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post 1612545601 08-04-2020, 08:30 AM
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in my experience the only girls who make the first move i.e. blatantly flirt with me, suggest we go out, ask for my number etc. were not attractive. I wasn't into them at all.

so if a girl did that I would just assume they were undesirable, because i know the facts - which are that if a girl can't get a plethora of guys hitting on her every day, she isn't a good prospect. and she's forced to approach other dudes

i would love to have to not put in any work, until i know the girl is into me. That'd be great

but the truth is that girls just dont NEED to do that (if they're anything decent) so the only ones who will are low value

to get high value girls you need to approach. it's just life
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post 1612545881 08-04-2020, 08:34 AM
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Because that hbb you like is super insecure to approach
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post 1612545991 08-04-2020, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By 2am⏩
Tiny head or giant phone?
i still havent learnt the art of taking selfies as i am not vain nor do i do this often
Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Very true, women take rejection much worse than men. Oh you must be gay because you don't go for me. And then bitch gets dudes involved on hating you. All because you don't go for her. Didn't do anything wrong to her, just ignored her. I do care what a girl looks like, but I also gotta be able to get along with her. I have enough experience to recognize it's just not going to work out and I am only going to have problems abd I don't want problems. And yep, still get problems anyway.
i resonate with this so much. lmao at them when they are pissed off cause I dont reciprocate their advances , you can see it in their faces!. but those girls have to understand its only cause im genetically superior to them and they had to be put in their place. now a top tier model would be a different story.
Originally Posted By OffwhiteBrah⏩
You lift ?
cant u tell?
Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
If a sloot were to approach I can pretty much guarantee that you'd be running to the cops with your cock stuffed up your butt screaming metoo. A female can't even wear a sports bra to the gym without miscers screaming that she practically raped them.
not if they are good looking
Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Women hit me up all the time. I haven't made a first move in months. Just do fun chit and put it out there and women will hit to you up to 'hang out' which turns into sex after 1 to 3 dates. Just had a hottie with massive jugs drive 90 minutes to see me Sunday.
damn, sounds like the dream. what kind of fun stuff and when u man put it out there, you mean on social media? cause if u dont got many followers thats just sad and not many will take notice
Originally Posted By TooMuchofaBro⏩
cos alpha
who the women?
post 1612546071 08-04-2020, 08:37 AM
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What do you think about those dating apps where the woman HAS to make the first move?
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post 1612546931 08-04-2020, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints⏩
What do you think about those dating apps where the woman HAS to make the first move?
which ones, none of them work for me. maybe cause it isnt programmed right.
Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
Because that hbb you like is super insecure to approach
hmm yes maybe. but what kind of signals i can expect from her. so i make sure my approach is sure success
Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
in my experience the only girls who make the first move i.e. blatantly flirt with me, suggest we go out, ask for my number etc. were not attractive. I wasn't into them at all.

so if a girl did that I would just assume they were undesirable, because i know the facts - which are that if a girl can't get a plethora of guys hitting on her every day, she isn't a good prospect. and she's forced to approach other dudes

i would love to have to not put in any work, until i know the girl is into me. That'd be great

but the truth is that girls just dont NEED to do that (if they're anything decent) so the only ones who will are low value

to get high value girls you need to approach. it's just life
i can respeck that . but before me doing that they better look like they popped out from the cover of sports illustrated
post 1612547471 08-04-2020, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
which ones, none of them work for me. maybe cause it isnt programmed right.
My brother uses Bumble. It isn't working out super well for him, even though he's all, fairly goodlooking (idk he's my brother), and has a high-powered job and cool hobbies. I think, though, that HE's just too picky, tbh.

All the long-term couples I know met on OKCupid. Like, legit, I know three marriages from there.
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post 1612547701 08-04-2020, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
I'm the one who lifts
I'm the one who does my meal prep
I'm the one doing my cardio
I'm the one making sure I looksmax

And yet I have to go up to her and try to "win her" over.

U wot m8?

How long until the sloots approach me?
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post 1612552731 08-04-2020, 09:49 AM
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It's annoying as fuk when sl00ts try to pull. They try way to hard, and it comes off forced. Like bitch just come say hi, buy me a drink and lets talk.
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post 1612553241 08-04-2020, 09:53 AM
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You don’t always have to.

I bought my current bf a drink and just asked his name.
They said she's gone too far this time

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post 1612554191 08-04-2020, 10:06 AM
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1500 posts and you still had to ask that question?

Looksmaxxing is only half the battle. Need to increase your social/dating skills and confidence too.
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Man checking in. Never make first move. Chad crew
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
You don’t always have to.

I bought my current bf a drink and just asked his name.
your bf is beta though
post 1612555371 08-04-2020, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Mikuljordan⏩
your bf is beta though
Stop being a *******. Maybe if you had a penis and balls, sht like this just doesn't matter.


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Op , you look like a llama
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post 1612556471 08-04-2020, 10:34 AM
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Girls want men who lead, take initiative, and are assertive.

Women dont want scared men who are insecure and afraid to make the 1st move.

In other words you're a beta simp exactly like your DNA has chosen to express, and girls arent looking for it so you FA.
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
i resonate with this so much. lmao at them when they are pissed offcause I dont reciprocate their advances, you can see it in their faces!. but those girls have to understand its only cause im genetically superior to them and they had to be put in their place. now a top tier model would be a different story.
"cause I dont reciprocate their advances"

"dont reciprocate their advances"

"their advances"

"THEIR ADVANCES"....But I you said they weren't approaching?
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Originally Posted By ChelshireCat⏩
"cause I dont reciprocate their advances"

"dont reciprocate their advances"

"their advances"

"THEIR ADVANCES"....But I you said they weren't approaching?
The fact hes going on about the quality of his DNA and how he has to put them in his place is cope.

What he is really trying to say is: "When they offer up an under hand soft ball lob I'm still too beta or insecure to act, so I shut down."

Your DNA cant even find a hole because you're too much of a wimp to take what you want. You're the type of guy who gets a few glances at the club or bar and then hides while uglier men go chat them up. As the night goes on you see the ugly guys leave with girls you would have liked.

Then you come to the misc and make beta posts about your quality, and how girls should approach you. Incelmaxxing hard.
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Originally Posted By irmocool⏩
Op , you look like a llama
i want to look more like a german shepherd
Originally Posted By Mikuljordan⏩
Man checking in. Never make first move. Chad crew
das it mane
Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
1500 posts and you still had to ask that question?

Looksmaxxing is only half the battle. Need to increase your social/dating skills and confidence too.
notif you are chad thundercock 9000 with the latest mods
Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
You don’t always have to.

I bought my current bf a drink and just asked his name.
what made u do that? was it his looks
Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
It's annoying as fuk when sl00ts try to pull. They try way to hard, and it comes off forced. Like bitch just come say hi, buy me a drink and lets talk.
my point exactly and it wouldnt hurt them to be in shape and good looking
Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Well this was my Saturday.

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Originally Posted By ChelshireCat⏩
"cause I dont reciprocate their advances"

"dont reciprocate their advances"

"their advances"

"THEIR ADVANCES"....But I you said they weren't approaching?
the kind of girls making advances and i rejecting.

the kind of girls i wish would make them instead
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that's what our balls are for

to have higher confidence/initiate actions

don't like it? go to a corner and fist yourself
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
You don’t always have to.

I bought my current bf a drink and just asked his name.
only on 1 occasion has a female i didn't know offer to buy me a drink and that was an obese land whale who was at least 15 years older than me.

if an attractive woman whom i do not know offers to buy be a drink, alarm bells are going off in my mind and i'm weighing up the pros and cons of sex vs waking up in a bath of ice 1 kidney short.
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Originally Posted By arod204⏩
The fact hes going on about the quality of his DNA and how he has to put them in his place is cope.

What he is really trying to say is: "When they offer up an under hand soft ball lob I'm still too beta or insecure to act, so I shut down."

Your DNA cant even find a hole because you're too much of a wimp to take what you want. You're the type of guy who gets a few glances at the club or bar and then hides while uglier men go chat them up. As the night goes on you see the ugly guys leave with girls you would have liked.

Then you come to the misc and make beta posts about your quality, and how girls should approach you. Incelmaxxing hard.
my point exactly. the women who pitch like that have no makings of an athlete equaling an appalling body .the ones who throw straight and hard at you makes you know you're the chosen one. and to awaken that feeling in women , you need to look a certain way. judging by your avi, you seem like a catcher scooping all the undesirable whale like sloots. shove that bluepill harder up yo rectum m'lady white knight
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
that's what our balls are for

to have higher confidence/initiate actions

don't like it? go to a corner and fist yourself
yes but what point do u level up to where u dont need to play that game anymore.
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this is troll ass chit

10/10 incel bait
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
yes but what point do u level up to where u dont need to play that game anymore.
Around age 35 the sloot single moms become way more aggressive once they realize their Prince just wants to pump n dump them.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Because you're the man, that's how it works, generally speaking. You're not supposed to be the submissive one being chased.
This. Fuk is wrong with you OP? The hunt is part of the fun. You never went fishin? You just want those sumbitches to just jump on the boat right into your cooler?
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
why do you have defenses in the first place if you are attracted by a guy at first sight purely due to his looks.

these mind games make me annoyed . why cant it be as easy as getting a beer with the boys.

why is sex not guaranteed even after the first date where the girl is interested too . why all the tests?
Because the woman then runs the risk of mating with a bitch and having little bitch children that her bitch mate won't help her protect.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Because the woman then runs the risk of mating with a bitch and having little bitch children that her bitch mate won't help her protect.
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
This. Fuk is wrong with you OP? The hunt is part of the fun. You never went fishin? You just want those sumbitches to just jump on the boat right into your cooler?
this has been a real eye opener
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Because the woman then runs the risk of mating with a bitch and having little bitch children that her bitch mate won't help her protect.
this. woman have to be choosey. why get with a beta miscer who won't work, complains, and can't stand up for himself/family
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Originally Posted By Jimmehhh⏩
only on 1 occasion has a female i didn't know offer to buy me a drink and that was an obese land whale who was at least 15 years older than me.

if an attractive woman whom i do not know offers to buy be a drink, alarm bells are going off in my mind and i'm weighing up the pros and cons of sex vs waking up in a bath of ice 1 kidney short.
I had some liquid courage and thought I’d try something different for once. No sex involved. Talked for two hours and exchanged numbers. He was on a business trip and not even American. We didn’t even start dating until a few months later bc different countries.
They said she's gone too far this time

¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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