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post 1587968861 09-16-2019, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
Do you have an open marriage, or an 'arrangement'?
It’s one of those that my wife turns a blind eye too. She does not want to break up the family
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post 1587969371 09-16-2019, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
It’s one of those that my wife turns a blind eye too. She does not want to break up the family
I know I’m a ass
Damn dude... It tears her up inside, but she doesn't want the kids to grow up in a non-dual parent household?

C'mon brah...

Have you heard of Esther Perel? A pretty controversial expert on relationships. She is extremely non-judgmental about people who have affairs (despite making it clear, that she doesn't condone it), and she talks about how people who are motivated to have affairs can recognize what drives them, and how they can potentially reform their half of the relationships so that they find it more exciting/fulfilling...

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...y-isnt-all-bad
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post 1587969841 09-16-2019, 09:24 AM
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Yep..legit met her and fell for her instantly. Never felt that sort of primal connection with anyone. The problem with falling hard for someone is you become vulnerable and instantly start to show your hand of cards. I learned a valuable lesson with her...as soon as i started being sweet/vulnerable with her, (ie. buying flowers, cooking for her, etc.) her snatch dried up and she ghosted me. Really fuk'd me up for awhile especially when things are going extremely well in my mind, but it was a lesson that needed to be learned. No matter what a woman tells you, NEVER show signs of weakness around them. Misc takes the alpha thing too far at times, but there is definitely some truth to it.
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post 1587970031 09-16-2019, 09:26 AM
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post 1587970591 09-16-2019, 09:35 AM
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I don't dream of girls so...

I guess that's a no?
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post 1587970671 09-16-2019, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By rockr101⏩
this is u breh lmfaoo

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post 1587971721 09-16-2019, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Yep..legit met her and fell for her instantly. Never felt that sort of primal connection with anyone. The problem with falling hard for someone is you become vulnerable and instantly start to show your hand of cards. I learned a valuable lesson with her...as soon as i started being sweet/vulnerable with her, (ie. buying flowers, cooking for her, etc.) her snatch dried up and she ghosted me. Really fuk'd me up for awhile especially when things are going extremely well in my mind, but it was a lesson that needed to be learned. No matter what a woman tells you, NEVER show signs of weakness around them. Misc takes the alpha thing too far at times, but there is definitely some truth to it.
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post 1587972541 09-16-2019, 10:04 AM
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no such thing as the perfect girl, yall are just blinded by emotions
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post 1587973521 09-16-2019, 10:20 AM
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Tbh my recent ex had tons of qualities that would be in that dream girl department, but she was missing that feminine energy because of her career and dedication to that. Didn't do girly things like dress up, shop and self care.

My dream girl would have a good career, be chill and would also make time for herself and her feminine.
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post 1587973911 09-16-2019, 10:28 AM
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Am not saying it in a Homo sense, but I have never even met my best buddy yet Aka a best friend that is a guy or gal and I alwyas was lead to believe that each followed in ascending order!!!!!!!!!!!!
post 1587974961 09-16-2019, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted By NVious⏩
What was dat like?
nah id have to move to Los Angeles for that
post 1587980591 09-16-2019, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Yep..legit met her and fell for her instantly. Never felt that sort of primal connection with anyone. The problem with falling hard for someone is you become vulnerable and instantly start to show your hand of cards. I learned a valuable lesson with her...as soon as i started being sweet/vulnerable with her, (ie. buying flowers, cooking for her, etc.) her snatch dried up and she ghosted me. Really fuk'd me up for awhile especially when things are going extremely well in my mind, but it was a lesson that needed to be learned. No matter what a woman tells you, NEVER show signs of weakness around them. Misc takes the alpha thing too far at times, but there is definitely some truth to it.
Truth, you still need to be the dominant one in the relationship. Even if it sometimes feels better to just say yes.
I just do whatever I want. I tell things the way I really feel about them. I never felt vulnerable or insecure in any of my relationships and nobody has ever left or dumped me.
It's not about being 'alpha', being alpha is just a façade many insecure people try to put up to hide their underlying insecurities.
It's about being your true self, by understanding yourself and accepting the things you don't understand about yourself.

Society really ****ed up so many boys that could have evolved to real men.
So many things are not 'acceptable' in relationships. So much 'unacceptable' behavior.
The rules of the current state of society are written by unsatisfied people that will never feel real love and focus their energy and frustration to pull down the ones around them to their level.

Just look around you, how many guys that look like a 'perfect husband' get cheated on? How many people just give up once they are in a relationship? How many 'alpha's ' just become whipped once they settle down with a girl?
post 1587982191 09-16-2019, 12:36 PM
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Yea, many times haha
post 1587983121 09-16-2019, 12:53 PM
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Only physically. Sucks when you date someone like that at a young age cause every time after it seems like there's no room for improvement unless your tastes change
post 1587983181 09-16-2019, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
It’s one of those that my wife turns a blind eye too. She does not want to break up the family
I know I’m a ass
Understatement of the year. I hope she leaves you and takes 75% of your chit.

Anyone with such little self control deserves everything that's coming to them.
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post 1587983651 09-16-2019, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
It’s a curse that I bear. I’m weak when it comes to woman and being hit on all the time makes it easy
post 1587984711 09-16-2019, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Understatement of the year. I hope she leaves you and takes 75% of your chit.

Anyone with such little self control deserves everything that's coming to them.
Why so mad? Life is short and I know when the time comes on my death bed I will look back and know I took and did everything that I wanted, while others cry about what could of been.
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post 1587985121 09-16-2019, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
Why so mad? Life is short and I know when the time comes on my death bed I will look back and know I took and did everything that I wanted, while others cry about what could of been.
I'm not supporting Muzziechik's wish for you to suffer, but...

Maybe on your death bed you'll deeply regret how much you hurt a woman who has stood by your side, and been a (presumably) good mother to your children.

Have you considered that maybe you'll come to regret your selfishness?
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post 1587985291 09-16-2019, 01:27 PM
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Sure, lots of times. I usually meet them before those kind of dreams though.
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
Why so mad? Life is short and I know when the time comes on my death bed I will look back and know I took and did everything that I wanted, while others cry about what could of been.
Would you be okay with it if she cheated on you too?
If yes, then carry on. If not, then fist urself *******, and leave her
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post 1587986371 09-16-2019, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted By xam1996⏩
Would you be okay with it if she cheated on you too?
If yes, then carry on. If not, then fist urself *******, and leave her
Of course not and she knows she better not.
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post 1587986421 09-16-2019, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah that’s fine if you’re single. If you’re married you should be loyal.

You can’t just do only what you want anymore and not respect your wife or your marriage at all. Once you are married with kids it’s not just about you anymore. Then you have obligations to your wife and kids to respect the marriage. If you can’t do that then you should get divorced imo.
^^^

Have you thought about the impact on your wife's psychological well being, that your cheating has on her?

Kids pick up on more than their parents usually think.

Maybe one day in the future, the truth will come to the surface (especially if you continue doing what you are doing), and your kids will resent you for what you put their mother through.

Like silencespeaks says... Your behaviour has an impact on your kids and your partner, because you're a father and a husband.
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
Of course not and she knows she better not.
What a fukking hypocrite
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Originally Posted By xam1996⏩
What a fukking hypocrite
whats wrong with being one?
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
whats wrong with being one?
There is a 90% chance she getting d1ck on the side my man
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post 1587988421 09-16-2019, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By randombrah102⏩
There is a 90% chance she getting d1ck on the side my man
She wouldn’t dare and I know that for a fact.
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