311 01-24-2018, 01:57 PM
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Why would you sit there for three hours like a turd? I would have been out of there 10 minuets after she disappeared.
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I've never had a girl do that to me before, but I know I would ditch her as soon as it became apparent.

bro-tip: never take a girl to a concert for a first date. I've had dumb sluts come up and flirt with me while her guy is less than 10 feet away.

come to think of it I remember another thread in RH where a guy took a oneitis to a basketball game, then to a bar afterwards. When at the bar the woman started making out with another guy. She played the "OMG im soooo sorry I didn't know it was a date!" crap when he confronted her. lol fuk outta here you whore retard..... whoretard.
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Originally Posted By midcoastking33
is this the misc version of metoo
lmaooo. in college a girl asked me to come to dinner with her on her birthday. we were seein eachother for like 2 weeks. show up and and the place is fancy as fuk and there's like 8 people total. waiter: how is the checks bout to go? "us two, us two, us two" (FUKKK) "ill get the birthday girl" bill comes and i pick up the check for her and me both. shiit cost me like 150 dollars.

that was probably 14 years ago ffs im still phucked up about it. valuable assed lesson learned though. i can't be poor as fuk and not set some ground rules on people or i wont make rent.
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Yeah something doesn't add up there....she picked him up, drove him there, totally ditched him....and then drove him back home?
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OP you live and learn. Sometimes you look back and are filled with rage at how stupid you were and how you wish you could have changed it or done something different. That girl was a total bitch, sometimes you don't realize someone is being a total bitch to you and you don't know how to handle it right then and there, so you basically take it and look like a ****ing moron. After its over, at least you can take those experiences and tell yourself you'll never let that happen without acting accordingly ever again.

Live and learn, don't be too hard on yourself unless you ever let someone do that to you again.
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Originally Posted By Tomi_Li
OP you live and learn. Sometimes you look back and are filled with rage at how stupid you were and how you wish you could have changed it or done something different. That girl was a total bitch, sometimes you don't realize someone is being a total bitch to you and you don't know how to handle it right then and there, so you basically take it and look like a ****ing moron. After its over, at least you can take those experiences and tell yourself you'll never let that happen without acting accordingly ever again.

Live and learn, don't be too hard on yourself unless you ever let someone do that to you again.
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I know this is sad and not funny, but I can't sop chuckling at this. Am I a horrible person?
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Shouldn't people that post in the more serious threads be safe from those posts being ridiculed on the misc?

I mean there should be safe spaces here
Well, luckily he can stay in thebitchrh section
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
I know this is sad and not funny, but I can't sop chuckling at this. Am I a horrible person?
nah man I was in tears picturing him sitting there like wtf all by himself. In my head I see people from behind him throwing popcorn at him
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post 1541712011 01-24-2018, 02:12 PM
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reeks of a the classic scenario of an ugly loser trying to punch above his looks-grade. Everyone should come to the realization that you will only find a meaningful equal relationship when you're dating someone on the same looks scale as you (or within a point or 2). When you are good looking, you have no reason to date someone that is not nearly as attractive as you. Money social status etc., there are guys at her looks level that have those things to and will be chosen over you. The quicker these ugo's come to the realization that they need to date/marry an ugo, the world will be a less volatile place.
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF
Should have found another girl. I brought a girl out once and she started dancing by herself and around other dudes so I essentially started dancing with another girl.

She literally lost her mind "that is so disrespectful, i cant believe you did that" "i would never do that"

i was like, "u did tho"
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post 1541716271 01-24-2018, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted By seanb1979
this happens to most guys at least once - there are tons of women who feel absolutely no empathy at all for how their actions affect others - pretty sure most of them are just dumb and lack awareness
Correct. Back in the old days when I was on the dating scene, mobile phones were just for calls and text message, no internet or touchscreen etc. So most normal people still actually spoke to each-other.

I went on a first date, she kept interrupting our conversation to text a friend, or take a call - actually talking about the date and me while I was sitting there. I finished my dinner, she was still talking. I touched her arm, "Excuse me," she lowered the phone, "It's been nice meeting you, if you'd ever like to actually go on a date, let me know." She looked confused.

I walked out and paid for what I'd eaten, left her to pay for her own. It was nice food.

It's got to be worse now with smartphones and lamebook and sht.
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Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat
Yeah something doesn't add up there....she picked him up, drove him there, totally ditched him....and then drove him back home?
sounds like she felt sorry for him and gave him a pity date
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Originally Posted By KyleAaron
Correct. Back in the old days when I was on the dating scene, mobile phones were just for calls and text message, no internet or touchscreen etc. So most normal people still actually spoke to each-other.

I went on a first date, she kept interrupting our conversation to text a friend, or take a call - actually talking about the date and me while I was sitting there. I finished my dinner, she was still talking. I touched her arm, "Excuse me," she lowered the phone, "It's been nice meeting you, if you'd ever like to actually go on a date, let me know." She looked confused.

I walked out and paid for what I'd eaten, left her to pay for her own. It was nice food.

It's got to be worse now with smartphones and lamebook and sht.
Yup I think we've all been there. It's important to learn these types so you can just avoid them altogether early on. Saves a lot of time in the long run and I haven't had an experience like that in well over a decade now.
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post 1541725451 01-24-2018, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted By seanb1979
Yup I think we've all been there. It's important to learn these types so you can just avoid them altogether early on. Saves a lot of time in the long run and I haven't had an experience like that in well over a decade now.
Usually its very immature and spoiled young girls. These situations happen but never seen anything as brutal as what happened to that dude. She asks him to go, picks him up then ditches him there then drops him off? She has 0 empathy and obviously probably wondered what was wrong when he wasn't talking on the ride back. Bet she even freaks out when he goes NC. I personally would have said **** it ans taken an uber home or gone and danced with some other random people. Super easy to mingle with new groups when everyone is drinking
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Originally Posted By KyleAaron
Correct. Back in the old days when I was on the dating scene, mobile phones were just for calls and text message, no internet or touchscreen etc. So most normal people still actually spoke to each-other.

I went on a first date, she kept interrupting our conversation to text a friend, or take a call - actually talking about the date and me while I was sitting there. I finished my dinner, she was still talking. I touched her arm, "Excuse me," she lowered the phone, "It's been nice meeting you, if you'd ever like to actually go on a date, let me know." She looked confused.

I walked out and paid for what I'd eaten, left her to pay for her own. It was nice food.

It's got to be worse now with smartphones and lamebook and sht.
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Originally Posted By KyleAaron
It's got to be worse now with smartphones and lamebook and sht.
100x worse since some guys can't cut the cord. Some of my friends go through breakups and then look at their ex's snapchat and ********.

Meanwhile they act depressed and don't go out, until that final sucker punch when the ex updates their profile pic with the new boyfriend.
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Originally Posted By Merc009
Well i left this part out but at the very start of the concert when she came back from the restroom since the whole two rows where we were at were empty she sat in the row in-front of me by herself, i asked “why dont you sit next to me up here?” She replied “because i dont want to”

I felt like following her was just gonna be absolutelly retarted at this point
What a fuking kunt. He should've just left at that point tbh
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Originally Posted By strengthgained
Brutal m8 can’t gelp but feel bad for him.

Thing is he probably missed about 1000 warning signs; legit friends wouldn’t do that to someone. Should’ve gone and grabbed a beer and gone into the crowd or just gone home.

Wonder how that car ride home went lmao
For the love of god tell me they didn't drive home together..
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina
He should have told her to sit her ass down, or else feel free to get a ride home with her friends. (Assuming he drove). Not his fault that she acted like a dick, but I would have gone NC before even leaving the concert.

But I don't think it's unusual for a guy to have to learn this lesson at least once when they're young. At least he knows she's not worth his time.
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If that was me in the situation, I probably would have watched the concert, and then left without saying anything to the girl. Hopefully the girl rode there with OP and he rejected giving her a ride home.
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damn I thought the guy was still a teen and he's my age... kind of late in the game to learn that having a crush =/= girl gives a ****. At least she still give him a ride home lul, perfect scenario for both to go full NC.
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
He did but first he went full beta.
That's pretty much his and many guys problem. They put it on a pedestal and think one thing will lead to another through magic. Simplest 3 tricks are, have the date or w/e already planned out NEVER ask where do you want to eat or do. Hold a conversation and be able to veer it away from going south and know when to escalate. Third dress, hygiene, confidence and being able to laugh aka being comfortable in your own skin.
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Originally Posted By meenman83
That's pretty much his and many guys problem. They put it on a pedestal and think one thing will lead to another through magic. Simplest 3 tricks are, have the date or w/e already planned out NEVER ask where do you want to eat or do. Hold a conversation and be able to veer it away from going south and know when to escalate. Third dress, hygiene, confidence and being able to laugh aka being comfortable in your own skin.
Yeah and trust yourself and your personality. I'd say most guys can be funnier and entertaining than most attractive women their age. But as guys we get stifled out of fear of rejection.

Girls just wanna be led in the end.
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Damn that sucks for the guy. Part of me hopes that she learns her lessons soon too, shytty girls like that always chase after the wrong guy. But for some reason that doesn’t seem like it’s going to happen.

Just gotta know your appeal and know when to call people on their bullshyt. He shouldn’t have stayed, I wouldn’t even say a word to her and leave. Just read the thread, they bought separate tickets and she gave him a ride. Sounds like she didn’t buy tickets with her other friends. Wasn’t sure she was going to be able to find them since it’s a big place or if she can even hang out with them since some concerts you’re not allowed to chill on the stairs. And only invited him in case she’s stuck in her seat and didn’t want to look like a loner.
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Was waiting for a “thanks for the package bro” somewhere in that story...

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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
Yeah and trust yourself and your personality. I'd say most guys can be funnier and entertaining than most attractive women their age. But as guys we get stifled out of fear of rejection.

Girls just wanna be led in the end.
Pretty much. Once men learn to stop over thinking it's easy. I don't change who I am for anyone either which is another thing I see idiots do....can't keep the charade up forever.
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Originally Posted By strengthgained
Wonder how that car ride home went lmao
He better not have driven her home! I wudda left without her for sure.
Anyone hear how it ended? Did he drive her home?
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
You're not understanding my post at all. I'm saying you should lead from the start, before she gets distracted by friends or doing chit. Then "if" a girl (any girl, not just the OP) throws him shade or tries
stopped reading at bolded. wtf. you better be FEMALE for talking like this. "throws him shade". you better not be a ****ing male using stupid phrases like this.

id kick you in your god damn phucking gums. i swear it
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina
He should have told her to sit her ass down, or else feel free to get a ride home with her friends. (Assuming he drove). Not his fault that she acted like a dick, but I would have gone NC before even leaving the concert.

But I don't think it's unusual for a guy to have to learn this lesson at least once when they're young. At least he knows she's not worth his time.
she drove lol
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport
You're not understanding my post at all. I'm saying you should lead from the start, before she gets distracted by friends or doing chit. Then "if" a girl (any girl, not just the OP) throws him shade or tries to ditch him when he's making an effort to socialize - he can call her out on it.

Lots of girls are ditzy and follow the shiny ball. She had her friends there and it's a concert, a stimulation fest.
There's no leading ch1t or hypotheticals.

She used his ass to get free tickets to an expensive concert so she could chill with her friends. Hell are you talking about.
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