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Thread: Divorced after paying off wife's school loans

post 1551450051 05-13-2018, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
https://www.australia.gov.au/informa...ships/de-facto

https://forums.whirlpool.net.au/archive/2043979

https://forums.whirlpool.net.au/archive/2458162

OK, I think my lawyer friend embellished the aspect of the woman being entitled to half your family's stuff. But the other things are largely true.
Through marriage definitely . Looks like there are a ton of variables that must be proven for someone in a de facto to get the same as those who are divorced. The major thing being you’re having to be together for two years.
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE⏩
Through marriage definitely . Looks like there are a ton of variables that must be proven for someone in a de facto to get the same as those who are divorced. The major thing being you’re having to be together for two years.
I have a (now) whiteknight mate who moved in with a chick 1.5 years ago and helped pay her bills/rent. Courts could easily see whats going on, if she wanted to show the transaction details etc. If things go balls-up with their de facto relationship... he's fukked.
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
aaaaand this is why i'm alone at 52 and lonely

i work hard for my money, it's mine, no one else's , i decide what gets done with it

marriage should be about love and nothing more
Historically marriage was more about politics. Either a peace or a combining of nations or families. It also became infused with religion. Unless your from a culture that deals in arranged marriages or are extremely religious and are literally taking that vow before God and intend on dying before breaking it. There really isn't any reason to get married.


Granted, we've got a multi billion dollar wedding industry convincing little girls that everyone deserves to be a princess for a day.
Originally Posted By ****liGirl⏩
do you mean legally it's his debt too? i don't know much about marriage laws
Depends on circumstances. I believe if they weren't legally married when she signed into the debt its all on her. If she doesn't pay it affects her credit and not his. Once they are legally married anything new is his. In this case the dumbass paid her debts for her voluntarily.
Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
I'm pretty sure in Australia, with laws about "de facto" relationships where the chick is living with a guy for ~12 months... she's entitled to half his chit. And not just his, but his family's. Lmao

This isn't even marriage I'm referring to!
In certain states in America this is called common law marriage. Requires 7 years living together I believe.

People are dumb as hell when they allow that kind of paper trail to exist.
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Marrying someone that makes significantly less then you is straight from page 1 of the idiot play-book

Would never even consider marrying anyone who wasn't at least 3-5 years younger than me, better looking then me and earns at least the same or close to it. Just common sense.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You believe that after 2 years she gets his house and pension

Are you really that dim?

Clicked on link. Skimmed it

“if you had a home before you married, for instance, you will walk away with that.

judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years. There are exceptions to this rule — if there is a minor child involved, whether there’s been domestic abuse and/or whether the partner in question has a disability — but it’s unlikely that a judge will tell you to pay your wife alimony. So whatever result you do get, from a financial perspective you will be free and clear.”
You have no clue, or are playing dumb, about what happens to men in divorce, especially California and New York.
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Originally Posted By OutdoorsBrah⏩
When I was young and dumb... i'd have been pissed at the woman.





Now that i'm older and bit more experienced... I'm mad at the guy.










Look, if your smart about things these types of women wont even bother with you because they know nothing will come of it. So this guy clearly is a f*cking idiot and the woman say that from a mile away. Sure, she let the darker side of human nature influence this move... but hey... if the guy is going to let the roost open, people will steal the chickens.
Do you also blame the victim of an armed robbery? Because they were carrying lots of cash? And made the mistake of taking it out at a store? For example...

Serious question.
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Story might be fake but either way I've seen women use a guy for his money and dump him once she's done with him. So it's always important to never tell a chick how much you make and there are always huge red flags when she manipulates the guy into paying for debt.
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Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying⏩
In Canada, the matrimonial home belongs to both partners, regardless of who purchased it - or when they purchased it. Sure it’s the same in many states.
I'm selling a house in Texas right now that I "owned" (still making payments) before I was married. I don't think it's illegal per se for me to sell it without my wife's permission, but the title company will not allow it. Because they know that if she wants half of it, there's a 90+% chance a judge would give it to her.
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Originally Posted By nzgs⏩
Any forced redistribution of wealth after divorce is immoral and unjustifiable. Doesn't matter how many years it is. Takes a certain type of mental midget to defend alimony in 2018.
Takes a certain type of retard to write what you wrote.
Imagine this:
Husband + wife gets married at 20
Gets kids at 25
Wife stops working to take care of the kids/house so husband can focus on career
Divorced at 60
Husband has build his career while wife has nothing financial/career wise.

You gotta be dumb as fuk to think alimony doesn't have a place. However minor that place may be.
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post 1551459101 05-13-2018, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Idiotic



You’re right I don’t, but I read OP and then skimmed the link and took those quotes directly from it ...this is a lie ...in Texas the State it happened and probably in every other state

It would also be untrue in UK, Canada and Australia as has been posted above in the vast majority of cases

The ‘facts’ you get apoplectic about are generally bullchit

But don’t let that stop you
You really do live in a fantasy world...completely out of touch with the reality of what men go through in divorce.

But ok, yeah you are right, men haven’t been getting fuked over for the last 60 years in regards to alimony, child support (including when forced to pay for another guys child when the wife cheated), property, vehicles, etc. Nope, it’s all been fair and equal.
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Originally Posted By ERTW22⏩
Why would someone be carrying lots of cash on them in 2018? What could you possibly be buying/doing that you can't use a cheque for (if you are transferring funds between institutions or something) or a debit/credit card for.

I'm not agreeing with that guy's perspective, or disagreeing, but you could pick a better example
You do blame the actual victim...why would someone carry cash? It’s their fault they get robbed, not the criminals?


You must live in the same fantasy world that rabbit lives in.
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Originally Posted By Steve707⏩
Lucky she ended it after 2 years, she wont get his retirement.
Don't be so naive. Family court's are completely run by feminists. The rules are different it's not like a criminal court where you need evidence. She will get his retirement, or at least whatever he has saved up, because....vagina.
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Originally Posted By thorpowers⏩
Don't be so naive. Family court's are completely run by feminists. The rules are different it's not like a criminal court where you need evidence. She will get his retirement, or at least whatever he has saved up, because....vagina.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroc****⏩
Takes a certain type of retard to write what you wrote.
Imagine this:
Husband + wife gets married at 20
Gets kids at 25
Wife stops working to take care of the kids/house so husband can focus on career
Divorced at 60
Husband has build his career while wife has nothing financial/career wise.

You gotta be dumb as fuk to think alimony doesn't have a place. However minor that place may be.
So you think wife shouldn't have to work at all because she didn't before and didn't get to "build a career"? That a hard-working husband should keep funding her to stay at home and chill every day even after she's left him?

That don't make sense

Even if you really believe alimony "has a place" it's used far more than instances of "that place" actually exists
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
In certain states in America this is called common law marriage. Requires 7 years living together I believe.

People are dumb as hell when they allow that kind of paper trail to exist.
In Australia, 2 years.

Or 6 months, according to Centrelink. Happy self-cucking, everyone!

B-but... "love" lasts forever.... r-r-right?
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Wait. Did not read thread.

The dude had a salary of 3x his wife and he didn't get a godam prenupt? Wtf. He deserves this then. Had he gotten the prenupt, she would've probably had to pay him back or at the very least would've been called square.

Jesus. Wtf is wrong with men with a big salary? GET A GD PRENUPT FFS
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Originally Posted By TheJediBrah⏩
So you think wife shouldn't have to work at all because she didn't before and didn't get to "build a career"? That a hard-working husband should keep funding her to stay at home and chill every day even after she's left him?

That don't make sense

Even if you really believe alimony "has a place" it's used far more than instances of "that place" actually exists
Did i say anything about the wife not working and just chilling on the couch the rest of her life?
Did I say alimony isn't used far more than instances of "that place"?
Why did you even quote me?

You are legit dumb as fuk if you view the world in black and white and don't believe there's a place fir alimony - like i said - however small that place might be.
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I married a broad that had no student loans, conservative with money and had chit tons in her savings, and had a decent career right out of college. She is beyond self-sufficent. Feels good mane.

I am 5 years older than her and still have student loans.
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Originally Posted By devin45k⏩
I married a broad that had no student loans, conservative with money and had chit tons in her savings, and had a decent career right out of college. She is beyond self-sufficent. Feels good mane.

I am 5 years older than her and still have student loans.
This. I genuinely have no idea why you would marry anyone with such baggage. A mountain of debt is always a recipe for disaster.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Really?

No idea about the UK, but in the US alimony (what there is of it) has changed a lot. Much of the time there is no alimony paid (spouses with roughly equal salaries or short duration marriages) and when it is paid it is almost always for a limited period of time. It is supposed to give the lower earning spouse or homemaker time to increase their income. A lot of states it is set at something like 1 year of support for every 3 years of marriage so if you divorced after 15 years you would pay/receive alimony for 5 years. In some states you don't get any real consideration of alimony for a marriage under 10 years.
There should be no redistribution of money from one spouse to another in divorce in any form, including child support, unless one spouse stays home for a reason that is agreed upon by both spouses. If you're married 15 years and neither had to be a stay at home parent, then both had equal time and opportunity to increase their own incomes. If one spouse didn't use this time wisely, then their lack of money should impact only themselves, and if they don't make enough to merit custody, tough ****.
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Originally Posted By DDSF1⏩
Do you also blame the victim of an armed robbery? Because they were carrying lots of cash? And made the mistake of taking it out at a store? For example...

Serious question.
To a certain extent, yeah. If I'm carrying 15k in cash, stop by a store to buy a 6 pack of beer on the way home and take out 15k in the line to count out 8 dollars, I'll be pissed I got robbed, but that was definitely real fukken stupid of me.
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That feel when your wife doesnt have debt.
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Was dating an amazing girl a while back. Found out she was 90k in student loan debt and noped outta there so fast. Feelsbad because she was actually really enjoyable to be around but I've seen what 90k worth of debt does to a relationship.
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Originally Posted By RudeKong⏩
Was dating an amazing girl a while back. Found out she was 90k in student loan debt and noped outta there so fast. Feelsbad because she was actually really enjoyable to be around but I've seen what 90k worth of debt does to a relationship.
Girl w/ degree and $90k debt

or

Girl w/no degree and no debt

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