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Aside from co-workers, I have no idea how much my friends make. They could be millionaires (I'm sure some are) or they could be living paycheck to paycheck (I'm sure some are).
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Originally Posted By imbeingcereal⏩
This.No, because people who earn $100K+ at my age are usually boring people who played it safe their whole lives (including myself in this mix, btw) and have no interesting hobbies/passions besides the typical yuppie bull**** of binging the latest fad show/doc on Netflix, eating at some overpriced trendy restaurant, or posting instagram/snapchat stories of them getting plastered on the weekend at a club.
I'd much rather hang out with people that make less money and are down to earth/have hobbies that don't require excessive amounts of money. They tend to be way more fun people to hang out with (srs).
I'd much rather hang out with people that make less money and are down to earth/have hobbies that don't require excessive amounts of money. They tend to be way more fun people to hang out with (srs).
SO much this, especially if you live in areas where people have to show off their status. Binging netflix, eating at ridiculous overpriced restaurants, instagramming themselves at hot spots all in the name of spending significant amounts of money to impress people who they don't even like.
05-06-2020, 12:02 AM
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No, I don’t judge people by their salary. If they’re ambitious and down to earth, it’s much better than being around rich pricks.
I started my career as a temp making 15 dollars an hour. Took about 10 years of busting my ass to finally break 100k. Would have been much easier if I wasn’t a dumb **** in college.
I started my career as a temp making 15 dollars an hour. Took about 10 years of busting my ass to finally break 100k. Would have been much easier if I wasn’t a dumb **** in college.
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05-06-2020, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By FrankGrimesJr⏩
What’s your job? And what’s the salary ceiling in that job?I started at $42k 14 years ago and now I’m at $110k. Has my salary been growing too slow?
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05-06-2020, 05:40 AM
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Originally Posted By aleeboy⏩
Not sure what your definition of wealth is but I’ve been at risk of losing my membership of the law society (equivalent of US bar association) if I am involved in even the slightest unethical, fraudulent, dishonest or criminal conduct, and probably even more restrictions as a result of security clearances since I was in my early 20s.Yes, I hang out with people who, preferably, are not greedy and money-crazed.
I'm not sure if you brehs will believe this or not, but wealthy people are the biggest arseholes you will ever meet. And they make their money in ways you wouldn't think are possible, or legal.
You SHOULD NOT respect people with money. How do you think they got it in a dog-eat-dog world.
I'm not sure if you brehs will believe this or not, but wealthy people are the biggest arseholes you will ever meet. And they make their money in ways you wouldn't think are possible, or legal.
You SHOULD NOT respect people with money. How do you think they got it in a dog-eat-dog world.
So plenty of people acquire “wealth” while still abiding by stringent professional and ethical standards
05-06-2020, 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
I mean business people.Not sure what your definition of wealth is but I’ve been at risk of losing my membership of the law society (equivalent of US bar association) if I am involved in even the slightest unethical, fraudulent, dishonest or criminal conduct, and probably even more restrictions as a result of security clearances since I was in my early 20s.
So plenty of people acquire “wealth” while still abiding by stringent professional and ethical standards
So plenty of people acquire “wealth” while still abiding by stringent professional and ethical standards
There are a lot of lawyers and accountants on the take too, bro.
Maybe you are just not making enough money? Or, they all say what you say LOL
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05-06-2020, 05:48 AM
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But we all look down at peasants though it's normal isn't it?
I'm not a bad person but talk to a 30 year old dude working in retail and you think hmmm
talk to a 30 year old dude working as a janitor
or a 30 year old women whose a waitress etc
i'm not judgemental but we all naturally are just like looks and unfortunately you will be judged.
I'm not a bad person but talk to a 30 year old dude working in retail and you think hmmm
talk to a 30 year old dude working as a janitor
or a 30 year old women whose a waitress etc
i'm not judgemental but we all naturally are just like looks and unfortunately you will be judged.
05-06-2020, 05:56 AM
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Originally Posted By KBurn⏩
This just different kind of people I guessMostly. The character trait is more like young/middle aged professionals and business owners, many who are on 6 figures or close to that, due to going to uni.
Money is not the issue, some drive 25 year old toyota corolla, some are on brand new volvo SUVs, some have custom made suits, some are in k-mart clothes.
The issue is character. We just don't gel with the dero or povo crowd. Different life goals, different lifestyles. We're trying to pay off mortgages, move up in society, get established, invest, eat nice food, do nice things, get ahead in life. They're trying to do weed, do burnouts, get into get-rich-quick schemes.
My club for my other hobby is mostly bogans, and beyond our hobby interest, its hard to gel with them, they want to blow their entire paycheque on rims, pokies, bali
Money is not the issue, some drive 25 year old toyota corolla, some are on brand new volvo SUVs, some have custom made suits, some are in k-mart clothes.
The issue is character. We just don't gel with the dero or povo crowd. Different life goals, different lifestyles. We're trying to pay off mortgages, move up in society, get established, invest, eat nice food, do nice things, get ahead in life. They're trying to do weed, do burnouts, get into get-rich-quick schemes.
My club for my other hobby is mostly bogans, and beyond our hobby interest, its hard to gel with them, they want to blow their entire paycheque on rims, pokies, bali
05-06-2020, 05:57 AM
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No. Surround myself with solid and enjoyable people.
Cutting your social circle simply due to income says a lot about you as a person.
Cutting your social circle simply due to income says a lot about you as a person.
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05-06-2020, 06:21 AM
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I don't go out of my way to only hang out with folks who make X amount, but being that most of the people I hang out with on a regular basis are also in the local super/exotic car groups, it's pretty obvious that they all do. But that pool of friends and acquaintance net worth ranges anywhere from $300k to $300m+. Another subset are all physicians, so their income ranges from $200k-$900k. Outside of that, I have friends with income ranges >100k, but those are mostly long time/family friends.
The only issue I have when hanging out with my buddies who make a lot less than we do, is that you have to be more careful in conversation. You can't talk about acquiring this or that, about the cost of things, about planning trips, etc. People who make less tend to think that if you talk about hobbies/tech/etc, that are far outside of their economic reach, that you are being condescending or a braggart. An example of this is that I have 2 or 3 friends who are into cars, but don't make much. If we are all talking about our latest car shopping endeavors, recent car mods, or what we've been eyeing recently, they wouldn't be able to relate if I said that I thought car XYZ that I'm considering is a bargain at $250k, because my alternative choice is car ZYX at $400k. So I just have to refrain from really being a part of that conversation. On the other hand, I have buddies who know that if we are all hanging out, it's not at all uncouth to offhandedly mention how we/they should upgrade from this car to that car, because it's only another $80k.
All that said, I don't ask or even care about someone's income level when it comes to making new friends.
The only issue I have when hanging out with my buddies who make a lot less than we do, is that you have to be more careful in conversation. You can't talk about acquiring this or that, about the cost of things, about planning trips, etc. People who make less tend to think that if you talk about hobbies/tech/etc, that are far outside of their economic reach, that you are being condescending or a braggart. An example of this is that I have 2 or 3 friends who are into cars, but don't make much. If we are all talking about our latest car shopping endeavors, recent car mods, or what we've been eyeing recently, they wouldn't be able to relate if I said that I thought car XYZ that I'm considering is a bargain at $250k, because my alternative choice is car ZYX at $400k. So I just have to refrain from really being a part of that conversation. On the other hand, I have buddies who know that if we are all hanging out, it's not at all uncouth to offhandedly mention how we/they should upgrade from this car to that car, because it's only another $80k.
All that said, I don't ask or even care about someone's income level when it comes to making new friends.
05-06-2020, 06:26 AM
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
no kidding. What kind of ******* associates with people based on their income?No. Surround myself with solid and enjoyable people.
Cutting your social circle simply due to income says a lot about you as a person.
Cutting your social circle simply due to income says a lot about you as a person.
05-06-2020, 06:28 AM
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Nope been hanging out with my friends when I was poor, and hang out with them still 10+ years later rich.
They never treated me any different either.
They never treated me any different either.
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It's not about how much you make, it's about what you can show for it. It takes a poverty $100kcel like 10 years to amass $250k. Pathetic, srs.
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05-06-2020, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Destor⏩
thats right!You'd hope that making $300k+ consistently for a while would open up some clever accounting practices to help you legally avoid taxes. Get a hold of someone like shortys408
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05-06-2020, 06:52 AM
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I just hang out with people I like. Most of them do not make six figures.
The lifestyle I enjoy is more relatable to people making lower incomes. I rent a room in a large house for $450/mo, only wear plain t-shirts and jeans, and generally cheap out on stuff in favor of early retirement.
The lifestyle I enjoy is more relatable to people making lower incomes. I rent a room in a large house for $450/mo, only wear plain t-shirts and jeans, and generally cheap out on stuff in favor of early retirement.
05-06-2020, 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted By nosirrahx⏩
That's a good mix, and similar to mine. I think in my circle everyone is 'doing well enough' that money 'never comes up'. I don't know about other people, but my parents always taught me that it was crass to bring up numbers:My friends range from kids fresh out of college to other retired guys that are set for life. I really don't care what someone makes to be honest. There is a lot of mentoring in my circle of friends.
Originally Posted By patagucci⏩
And it's crass because the numbers 'say a lot'. Dude I thought we had been over this: relax. Like you said, some people are born with more money than you'll ever have (unless you really dedicate your life to chasing it) so chill. I'm a bespoke suit and vintage Hermes tie crew also but most people (thankfully) can't recognize it. It is normally women, lol, who come up and say 'nice tie' and it'll be a gorgeous lilac gecko Hermes with a white shirt and a custom blue suit from Ozwald Boateng. My point being: I say the names here but most in real life have no idea about what I'm wearing. Get back to your training and you'll already fill your suit better, and stop hanging around the 'blow in the bathroom' types breh. You already developed that rep, remember?And get off the rack suits at department stores when there are sales ... have one custom suit that cost me $1200 from a local Toronto spot and a Ted baker that’s ok...But yeah I have buddies who rock Hermes, ferregamo etc and they mog me hard
The best is the rich chicks rocking ferregamo loafers and Pravda glasses making $40k/yr doing more blow than anyone in the washroom of the fanciest clubs on a Saturday night Sucks to suck
The best is the rich chicks rocking ferregamo loafers and Pravda glasses making $40k/yr doing more blow than anyone in the washroom of the fanciest clubs on a Saturday night Sucks to suck
Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
This is why I tend to 'hang out' with friends, where we are in that sort of 'mentor, sharing, happy for each other' group. It's a tightly knit group, and normally when we are in some wider circles like you mention a simple comment like "Well yeah Ari but you own X and Y and bought at a good time" can lead to lame comments or moments. Honestly the topic of money never really comes up in my group: if someone says "buying a new property here" we might discuss expected ROI, but we spend more time discussing the 'fruits'. The happy marriages, adventures in life, sometimes how hard our parents worked and how they 'enjoyed less' and we are so fortunate to be the hedonists we are now. It's not like we sit around doing mutual audits, lol.The only issue I have when hanging out with my buddies who make a lot less than we do, is that you have to be more careful in conversation....All that said, I don't ask or even care about someone's income level when it comes to making new friends.
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Is that an active decision on your part, or perhaps a function of where you live? Not that as we get older we form so many 'close friendships' with random people we meet, but I think meeting up with good friends for dinner parties and some fun games after - some laughs, some drinks, catching up - is 'good for the soul', if you see what I mean. I'm not sure I could achieve that through my 'hobby groups'. I was guilty for a while of being that 'terrible at keeping in touch' guy but I sort of switched by: deleting all social media; and then switching to WhatsApp calls instead of just messages (for friends living a continent away).I'm sure if I was more of a social person and had the energy, time, or capacity, to hold more immediate friendships outside of hobby groups, this would be far less of an issue.
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Haven't really thought about it. Some of my friends make less and I've been there. Others make 2-3x more than me and I ask them for advice, we can talk about watches and expensive hobbies. I don't judge folks on their income and frankly being in technology I don't have context into other fields that much.
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Originally Posted By Cinderblock⏩
Blows my mind, especially since only 12% of individuals are pulling 100k or more.https://dqydj.com/income-percentile-by-city-calculator/Palm beach checking in, moved here 3 years ago. I'm still trying to understand wtf people do to make so much money here. There's almost no big companies in Florida.
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05-06-2020, 09:52 AM
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I made a 100k/year up until the Rona (for about 5 years). Friends never changed, in fact my true friends told me I was becoming too money motivated and it was all I talked about. I must have been insufferable.
Originally Posted By aleeboy⏩
When Misc's least likeable poster even hates money obsessed people you know they're bad.Yes, I hang out with people who, preferably, are not greedy and money-crazed.
I'm not sure if you brehs will believe this or not, but wealthy people are the biggest arseholes you will ever meet. And they make their money in ways you wouldn't think are possible, or legal.
You SHOULD NOT respect people with money. How do you think they got it in a dog-eat-dog world.
I'm not sure if you brehs will believe this or not, but wealthy people are the biggest arseholes you will ever meet. And they make their money in ways you wouldn't think are possible, or legal.
You SHOULD NOT respect people with money. How do you think they got it in a dog-eat-dog world.
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea⏩
That's a normal part of the brainwashing. 100K is not that much you're still a working class stiff and very far from upper middle class.I'm starting to hate poor people more and moreand don't want to associate with them.
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You have already lost if you think you will benefit from the company of someone else based solely on status or salary.
That will never be a working friendship.
For that reason, I choose/have chosen my friends based on how well we get along. The only boundary there is weeding out those you find super annoying... and they come in all forms.
That will never be a working friendship.
For that reason, I choose/have chosen my friends based on how well we get along. The only boundary there is weeding out those you find super annoying... and they come in all forms.
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Only problem with friends who are not in your salary range is arranging certain activities or eating out at certain places that may stretch them out money wise. You have to adjust that accordingly.
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