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post 1611839721 07-27-2020, 05:35 PM
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[QUOTE=CityJaeger post_id=1611823881]Feelsbadman...

We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.

[b]I even brought her a small gift[/b]for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.

[b]I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.[/b]

She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.

I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.

Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...

Wut do next Misc ?

Picture for your time :

[img]https://i.imgur.com/5414klF.jpg?1[img][/QUOTE]Sounds like you "nice guy'd" your way outta that relationship.
post 1611841841 07-27-2020, 06:12 PM
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[QUOTE=CityJaeger post_id=1611824591]I don't think the gift was a mistake : It was nothing but a small diptyque candle

[img]https://i.imgur.com/tOZHljK.jpg[/img[/QUOTE]It's not the monetary value, it's just too early to give her extra attention and thought. I hate to say this chit cause it sounds like retarded FA and pick up artist garbage, but truth is human brain is wired a certain way. Going in too hot sets off the wrong signals, even if she is not someone who thinks that way on a conscious level. It's the same as saying I love you too quickly, you just don't do that chit, not because you're afraid, but because things take time.

I'd go NC and chill. She'll reach out to you again if she's actually interested. If you push any more at this point you sound needy and she might move on. Again, don't think about it as playing regarded pick up games, it's just a part of how human being establish a dating routine without making it weird. Same as making a move on the first date or two, it just has to be done. Don't drop the ball again if she gets back, it means she's in and you have to make your move if you see her again.
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post 1611842161 07-27-2020, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.

I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
Looks like she got what she wanted, free meal, free ride and even a little gift. She'll have over 1000 matches willing to do the same for her and she'll repeat the same cycle, free meal, free ride until she finds a chad offline who treats her like she's worthless.
post 1611842981 07-27-2020, 06:29 PM
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Most Women will use guys and laugh about it after with their GFs after, think about that next time you buy them shi& and treat the like a fooking princess before they deserve your time/respect.
post 1611843221 07-27-2020, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.

I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.


she could sniff the clingey betaness a mile away

tours over
post 1611843251 07-27-2020, 06:34 PM
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You got one shot tonight to see if shes down tomorrow.

You could even stretch it out and see if she hits you up by early afternoon tomorrow as well.

Dont hit her with any cheesy **** either.
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post 1611844241 07-27-2020, 06:52 PM
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Nice guys finish last lol. Just by the pic I can tell she likes a rough dude. Don't be too nice, idiots.
post 1611845061 07-27-2020, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
We didn't even kiss.
Just fuking lol
post 1611845521 07-27-2020, 07:55 PM
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Buying a gift after 1 date? Bro.
post 1611845771 07-27-2020, 08:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Jabroni89⏩
>3.5 years ago

I learned from my mistakes boyo
post 1611846401 07-27-2020, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By S0Jack3d⏩
the only present you should buy on a first date is lingerie from a sex shop before you take her back to the motel and rip it off of her
U wot m8
post 1611846651 07-27-2020, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By RackaDo⏩
she's getting dp'd by chad and tyrone srs
But OP is Tyrone
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post 1611846901 07-27-2020, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Azzurri⏩
But OP is Tyrone
Tyrone would have beat the cheeks up in a well lit room thanks to a candle gift, and took some of her birthday money to pay for gas.

OP is an urkel in this case
post 1611847171 07-27-2020, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
I don't care about the reciprocity, I like buying gift for people.

It does not make me weak or taken for granted.
In their eyes it does, dont buy gifts for women you just met.
post 1611847851 07-27-2020, 08:58 PM
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is this the same one that nc you for awhile and then came back?
post 1611848031 07-27-2020, 09:00 PM
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post 1611850281 07-27-2020, 09:37 PM
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post 1611850971 07-27-2020, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Tyrone would have beat the cheeks up in a well lit room thanks to a candle gift, and took some of her birthday money to pay for gas.

OP is an urkel in this case
I love you lol
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post 1611851401 07-27-2020, 09:53 PM
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Stick to your own kind.
post 1611851551 07-27-2020, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
We didn't even kiss.
if you don't even kiss a girl on the first date its pretty much dead. She probably just wasnt that into you tbh. Plenty of sloots in the sea.
If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary

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post 1611852361 07-27-2020, 10:08 PM
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You were to Nice. Acting like her bf when you should just be trying to smash her
post 1611853071 07-27-2020, 10:23 PM
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Does he have a sister you can date?
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post 1611854811 07-27-2020, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
How is driving a woman home at night something that's not good? You're going to have your date walk home at night?
it's 2020, not 1987 anymore. she can take an Uber. i don't ever drive to dates anymore - especially because margaritas are always involved. my attitude is - i'm going to have fun and be fun regardless. if she wants to be a downer that's on her.
post 1611869361 07-28-2020, 05:18 AM
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all these great advices on peacoats and dates and yet op decides to listen to none LOL
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Forget her and move on to the next. Only way back is if she begs you to come over during the night
post 1611870211 07-28-2020, 05:35 AM
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- paid for entire date
- didn't even kiss
- ghosted

...looks like it never began.
fist yourself
post 1611871141 07-28-2020, 05:51 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Tyrone would have beat the cheeks up in a well lit room thanks to a candle gift, and took some of her birthday money to pay for gas.

OP is an urkel in this case
Yea, more like a Winston
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