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post 1569587311 12-26-2018, 01:44 PM
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You guys okay with your girl having male friends (srs)

Not too sure what to think, guys are texting her and she has many male friends, help misc brahs. It seems normal in theory that she's got guy friends and texts them, but I'm not too keen on this tbh
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post 1569587531 12-26-2018, 01:47 PM
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She's gonna have a moment of weakness around one of them during a random time she deems you as inadequately meeting her needs. Once alcohol comes out, das it mayne
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post 1569587661 12-26-2018, 01:49 PM
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Yeah of course its ok

I let my girl sleep over her guy friends house if shes out and has too much to drink, its so nice that hes willing to take her in if shes had one too many
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post 1569587711 12-26-2018, 01:49 PM
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Just lol at not keeping her locked in the house with no phone and no way to contact anyone else. If you don’t she will def cheat /misc logic
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post 1569587791 12-26-2018, 01:50 PM
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Co workers maybe. But not random ass dudes
post 1569587981 12-26-2018, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By LaCosaNostra90⏩
Co workers maybe. But not random ass dudes
Ya it's her co workers, but they say he likes her fuking *******, she's blocked him as She says atleast
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post 1569588051 12-26-2018, 01:53 PM
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Texting guy friends? Unless it's some homo childhood friend then no thanks. Those guys would only be talking to her because they're interested and she'd be entertaining that possibility by talking to them.
post 1569588121 12-26-2018, 01:54 PM
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Eh, I'd be a little uneasy about that many guys texting her. One close guy friend? Maybe. Multiple? Red flag.
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post 1569588181 12-26-2018, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted By UberBrah⏩
Texting guy friends? Unless it's some homo childhood friend then no thanks. Those guys would only be talking to her because they're interested and she'd be entertaining that possibility by talking to them.
this, always gotta take in mind that no dude talks to a girl to build a friendship unless they're on that ****gy time

for some reason girls can't wrap their heads around that tho
post 1569588331 12-26-2018, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By UberBrah⏩
Texting guy friends? Unless it's some homo childhood friend then no thanks. Those guys would only be talking to her because they're interested and she'd be entertaining that possibility by talking to them.
I know but I have co workers who are girls I have them on insta/snap I'll text her from time to time does it really mean I wanna cheat ? Not really man
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post 1569588361 12-26-2018, 01:57 PM
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Lol no. Might as well ask if you're okay with guys fukking your gf
post 1569588601 12-26-2018, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Not too sure what to think, guys are texting her and she has many male friends, help misc brahs. It seems normal in theory that she's got guy friends and texts them, but I'm not too keen on this tbh
You could be like that cuck kid who lets his friends bang his girl then makes threads about it like it's a normal thing to want to see your girl get DP'D.

Either that or just live with knowing she'll suck a dink here and there behind your back. But that's pretty much any relationship anyway
post 1569588651 12-26-2018, 02:02 PM
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Yea every once and a while me and my buddy swap girlfriends and have a little sleepover for a few nights just to prove how much we value our relationships
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post 1569588691 12-26-2018, 02:03 PM
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Not excited about it, but I wont tell her who she can and can't be friends with. It's all about her actions, and what she finds appropriate when in a relationship. If we don't agree, i'll end it.
post 1569588711 12-26-2018, 02:03 PM
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youre such a cuckboi brad
post 1569588861 12-26-2018, 02:05 PM
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Idc, I wouldnt allow her to tell me who I can and cant talk to, so i wont do it to her either
post 1569589201 12-26-2018, 02:09 PM
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Depends on if they're cool or not. My wife had a nerdy little 'guy friend' when I first started dating her and I'd tell her to bring him out when we were doing **** all the god damn time and he literally never wanted to hang out with me so I said **** that guy get rid of him this is red flag territory. Wife-o is a pretty reasonable lady and agreed that he was being weird so she stopped responding to the guys texts for a week and then got a 10 page declaration of love... via text (lol).

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post 1569589221 12-26-2018, 02:10 PM
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post 1569589531 12-26-2018, 02:15 PM
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post 1569589581 12-26-2018, 02:16 PM
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post 1569589641 12-26-2018, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Not excited about it, but I wont tell her who she can and can't be friends with. It's all about her actions, and what she finds appropriate when in a relationship. If we don't agree, i'll end it.
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post 1569589681 12-26-2018, 02:17 PM
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I had a girl with a few male friends, they were cool to me, I alpha'd them quite a bit. When she stopped being cool to me, they ****ed her, accept if you break up, that's gon happen, they ain't your friends boyo
post 1569589691 12-26-2018, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
I know but I have co workers who are girls I have them on insta/snap I'll text her from time to time does it really mean I wanna cheat ? Not really man
That was a weird way to word it. Could've said No but instead you said Not really. Do you entertain the possibility of the co-worker being a backup plan, assuming she's attractive?

If your gf's male friends are unattractive then you don't have much to worry about, if you're fine with them pining over her and being weird. But if they're attractive then you need to watch out because I almost guarantee that she sees them as a backup plan.
post 1569589701 12-26-2018, 02:17 PM
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post 1569589771 12-26-2018, 02:19 PM
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If she just texts a childhood friend once in a while it's fine. But if she's constantly texting multiple guys and hanging out with them without you, she's a megasloot and I would end it

You can't control people. Just let her do whatever she wants. If you like what she does, keep her around. If you don't like what she does, dump her ass
post 1569589871 12-26-2018, 02:20 PM
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It is very easy to tell which friends want to fuk her. Every time they wanna hang out, tag along. Never let her be alone with a guy friend until you're 100% it's a legit friend. Orbiters will give up eventually.
post 1569589951 12-26-2018, 02:21 PM
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If you break her heart at least you know who she will be fukking
post 1569589971 12-26-2018, 02:22 PM
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Lol she’s keeping these dudes in contact so when you slip up she has a new dink to ride. You can never trust sloots with a lot of ‘guy friends.’
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post 1569590011 12-26-2018, 02:22 PM
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I hate that but if she wanted them she’d have them and not be with you
Can’t hate if she knew them before you
Be suspect of new male friends thoufh

This one woman I’ve got friendly with invited me to her bday and it was all women
Then her bf and his friends showed up and his face totally changed when he realized I was her friend lol
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post 1569590101 12-26-2018, 02:24 PM
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No, unless they're childhood friends, IMO this is acceptable, if something was gonna happen, they had decades for it to happen.
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