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post 1551424731 05-13-2018, 12:29 PM
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Divorced after paying off wife's school loans

Man lands on the moon...makes me never want to get married
Dear Moneyist,

Before I married my wife two years ago, she had huge amounts of debt to her name, including large amounts of student loans. After we married, we diligently almost paid everything off, helped by my salary being three times that of my wife.

She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement.
https://www.marketwatch.com/story/i-...age-2018-04-21
post 1551425051 05-13-2018, 12:34 PM
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post 1551425221 05-13-2018, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Shysty021⏩
Man lands on the moon...makes me never want to get married



https://www.marketwatch.com/story/i-...age-2018-04-21
Lucky she ended it after 2 years, she wont get his retirement.
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post 1551425301 05-13-2018, 12:38 PM
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Just can help some people. Why would you be that ****ing stupid?
post 1551425701 05-13-2018, 12:43 PM
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post 1551425901 05-13-2018, 12:46 PM
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damn she hustled him good
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post 1551426091 05-13-2018, 12:49 PM
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I imagine the sort of men who fall victim to this scam (money, green card etc) marry the first woman who shows them any kind of attention. I still feel bad for em for having to learn the hard way.
post 1551426231 05-13-2018, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By CrookedDink⏩
I imagine the sort of men who fall victim to this scam (money, green card etc) marry the first woman who shows them any kind of attention. I still feel bad for em for having to learn the hard way.
i think they know deep down what their partner is up to but are so desperate for "love" and feelings similar that they choose to ignore it
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post 1551429861 05-13-2018, 01:55 PM
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Lol at anyone super pro marriage who criticises this guy. When you get married that dept is now also yours and your money is now also hers.
Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
i think they know deep down what their partner is up to but are so desperate for "love" and feelings similar that they choose to ignore it
This. The dating game is tough too if you bail out.
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post 1551430141 05-13-2018, 02:00 PM
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There was a thread with this exact same story a couple of weeks ago. Weird how the article is dated may 6

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=175669631
post 1551430411 05-13-2018, 02:05 PM
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i feel so fukn bad for him but at the same time i wanna slap the chit out of him
Originally Posted By zknarc⏩
Lol at anyone super pro marriage who criticises this guy. When you get married that dept is now also yours and your money is now also hers.
do you mean legally it's his debt too? i don't know much about marriage laws
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post 1551430551 05-13-2018, 02:08 PM
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aaaaand this is why i'm alone at 52 and lonely

i work hard for my money, it's mine, no one else's , i decide what gets done with it

marriage should be about love and nothing more

sadly, it isn't



2 options


alone , lonely , with everything you've earned


alone , lonely , fkn screwed over and broke


f that


poosy just isn't that important


now a friend that won't stab you in the back? i'd love to find that, i'd be a much happier man
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Ayyy fukkin LMAO.

Why do most *******s lost all lucidity when they finally get access to some pussy ?
post 1551431521 05-13-2018, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You believe that after 2 years she gets his house and pension

Are you really that dim?

Clicked on link. Skimmed it

“if you had a home before you married, for instance, you will walk away with that.

judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years. There are exceptions to this rule — if there is a minor child involved, whether there’s been domestic abuse and/or whether the partner in question has a disability — but it’s unlikely that a judge will tell you to pay your wife alimony. So whatever result you do get, from a financial perspective you will be free and clear.”
Any forced redistribution of wealth after divorce is immoral and unjustifiable. Doesn't matter how many years it is. Takes a certain type of mental midget to defend alimony in 2018.
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Originally Posted By GeneralSerpant⏩
There was a thread with this exact same story a couple of weeks ago. Weird how the article is dated may 6

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=175669631
Weird.

They must of edited it or something to make it May 6th
post 1551432541 05-13-2018, 02:46 PM
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never getting married

fking lol @ paying off a bishes student loans

that is HER problem not YOURS

this guy is slave to the pussayyy
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post 1551433021 05-13-2018, 02:53 PM
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post 1551433631 05-13-2018, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You believe that after 2 years she gets his house and pension

Are you really that dim?

Clicked on link. Skimmed it

“if you had a home before you married, for instance, you will walk away with that.

judges don’t instruct one party to pay the other alimony if they’ve been married for fewer than 10 years. There are exceptions to this rule — if there is a minor child involved, whether there’s been domestic abuse and/or whether the partner in question has a disability — but it’s unlikely that a judge will tell you to pay your wife alimony. So whatever result you do get, from a financial perspective you will be free and clear.”
Not always.
Non-marital property can become marital property by co-mingling it.[10] For instance, putting non-marital money into a joint account with marital proceeds will likely make it marital.[11] Additionally, if non-marital proceeds are used to pay marital expenses, they can become marital.[12]
If they just renovated the house for example, it could become marital property. Or she could've insisted they both put their names on the contract. If he agreed to pay for her student debt with his money, then he perfectly could've made her a co-owner, because they were a family now, and it was only fair that they both owned the house.
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100% avoidable.
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Fake and gay.

She can't touch his retirement from a 2 year marriage.
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this isn't a sloots gon sloot thing either, its actually cucks gon cuck
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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
this isn't a sloots gon sloot thing either, its actually cucks gon cuck
And the court will side with the defenseless woman and rape the man almost every time. Women have options. Men have responsibilities.
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An expensive lesson learned here.
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Sometimes don't understand how women have the patience to fuk and pretend like you like a guy upon years just for the sake of scam and their own benefit

I wouldn't be able to put up with somebody that long if I had no emotional connection with them, let alone being attracted.
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Originally Posted By Shysty021⏩
She recently asked for a divorce, saying she was taking the house and my retirement.
fukin LMAO
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“In most instances, a spouse will not be held responsible for student loan debts unless they cosigned for the loan,” says Matt Alden, a bankruptcy lawyer focusing on student loan issues.
Stupid idiot. Should’ve let her pay that **** off.
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Originally Posted By Shysty021⏩
Weird.

They must of edited it or something to make it May 6th
Yeah but they usually give some sort of indication.
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Out marriage laws are fuked. I still dont understand the logic behind 'no fault' during divorces. How can a person cheat on their spouse and still have a right to their spouses assets. It makes no sense from moral point of view.
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