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Thread: You guys okay with your girl having male friends (srs)

post 1569604501 12-26-2018, 06:08 PM
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if by male friends you mean female friends, then sure, no problem
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post 1569604711 12-26-2018, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
What if you just genuinely enjoy talking to them?
Even worse.
post 1569604831 12-26-2018, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
What if you just genuinely enjoy talking to them? You've never had a friend that you enjoy talking to just to talk and laugh with? No ulterior motive?
Because they only enjoy listening to you because they want to smash you...
post 1569604861 12-26-2018, 06:13 PM
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You have to be insecure as fuk to not want your gf talking to other people

That being said, if your gf is texting other guys all day then that’s a problem
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post 1569604951 12-26-2018, 06:14 PM
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post 1569605321 12-26-2018, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
I know but I have co workers who are girls I have them on insta/snap I'll text her from time to time does it really mean I wanna cheat ? Not really man
Yes because men and women are exactly the same and you should always evaluate the scenarios as being the same thing when the genders are reversed.

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post 1569605691 12-26-2018, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes female friends. Have not had any male friends after high school.

And don’t you think the guys have ulterior motives?
Word; this is what a lot of women get wrong. Just because he isn't actively trying to get in your pants doesn't mean he doesn't have ulterior motives. Some guys are so pathetic they need a collection of women on their contact list for validation. If her attention goes to another man she feels like the other man is trying to steal her. lmao.
post 1569605991 12-26-2018, 06:26 PM
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As long as I'm more better looking and alpha than them sure. Hanging out one on one is a big no unless in a group setting. If they're gay then that's an exception.
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post 1569606721 12-26-2018, 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Foze⏩
Doesn't matter whether you're cool with it or not.

If she's hot, she'll have guy friends. Most likely quite a few.

YES, most of these guys will want to bang her (dormantly or overtly)

End of the day, if you're her best option and she's the type not to cheat - she probably won't.
till you fall asleep, forget to reply to a text, and she's been drinking


she'll become 'that' type real quick


chris brown said it best, these hoes ain't loyal



guy friends? only if they're gay and even then i'd keep an eye out no homo
post 1569606851 12-26-2018, 06:37 PM
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I have nearly always worked with women, so I know how to get along with them. Many men who work in psychology are wimpy and I can't stand wimpy guys, so I've made more friends with women over the year.

I addition, I can't stand the emotional complexity that comes with sexual relationships so I only go after women I feel love for and want around. Thus, I'm an okay guy to make friends with women. I'm also not a liar, so I don't pretend to be nice when I really want something. If I'm being nice, I'm being nice, if not I'm aggressively telling the woman what I think.

So, I'm a safe guy to make friends with nearly any woman.

With that being said, a man or woman is only going to have a few real friends that enjoy them and want to talk often. That just makes sense. If you're "friends" with a 1,000 people on ********, they aren't your friends. You probably only have two or three real friends.

So, if a girl is gettings texts from more than a couple guys, and she doesn't have a complex friendship story about how she knows them, then they aren't her friends and have a possible negative motive.

Nothing You Can Do Now:

But ******** is really heinous in this regard.

Dudes can basically come into your bedroom, intimate spaces, and talk you your girl as if they're right there. The feelings will be the same if "Chad" is saying goodnight while she's in bed. It's almost predatory grooming like child sex offenders do to kids, you buddy up to them in private spaces trying to make them see you as a comfortable person.

Meanwhile, ******** is awesome for normal people to keep in touch with distant loved ones.

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post 1569606891 12-26-2018, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By jiujitsubro⏩
As long as I'm more better looking and alpha than them sure. Hanging out one on one is a big no unless in a group setting. If they're gay then that's an exception.
If a girl is hanging out with guys she's no good.

It will drive you crazy and she ought to know that.
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post 1569607301 12-26-2018, 06:44 PM
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post 1569607751 12-26-2018, 06:51 PM
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I'm fine with my girl having guy friends.

But I know my girl inside and out (quite literally). I know all her friends, and I know how she behaves with friends when she is with them, and when she isn't. She isn't someone who txts people all day.
I'd be fine with it up until the point that she started behaving strangely.

We also have each others passwords to everything and access to each others phones. Not so we can check on each other, but just because we've been together almost 13 years now and sometimes we need to check each other's e-mails or some such to look up Dr. Appointment details for our kid, or random details on purchases we've made etc.



Also I'm 6'3 and would mog the fuk out of any of her friends.

Also. LOL if you think my wife has friends or leaves the house.
Neither of us do.
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post 1569607941 12-26-2018, 06:53 PM
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As a guy only if you are naive enough to believe this.

I am sure a few women here will say it's bs because they have a great-close relationship with a guy. But little do they know if the guy ever had a chance to fuk them, they totally would. Straight up definition of an orbiter.

So I can say with complete confidence, there is 100% chance I will never hang out with a girl if I did not want to fuk her.

The worst part is when a girl knows the guy likes her and she still continues to hang with them. Aka basically leading them on.
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post 1569608031 12-26-2018, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By jiujitsubro⏩
As long as I'm more better looking and alpha than them sure. Hanging out one on one is a big no unless in a group setting.If they're gay then that's an exception.
oh I bet you make special exceptions for that, bro
post 1569608991 12-26-2018, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Noobyy⏩
I had a girl with a few male friends, they were cool to me, I alpha'd them quite a bit. When she stopped being cool to me, they ****ed her, accept if you break up, that's gon happen, they ain't your friends boyo
lol how do you know they ****ed lmao
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post 1569609121 12-26-2018, 07:11 PM
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it all depends on the girl. If she's a ho then she will show signs.
post 1569609351 12-26-2018, 07:14 PM
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Consider this; males and females are only friends if each of them are getting a benefit or something in return from the friendship. What benefit is she getting from those guys that she's not getting from you? And what benefit are they getting from her?
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post 1569609551 12-26-2018, 07:17 PM
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This is the truth - men aren't 'just friends' with women. Acquaintances? Sure...friends? lol...There are women they want to f-ck, women they used to f-ck and want to f-ck again, and women whose friends they want to f-ck.
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post 1569609701 12-26-2018, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By 2020Wellness⏩
And what benefit are they getting from her?
They go to knitting class together or have a stimulating conversation over volume flow rate and equation of continuity.
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post 1569609901 12-26-2018, 07:21 PM
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OP have you ever seen those threads on the misc about how a sloot gets over her bf and gets with another dude so fast? Or have you ever wondered it yourself? If you want to know for sure do yourself an experiment. Break up with your gf and see how long it takes for her to get some rebound dick. She's never yours brah it's just your turn.
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Yes, I’m okay with it. Otherwise, I’d be an insecure, controlling boyfriend. If a girl is capable of cheating, she will. It doesn’t matter if you “allow” her to have friends. If she does cheat, next her, she’s low value as a woman morally and did you a favor by allowing you to know sooner rather than later.

If you have to control a girls personal life out of fear, you’re not with with right one. I thought that much was common knowledge.
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No contact with anyone you've had sex with that'd be my rule. Otherwise, not gonna let some guys control my life and make me seem jealous, I know my worth. If it's not good enough for her then so be it.
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I am only usually friends with girls who i'm attracted to srs

So maybe they'll have a boyfriend, i dont mind befriending them but in the back of my mind I wana f**k 99% of the time

If they see a person for a catch up that they do not see regularly that is usually cool. But if they are hanging out one on one with a dude regularly and he is not gay, watch the f out. Also if he is attractive she has prolly ****ed him already.

In my friendship group which consists of about 10 people including 4 girls, I have f**ked every girl in it. And some of them have f**ked each other too. Sloots gona sloot
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lol at any cuck who would let their gf have male 'friends.'
Come at me.
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Originally Posted By Evil_D⏩
lol at any cuck who would let their gf have male 'friends.'
Come at me.
I'll come at your gf if you let us be friends
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Here’s the thing OP: if she already has many male friends, then you dun goofed from the start. You picked a sloot.

If you try to tell her to go NC on her male friends, you’re gonna seem insecure to her, and it’s not gonna work anyway.
If you try to play it cool and try to act unbothered by her having many male friends, well she isn’t gonna give a fukk either.

See you’re gonna get cucked either way by this type of sloot.


If you want a GF then go for girls with as little male friends as possible.
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Originally Posted By ChrisMisc⏩
I'll come at your gf if you let us be friends
Why don’t you just get your own girlfriend? Or do they break it off with you once they realize you’re a latent homosexual?
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