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07-27-2020, 02:26 PM
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She went MIA after I asked her out on a second date
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We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.
I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.
I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.
Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...
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We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.
I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.
I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.
Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...
Wut do next Misc ?
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07-27-2020, 02:27 PM
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beg for her back
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I wouldnt take it personal. It could be for a # of reasons: An ex boyfriend, realized she wasnt that interested after sleeping on it, Chad, Tyrone, ****** self sabbotage... you name it.
Sounds a little beta with the gift gesture though
Sounds a little beta with the gift gesture though
07-27-2020, 02:28 PM
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07-27-2020, 02:29 PM
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Buy the next one a bigger birthday gift boyo, rookie mistake
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you prob over played your hand and over did the niceness
she'll prob be back after chad pumps and dumps her
keep it moving, next
she'll prob be back after chad pumps and dumps her
keep it moving, next
07-27-2020, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
I don't think the gift was a mistake : It was nothing but a small diptyque candleyou prob over played your hand and over did the niceness
she'll prob be back after chad pumps and dumps her
keep it moving, next
she'll prob be back after chad pumps and dumps her
keep it moving, next
07-27-2020, 02:38 PM
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You bought her a present on your first date? What a weirdo
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Personally I would have gone without the gift but it won't kill you
There could be a ton of reasons she didn't reply. She mightve even just forgotten, I've gotten so bad with texting sometimes I don't reply to people for hours or days cause i literally just forget lol
You have another opportunity to text her later into the week, see if she's still down. If she doesn't reply or says no then don't take it personally and just on to the next
There could be a ton of reasons she didn't reply. She mightve even just forgotten, I've gotten so bad with texting sometimes I don't reply to people for hours or days cause i literally just forget lol
You have another opportunity to text her later into the week, see if she's still down. If she doesn't reply or says no then don't take it personally and just on to the next
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
but why doeI don't think the gift was a mistake : It was nothing but a small diptyque candle
what has she done for you to earn a gift
07-27-2020, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
I don't care about the reciprocity, I like buying gift for people.but why doe
what has she done for you to earn a gift
what has she done for you to earn a gift
It does not make me weak or taken for granted.
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Overdid it.I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
First date should be coffee or a drink and last 60-90mins.
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she realized you are a beta ******* for doing that chit.
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You tried to buy her affection. Who gifts a girl after 1 date? She definitely got creeped out and backed out. Stop simping for women you barely know. Never pay for a girl on the 1st date you only do that once you get to know her. The 1st date is to see how you MESH with the chick, she doesn’t deserve sh*t from you
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
bolded the parts where it went wrong. you can absolutely never do these kinds of things for a woman you're beginning to date, especially on a first date. they will view you as a simp.Feelsbadman...
We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.
I even brought her a small gift for her birthdaythat happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and evengot her back home by car.
She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.
I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.
Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...
Wut do next Misc ?
Picture for your time :
We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.
I even brought her a small gift for her birthdaythat happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and evengot her back home by car.
She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.
I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.
Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...
Wut do next Misc ?
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chalk this one up as a L, learn from it, and move on, srs. delete her #
07-27-2020, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Lmao at gift-cels, you should have told her that you didn't give a chit about her birthday and them said you forgot you wallet when it came to pay and see if she could cover the bill. She wanted someone who was authoritative, and instead she got someone willing to cater to her every need. You need to live life, you need to have conflict, and having a dog roll over on it's stomach every day is fun, but after a while it gets old and you want something exciting.I don't think the gift was a mistake : It was nothing but a small diptyque candle
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Strong jaw line....thats a dude, or once was a dude.Feelsbadman...
We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.
I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.
I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.
Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...
Wut do next Misc ?
Picture for your time :
We had a nice first date on Friday, it lasted from 7pm to half past 10.
I even brought her a small gift for her birthday that happened in the middle of the lockdown.
I paid the bill and even got her back home by car.
She said that she spent a wonderful moment with me and was very touched by my gift and my little attention.
I asked her out last night but she answered that she would not be available this week but that it could work for next Monday or Tuesday. To that I answered "Okay, let's settle for Tuesday then" to which she never answered since midnight last night.
Too much Chads on her rotation to find me some time I think...
Wut do next Misc ?
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bruh tuesday is a while a way. do yourself a favor and give her time and space to miss you and think about you
if you text her to try force a reply out of her you will come across as needy and a stalker
it sucks. but it's her turn to make some effort
if you text her to try force a reply out of her you will come across as needy and a stalker
it sucks. but it's her turn to make some effort
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Sounds like you were simping hard. You bought her something before you even hit?
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07-27-2020, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By RonaldMcflurry⏩
We didn't even kiss.Sounds like you were simping hard. You bought her something before you even hit?
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
that is a massive reg flag for sloots if the man doesn't make a move. showed you didn't have the mineralsWe didn't even kiss.
was she playing with her hair throughout the date? if so, you had your chance
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