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post 1612646931 08-05-2020, 08:44 AM
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I regretted my serious relationships when I was younger. I should have just enjoyed more pussy. (not that I can get a lot back then when I was young and a dork)

I had some good times with 2 of my serious gfs but I felt like I wasted many years looking back.
post 1612647321 08-05-2020, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
disagree with this.

people and women especially (no offence) can be incredibly deceptive and keep a false image up for a lot longer than a year if it means getting a ring on their finger

my personal limit would be 3 years. thats much harder to fraud

if she's still sane and likeable after 3 years, and the sex is the same, then sure.

and i truly believe the sex should be the same, before anyone says it gets less after the honeymoon period. If you're living together (another precursor to marriage) you should still be fukking every day. if not one of you is doing something wrong
Sex every day lol? Even if we could find the time and energy, I wouldn't even want to, it would be too much. Putting an exact number on it is dumb, as long as you are both content with the amount of sex, there shouldn't be an issue. Of course the problem is a lot of couples disagree on what a normal amount is or one party changes thier idea over time.
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post 1612647391 08-05-2020, 08:49 AM
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Opie you sound miserable and depressed
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post 1612650721 08-05-2020, 09:31 AM
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why are miscers, who can't even get dates, giving relationship advice
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post 1612650981 08-05-2020, 09:35 AM
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Maybe they just want to be more settled financially before paying for a wedding?
post 1612652181 08-05-2020, 09:54 AM
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Just lol if you put a ring on it before living together for at least 3 years.

You dont see home someone truly lives until you get ~2 years into living with each other.

A lot of times its like a new honeymoon phase, people try their best for a while, then fall back to old habits.

Also havr to see how yhey manage bills, sharing, etc.
post 1612652481 08-05-2020, 09:59 AM
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You have to date for atleast 3 years


It’s shown that after 2 years people tend to change in relationships and is a good indicator if you’ll grow together or apart.
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post 1612670701 08-05-2020, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Why not? In your financial situation you would probably be the one awarded alimony.
I could have pursued alimony against my first wife as she doubled her income 6 mos before asking for a divorce but I didn't.

Living together without marriage is a more honest relationship.
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post 1612671281 08-05-2020, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted By plsmire⏩
Actually fully agree with this, and maybe it's different for everyone but I think the lack of commitment for not good reason is a red flag on behalf of either parties depending on who want / dont-want to commit.

I have a couple of friends that started dating their GF but right from the start they weren't that into them. Every year it always crossed their mind that they're going to breakup but one thing happens after another. Maybe the girl guilt trips them, they don't want to break the girl's heart, pregnancy, too many common friends, part of the family, get comfortable, guy gets fat and can't get other girls anyway (same for reverse) - basically, each year keeps passing by and they're together and staying together for all the wrong reasons, and because they know its for the wrong reasons, they can't fully commit.

Friend met his girl at 24, broke up with her at 29. Now she's just bitter, took that peak.

And for those saying you don't need a piece of paper to commit, true. But let's say it would make your partner happy, then by the same token, why would a piece of paper hurt? I think that's just a get out excuse, truth is you don't want to be tied down which is what the piece of paper does, and being that tied down is part of the commitment, it's not really much of a commitment if it's that easy to get out of.

Another unpopular opinion I have is I don't believe in pre-nups. If you suspect that you and your wife who both vowed to be together "till death do us part" may someday get divorced, then that vow and promise is pretty empty to begin with. Either be sure or don't go through it at all. If you're not sure, if you have a hint of doubt, don't do it.
Because most women change the day they get married.

They no longer feel like they have to try or impress you anymore


If you stay unmarried they know they have to hold up their end of the bargain.
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post 1612671361 08-05-2020, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ooo burn lmao
It's not a burn she's a MD in medical administration.

She makes a lot of money.
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post 1612671541 08-05-2020, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Agreed with first part but not the prenup. If you both don’t have much then no prenup is fine. But if one partner has significant assets and the other doesn’t, then you need a prenup. Otherwise the poorer partner can cheat and leave with half of the richer partners assets. That is really not fair.
Not how it works.

What you had before marriage is still yours.

You only split what you acquire during marriage.
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post 1612672441 08-05-2020, 01:45 PM
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3 years is enough time to get passed the honeymoon phase and see if you can actually tolerate each other. Thats when the challenge begins. Rushing into it is a bad idea. I dont care about your family member or friend that got married a month after dating and are still together. People have been shot in the head and survived. Doesn't mean you can.

I dont see anything wrong with people dating and not getting married. If they are happy with each other then its none of your business. If things dont work out they can go their own way without a messy divorce and fighting over assets.

Thats the issue with people these days, they think everyone should be living how they think people should.
post 1612672661 08-05-2020, 01:48 PM
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I know plenty of couples like the ones described in the OP .Its hard to pull the trigger nowadays when you have 10 Chads or Stacies in your DMs. Its always exciting when you meet a totally new person with a totally different personality...


Thats why there are so many monkeybranches nowadays too. Nobody wants to be single but nobody wants to get married either, unless 100% sure. Back in the day by the 5th date the dude would make up his mind lol
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post 1612672681 08-05-2020, 01:48 PM
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Yea that much time is a tremendous waste. From what I see most couples stop having non duty sex no more than 2 years into it
post 1612673231 08-05-2020, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted By GiveMeTheD⏩
ITT people in their 20s explaining how love and relationships work for everyone
Compared to the 50+ year old single miscers & married femiscers that are on here obviously cheating? What a joke lol

Most of us are in our 30's here now
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Dude... lmao
I don't sugar coat the truth, occupational hazard.


The best chance you have at keeping a young woman is hulking smashing her cuck-making-pills & keeping her full of your seed during ovulation periods

Baby = family environment = bond

You make or break the relationship in the first year always
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post 1612673321 08-05-2020, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
-you can be on your spouses health insurance through say their union
-how you buy a home is different /qualify
-how your estate and life insurance is handled is different
-some states it gives a father more rights to his children
-some states require a legal separation agreement. Where you can’t date anyone for a year and if you do, you can lose your kids in the divorce and get fuked financially
Why do you preach on these subjects when you're a step mother of 3? Femiscers, when will they learn?

BRB divorced let me tell you how to run you marriage.

etc etc
post 1612673911 08-05-2020, 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
Why do you preach on these subjects when you're a step mother of 3? Femiscers, when will they learn?

BRB divorced let me tell you how to run you marriage.

etc etc
Snails is a tier 1 Timothy slooting on the misc?


Spoiler!
Not even remotely surprised actually
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post 1612674791 08-05-2020, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
Snails is a tier 1 Timothy slooting on the misc?


Spoiler!
Not even remotely surprised actually
Every one of them is virtue signaling
post 1612675351 08-05-2020, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
Every one of them is virtue signaling
In 1972 we passed the biggest legal mistake in history


When are contemporary femalesnotvirtue signaling for attention
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post 1612676351 08-05-2020, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
it pops in and out, you could take it out yourself, kinda hurts when it gets taken out and they put the new one in, but it’s not bad. It’s not like a chip in your skin it’s like copper shoved up your vag. It’s the oldest form of female birth control from the 1800’s
you bf has a small dik if he cant feel that. and dont say it's the cervix.
post 1612676881 08-05-2020, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
In 1972 we passed the biggest legal mistake in history


When are contemporary femalesnotvirtue signaling for attention
Take their comments with a Full shaker of Salt
post 1612695671 08-05-2020, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Because most women change the day they get married.

They no longer feel like they have to try or impress you anymore


If you stay unmarried they know they have to hold up their end of the bargain.
Not really, you're just marrying the wrong person if you think she'll change because she has a ring on her finger. You should know your woman well enough to know if she will have your back always, and same thing applies to guys. It's a similar argument to:

"people get fat once they're in relationships", "you argue more when you live together", "you fall out of love after the honeymoon phase and start getting annoyed more with each other". Not really, the people who do that are just the people who do that, some don't. Your job is to figure out who she is.

Never understood divorce. Literally, all my uncles, parents, grandparents, 0 divorces and I have 10+ uncles/aunties. Same with my cousins. It's just culture.
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Been with my girl for many years. She is in engineering and failed a couple courses then took a short break to work in IT to find it sucked. No ring until she graduates srs.

She gets that so it keeps her incentivized to finish. I’ll just keep stacking paper till then with my side hustle.
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I agree! What a waste of time dating someone that long. Totally reeks of not being able to find someone better. If you’re guy not sure about the whole marriage/babies thing I would say you haven’t met the right woman yet and in the back of your mind you’re asking yourself if she’s good enough. Which most women aren’t. Can I get a hell yeah brothers?
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