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post 1612528021 08-04-2020, 01:50 AM
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You don't have to make the first move. However, other men will.
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Because men want sex more than women want sex. (In general)

Because if a woman made a habit of approaching, people would think she was easy.

Because you might be a psycho and go off at her if she went up to you. Women have more to fear from strange men than men have to fear from strange women.

Because you just aren't good looking enough to risk public humiliation of a rejection.

Because another guy with bigger balls will eventually approach.

Take your pick.
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post 1612529391 08-04-2020, 02:22 AM
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Because you're the man, that's how it works, generally speaking. You're not supposed to be the submissive one being chased.
post 1612530031 08-04-2020, 02:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
Oh yes I agree with that list. But tom cruise in top gun is the ultimate chad





Not my best oic but most natural

I'm always clean shaven and yes I do need a haircut.

And that mug shot , he married a rich heiress and her daddy isn't happy about it.

Just gonna LDAR
Looking good with the shorter haircut. Glasses look fine too.
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post 1612530481 08-04-2020, 02:53 AM
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
You're doing all that and you're still built like the sex that you're hoping will approach you

id like to think my shoulders are broader than a broad's
post 1612530811 08-04-2020, 03:05 AM
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Because women are natural gatekeepers and men are the ones who break down our defenses (by winning us over, not by clubbing us over head and dragging us back to cave)

It's just the natural order of things.

I presume you've heard the lock and key analogy before. How valuable would you consider any padlock that chased keys around saying "pick me, I'm open!"
post 1612530871 08-04-2020, 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Caldef⏩
Because women are natural gatekeepers and men are the ones who break down our defenses (by winning us over, not by clubbing us over head and dragging us back to cave)

It's just the natural order of things.

I presume you've heard the lock and key analogy before. How valuable would you consider any padlock that chased keys around saying "pick me, I'm open!"
why do you have defenses in the first place if you are attracted by a guy at first sight purely due to his looks.

these mind games make me annoyed . why cant it be as easy as getting a beer with the boys.

why is sex not guaranteed even after the first date where the girl is interested too . why all the tests?
post 1612531041 08-04-2020, 03:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
why do you have defenses in the first place if you are attracted by a guy at first sight purely due to his looks.

these mind games make me annoyed . why cant it be as easy as getting a beer with the boys.

why is sex not guaranteed even after the first date where the girl is interested too . why all the tests?
Complains that when women are easy and have high body counts... then complains when women are not easy and giving it up on the first date.

Are you sure it isn't men who don't know what they want? lmao
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post 1612531151 08-04-2020, 03:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
I'm the one who lifts
I'm the one who does my meal prep
I'm the one doing my cardio
I'm the one making sure I looksmax

And yet I have to go up to her and try to "win her" over.
Chick:- So tell me about yourself
OP: - Well i go to the gym.
Chick: - Huh, that's nice.
OP: - I also prep my food.
Chick: - I see.
OP: - ...
Chick: - ...
OP: - I know bbygirl, God's gift, right?
Chick: "read: 21:15"



"Misc, why are sloots so difficult?"
post 1612531171 08-04-2020, 03:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Legit loled



Female attraction may start at first glance, but you fuk up at any stage from initial flirt to sealing the deal and just LOL at you

That includes not having the confidence to approach

No man is that good looking

Whaddayawant us to sit at the bar and go “hey baby, come sit on my knee, lemme buy you a drink. Why you’re a gorgeous little hunk of man aintcha, aintcha snookums”
you are woman? :O

you must look like this
post 1612531201 08-04-2020, 03:20 AM
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Originally Posted By BraneyGumble⏩
Chick:- So tell me about yourself
OP: - Well i go to the gym.
Chick: - Huh, that's nice.
OP: - I also prep my food.
Chick: - I see.
OP: - ...
Chick: - ...
OP: - I know bbygirl, God's gift, right?
Chick: "read: 21:15"



"Misc, why are sloots so difficult?"
lmao poverty reps coming your way.

you are right tho need to get a job ASAP
post 1612531271 08-04-2020, 03:23 AM
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Just go to the bars OP, drunken sloots can be total creeps sometimes
post 1612531321 08-04-2020, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted By SgtBlackburn⏩
Just go to the bars OP, drunken sloots can be total creeps sometimes
only the fattys
post 1612531371 08-04-2020, 03:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
only the fattys
Maybe she will help you out and share her bulking secrets with you?
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post 1612531521 08-04-2020, 03:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
why do you have defenses in the first place if you are attracted by a guy at first sight purely due to his looks.

these mind games make me annoyed . why cant it be as easy as getting a beer with the boys.

why is sex not guaranteed even after the first date where the girl is interested too . why all the tests?
Sex isn't guaranteed immediately because that would be a fking dumb way for the natural order of things to work. Who wants to risk getting knocked up by someone they found attractive at first sight but turns out to be a complete dick? I know casual sex is pretty common now, but it still makes sense why biologically speaking things aren't really designed that way.
post 1612531891 08-04-2020, 03:44 AM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Sex isn't guaranteed immediately because that would be a fking dumb way for the natural order of things to work. Who wants to risk getting knocked up by someone they found attractive at first sight but turns out to be a complete dick? I know casual sex is pretty common now, but it still makes sense why biologically speaking things aren't really designed that way.
but i learnt over here that women are emotional creatures that can be swayed away with their feelings.A chad wields the power to throw women off their brain receptors and gyrate their estrogen to lower their inhibition, there by lading to a lay on sight
post 1612531981 08-04-2020, 03:48 AM
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Originally Posted By brosapiens⏩
OP looks like Slenderman

bf% goals right there
Originally Posted By Slurgie⏩
This thread is a good reference

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=178351971
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Originally Posted By ChelshireCat⏩
Because men want sex more than women want sex. (In general)

Because if a woman made a habit of approaching, people would think she was easy.

Because you might be a psycho and go off at her if she went up to you. Women have more to fear from strange men than men have to fear from strange women.

Because you just aren't good looking enough to risk public humiliation of a rejection.

Because another guy with bigger balls will eventually approach.

Take your pick.
its not me not having balls, its about transcending beyond those games due to aesthetics
Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Because you're the man, that's how it works, generally speaking. You're not supposed to be the submissive one being chased.
its very flattering tho
post 1612532271 08-04-2020, 04:01 AM
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Making the first move is a gift. It's way worse to have to be approached.
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
I'm anything but slack jawed, mister



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post 1612532951 08-04-2020, 04:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Schism45⏩
Making the first move is a gift. It's way worse to have to be approached.
Very true, women take rejection much worse than men. Oh you must be gay because you don't go for me. And then bitch gets dudes involved on hating you. All because you don't go for her. Didn't do anything wrong to her, just ignored her. I do care what a girl looks like, but I also gotta be able to get along with her. I have enough experience to recognize it's just not going to work out and I am only going to have problems abd I don't want problems. And yep, still get problems anyway.
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post 1612534551 08-04-2020, 05:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Very true, women take rejection much worse than men. Oh you must be gay because you don't go for me. And then bitch gets dudes involved on hating you. All because you don't go for her. Didn't do anything wrong to her, just ignored her. I do care what a girl looks like, but I also gotta be able to get along with her. I have enough experience to recognize it's just not going to work out and I am only going to have problems abd I don't want problems. And yep, still get problems anyway.
Generalizing women is your first mistake and that's why you are still here just talking about it instead of doing them.

Every woman is different. So the approach to each one of them should be.

Unless you realize that you will be forever just talking aboutwomento your grave.

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Because women literally don't have the balls, nor would most heterosexual men want women with balls.
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Originally Posted By Toker095⏩
How long until the sloots approach me?
If a sloot were to approach I can pretty much guarantee that you'd be running to the cops with your cock stuffed up your butt screaming metoo. A female can't even wear a sports bra to the gym without miscers screaming that she practically raped them.
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Because women literally don't have the balls
oops. Sooo ... what about dem females who might allegedly have an 80lb ball or two? Asking fer a fren.
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If a woman approaches me my first impression of her is a hoe srs.. How many other guys does she approach? sloots gonna sloot
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post 1612536851 08-04-2020, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
Generalizing women is your first mistake and that's why you are still here just talking about it instead of doing them.

Every woman is different. So the approach to each one of them should be.

Unless you realize that you will be forever just talking aboutwomento your grave.

Have a sweet dream.

I am going to leave this alone.
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Women hit me up all the time. I haven't made a first move in months. Just do fun chit and put it out there and women will hit to you up to 'hang out' which turns into sex after 1 to 3 dates. Just had a hottie with massive jugs drive 90 minutes to see me Sunday.
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