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post 1551453071 05-13-2018, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
fake news. At a club its ALL about looks
i dont think so.. although i do think it helps

but i honestly think being like a hype man is best.

i know a dude who was an aspiring umpire (in other words, nothing) who walked around like he owned the place. was talking to everybody, etc. and i remember one chick turning around and mouthing "he's hot"

i have seen 6'7 bean pole do nothing but stand there and have a chick come up to him, but ive also seen some hype ugly dudes getting play

one thing you can be sure of, dudes who are mediocre in looks prob dont have the same confidence as good looking guys. which may be why they lose
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post 1551453541 05-13-2018, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan
That simple isn't true. Like at all. I don't know what twlight zone you live in where good looking men get shut down, and women are seemingly just all going for ugly men.

Experiment, after study, after experiment, after study, and 20k+ years of human history shows what you look like matters. I normally get shut the **** down during an approach because I even have time to **** up. And magically every girls that shows me signs or acts friendly is always ****ing obese. Literally had an obese white chick try to get me to come over to her place tonight. Looks matter a lot. And women are generally not settling.
Come to Canada and see it for yourself.

different women find different things attractive because lots of average girls have walked away when I try to dance and grind on them but I’ve been approached by hbbs (drunk and non drunk) many times even during the day so it depends on a girl


Saw a guy last night who was literally 9.7/10 (no homo) and he tried dancing with average girls and they also walked away after few mins or ignored him but then I also saw girls who were all over average looking guys (100% srs)
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post 1551453751 05-13-2018, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
lol funny story. one time i went out with my chad neighbor and once he stepped on the dance floor all the average girls were ogling him. this one girl literally turned around and was shocked at his chad figure. he was dancing on 3 girls at one time. at the club theres no such thing as "looks dont matter." guy was terrible at dancing to hip hop too lol.
Come to Saskatchewan and see for yourself... well we don’t have real clubs here like vancouver and Montreal but still ...
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post 1551453781 05-13-2018, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By alphatan
different women find different things attractive
this is a myth. Yes, in the way that some men prefer blondes over brunettes, some women prefer different traits.

But in general, its the same crap

Tall, fit, big dick, money, masculine/alpha,funny

Every woman has this in common with what they look for.
post 1551454031 05-13-2018, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
this is a myth. Yes, in the way that some men prefer blondes over brunettes, some women prefer different traits.

But in general, its the same crap

Tall, fit, big dick, money, masculine/alpha,funny

Every woman has this in common with what they look for.
Then explain why I’ve been rejected by 5s but approached by 8s and 9s ??? This super hot blonde thot started kissing me after 2 minutes like last weekend but I’ve been told to back off by 5s
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post 1551454221 05-13-2018, 09:04 PM
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don't worry op, the girls ignoring you on social media are getting ignored themselves by celebrities/people of higher status

they're just as insecure/miserable as you are or worse
post 1551454441 05-13-2018, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By alphatan
Then explain why I’ve been rejected by 5s but approached by 8s and 9s ??? This super hot blonde thot started kissing me after 2 minutes like last weekend but I’ve been told to back off by 5s
because althought individual people might have unique experiences, there's still an overarching trend thats more accurate.

exceptions to the rule, doesnt change the rule
post 1551455101 05-13-2018, 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
because althought individual people might have unique experiences, there's still an overarching trend thats more accurate.

exceptions to the rule, doesnt change the rule
I can post pics of couples but that’s just creepy and don’t wanna be detectives.

Lots of girls date down (not saying all of them)... how many guys date down ? Not many
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post 1551456411 05-13-2018, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By alphatan
I can post pics of couples but that’s just creepy and don’t wanna be detectives.

Lots of girls date down (not saying all of them)... how many guys date down ? Not many
I dunno, I'd date a total butter face as long as she had a nice body. Usually staring at her teddies while shes on top anyways

I only start discriminating when it comes to weight. Would rather die a lone than be a with a fat girl
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https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=175752131

Why is your account still active when you post this chit daily?
The worst part is that OP is definitely one of the people who would sit there and tell a guy who is happily married how stupid he is, how she’s just going to take everything and run, how women can’t be trusted, how it’s netter off not having one..

Then he goes online and spends all of his time talking about the women he claims to not actually want
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post 1551457431 05-13-2018, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted By alphatan
I can post pics of couples but that’s just creepy and don’t wanna be detectives.

Lots of girls date down (not saying all of them)... how many guys date down ? Not many
girls dont date down. what you see is women sacrificing sexual attraction for money and resources.

when it comes to sex and more casual stuff, its all looks. when it comes to more serious dating, money can lead to some women to date down in looks.
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Originally Posted By alphatan
Then explain why I’ve been rejected by 5s but approached by 8s and 9s ??? This super hot blonde thot started kissing me after 2 minutes like last weekend but I’ve been told to back off by 5s
Believe it or not some people go out to have fun and aren’t interested in being hit on or hitting on others.

When I’m out drinking I almost always have zero interest in interacting with women.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
girls dont date down. what you see is women sacrificing sexual attraction for money and resources.

when it comes to sex and more casual stuff, its all looks. when it comes to more serious dating, money can lead to some women to date down in looks.
wait... 20-21 year old girls are looking for a rich guy ?? lmao no they're not. Most women date down and no these guys aren't driving lambos. Just look around man
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post 1551461001 05-14-2018, 12:47 AM
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Are those criteria supposed to be hard to fill?

lol

(only just sneaking in on height though)
post 1551461041 05-14-2018, 12:49 AM
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they will settle for less tho
All you need is a stable job and the commitment to put a ring on it.

Girls will take that rather than rot away doing internet shopping and social media in the workplace.

Girls are the most delusional of people. Strong no racist.
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Originally Posted By alphatan
I can post pics of couples but that’s just creepy and don’t wanna be detectives.

Lots of girls date down (not saying all of them)...how many guys date down ? Not many
Can confirm. I would never date down cause that would be an ugly ****ing girl.
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Originally Posted By alphatan
I can post pics of couples but that’s just creepy and don’t wanna be detectives.

Lots of girls date down (not saying all of them)...how many guys date down ? Not many
You should see London
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Originally Posted By drvillain
fake news. At a club its ALL about looks
Clubs are basically a haven for (White) 8+/10 guys to pick up and smash, while <7/10 guys look on and rot.

Inb4 countless misc'ers respond with "know dat feel brah"
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ITT everyone is giving me hope for the future
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Originally Posted By Veenilla
My boyfriend of 3 years whom I met on tinder is 6 out of 9 on that list. The only thing I put on my tinder was “if you don’t lift, swipe left. If you lift but skip legs, swipe left”
This. I don't see why people around these parts continually portray 'having standards' as being 'unrealistic' or 'unfair'. I have never used a dating app and (knock on wood) will hopefully never need to, but "well educated, good salary, non smoker, fit, etc" - these are fairly standard for a lot of people.
Originally Posted By AwkwardRetard
Pics of the girl, OP?
This. The problem here isn't with the standards - it should be about the expectation. I don't see pics of the woman but she should bring quite a bit to the table too with that list of preferences.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
i dont think so.. although i do think it helps

but i honestly think being like a hype man is best.

i know a dude who was an aspiring umpire (in other words, nothing) who walked around like he owned the place. was talking to everybody, etc. and i remember one chick turning around and mouthing "he's hot"


i have seen 6'7 bean pole do nothing but stand there and have a chick come up to him, but ive also seen some hype ugly dudes getting play

one thing you can be sure of, dudes who are mediocre in looks prob dont have the same confidence as good looking guys. which may be why they lose
So much cope lmao. Gotta love the diametric opposites examples... "average guy with 10/10 game" vs "lanklet with autism". Ridiculous
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and then they end up with something like that

dat money......
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Originally Posted By Veenilla
My boyfriend of 3 years whom I met on tinder is 6 out of 9 on that list. The only thing I put on my tinder was “if you don’t lift, swipe left. If you lift but skip legs, swipe left”
6 out of those 9 should be the bare minimum. Any less than that is just pathetic tbh.

You can't control race and height, salary could be a challenge but the rest should just be a given.
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious
Clubs are basically a haven for (White) 8+/10 guys to pick up and smash, while <7/10 guys look on and rot.

Inb4 countless misc'ers respond with "know dat feel brah"
I'm a white 7/10-ish dude with a sprinkling of autism who scores all the best fat girl and plain jane pussy simply by existing. Last time, 2 jeff seid looking mother****ers stole my prizes and I've never been again semi srs (don't remember im always hammered)
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Clubs are all about looks. It's too loud for normal communication anyway, people are usually too drunk to give any fuks about an in-depth conversation. Any verbal game is just a couple of words here and there, the rest is all body language and facial expressions.

You could do a simple cheeky approach like. "Hey, come here!" "What?" "Just come here". Put your hand out, pull them gently closer: "You're cute, do a twirl for me" Twirl them. Say something like "Not bad". Whisper in their ear: "I just want you to know that you won't be sleeping with me tonight". Give them a cheeky smile, they will laugh. "But play your cards right and I'll may let you a kiss me". Smile, judge her language, move in.
If they are in a group, say something like "Hey I need to steal your friend for a minute, I promise I'll give her back". Keep her close enough to her group to have them not worry, but far enough to do whatever move you choose. They will LOVE that confidence, but once again confidence has to be matched with looks, otherwise they'll will think you want to drag her to your van.

If you think that's lame, no it's actually not, because if your attractive for them and do simple sh*t like this smoothly, that playful approach+joke into a simple kiss will work 90% of the time. If they say "I have a boyfriend" and you think they are talking sh*t, say something cheeky back like: "Same here, we have something in common". etc etc And never outstay your welcome, eventually say you have to go check on your friends etc, then that's a queue to grab a number. You want to make it so that you're the prize, but not in an obnoxious way. Most guys will be WKing her all night.

My point is, you don't need major game in most hot spots, it's all about how you dress, how you look, and your body language. If they are not feeling any lust, you're fuked. You will have to drop your ratings until you hit that sweet spot.
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I really want to live in this twilight zone areas of America/Europe where women are seemingly in love with fat balding men and curving decent looking men. Seriously I'll pack my bags tonight.
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Lol @ that height range. Utterly ridiculous. As for the other "must haves," I've dated outside of those too.

However... You can't fix ugly. But even that's subjective. You've seen the evidence that anyone can get laid by someone at some point in time. Soooooo any category is subjective to the person making the categories.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
lol funny story. one time i went out with my chad neighbor and once he stepped on the dance floor all the average girls were ogling him. this one girl literally turned around and was shocked at his chad figure. he was dancing on 3 girls at one time.at the club theres no such thing as "looks dont matter." guy was terrible at dancing to hip hop too lol
Nah, I'd rather dance with a non chad who can really dance than a chad who can't dance. But I'm also not there to pick up guys, I just want to dance.

Also to whoever said guys don't date down. LMAO The fuk they don't. I see decent looking guys all the time with uggos.
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