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10-26-2020, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By SniXSniPe⏩
that is what i would do if trying if i was going to try to fuk her.Why not just ask her:
"what's up?" when she tries contacting you? Don't start a conversation. Keep it short and simple. If she starts trying to talk to you or make excuses, or whatever, laugh and ignore her.
When she tries talking to you, simply cut her short saying you're real busy. Ask her if she'll be in your city or not anytime coming up. If she says no, ignore her. If she says yes, leave it to her to tell you when and see if she does. Expect her to flake or come up with some BS excuse and proceed to continue your life as if she isn't coming.
If she actually does come through, smash.
win/win
you don't provide her more than a minute's worth of your time
you don't actively engage in conversating about bull**** with her
you don't provide her emotional support or orbiting
etc.
"what's up?" when she tries contacting you? Don't start a conversation. Keep it short and simple. If she starts trying to talk to you or make excuses, or whatever, laugh and ignore her.
When she tries talking to you, simply cut her short saying you're real busy. Ask her if she'll be in your city or not anytime coming up. If she says no, ignore her. If she says yes, leave it to her to tell you when and see if she does. Expect her to flake or come up with some BS excuse and proceed to continue your life as if she isn't coming.
If she actually does come through, smash.
win/win
you don't provide her more than a minute's worth of your time
you don't actively engage in conversating about bull**** with her
you don't provide her emotional support or orbiting
etc.
if you make too much effort, show too much interest, try to make the plans all that, she would get the validation and ego boost she wanted and 90% chance not follow through and just ghost again.
If you respond only enough to leave the door open for her to take the initiative and make the plans, chase you ect and you nonchalantly accept, she has to come to you and fuk to get the same validation. It still may not work but it gives the best chance it works. Yeah its a stupid game but that is how those sloots are. That is why you dont get serious with them because they are a mess.
10-26-2020, 10:24 AM
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Don't do it boyo. You moved on for a reason and she's surely just a dumb whore that will bring unwanted drama/BS to your new life. SRS
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10-28-2020, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted By SniXSniPe⏩
Well i can ask her that and she can end up saying dumb chit like she misses me and is only looking for an ego boost and doesn't want to smash. That would just upset me. I've moved back to my hometown temporarily so we're in the same town and i could invite her to smash if it comes to it or i could go to hers.Why not just ask her:
"what's up?" when she tries contacting you? Don't start a conversation. Keep it short and simple. If she starts trying to talk to you or make excuses, or whatever, laugh and ignore her.
When she tries talking to you, simply cut her short saying you're real busy. Ask her if she'll be in your city or not anytime coming up. If she says no, ignore her. If she says yes, leave it to her to tell you when and see if she does. Expect her to flake or come up with some BS excuse and proceed to continue your life as if she isn't coming.
If she actually does come through, smash.
win/win
you don't provide her more than a minute's worth of your time
you don't actively engage in conversating about bull**** with her
you don't provide her emotional support or orbiting
etc.
"what's up?" when she tries contacting you? Don't start a conversation. Keep it short and simple. If she starts trying to talk to you or make excuses, or whatever, laugh and ignore her.
When she tries talking to you, simply cut her short saying you're real busy. Ask her if she'll be in your city or not anytime coming up. If she says no, ignore her. If she says yes, leave it to her to tell you when and see if she does. Expect her to flake or come up with some BS excuse and proceed to continue your life as if she isn't coming.
If she actually does come through, smash.
win/win
you don't provide her more than a minute's worth of your time
you don't actively engage in conversating about bull**** with her
you don't provide her emotional support or orbiting
etc.
Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
How did you get her to come round and smash? I'm interested in knowing your tips.let me give you some first hand advice. i was in the exact same situation as you earlier this year
i wanted to smash a girl YEARS back. we went out a few times, i thought it was going really good, she even slept over at mine but she wouldn't put out. then she starts fading me out and eventually ghosts me
we moved on with our lives, she then came back messaging me and sh*t. she had a bf i had a gf. i didn't entertain her
i had written her off as a potential smash, i thought it'd never happen and i wasn't gonna chase her. i smashed her earlier this year after she was basically begging for it. she's now a pseudo fwb but she wants more, im not giving it.
that's the most satisfying part. smashing her is fun - it feels complete in your mind now it's out the way
but the most satisfaction comes from not giving them what they want - a relationship.
i say go ahead and do it. but then be the guy she wants to lock down but cant
make a plan before you get in to not catch feelings for her.
i wanted to smash a girl YEARS back. we went out a few times, i thought it was going really good, she even slept over at mine but she wouldn't put out. then she starts fading me out and eventually ghosts me
we moved on with our lives, she then came back messaging me and sh*t. she had a bf i had a gf. i didn't entertain her
i had written her off as a potential smash, i thought it'd never happen and i wasn't gonna chase her. i smashed her earlier this year after she was basically begging for it. she's now a pseudo fwb but she wants more, im not giving it.
that's the most satisfying part. smashing her is fun - it feels complete in your mind now it's out the way
but the most satisfaction comes from not giving them what they want - a relationship.
i say go ahead and do it. but then be the guy she wants to lock down but cant
make a plan before you get in to not catch feelings for her.
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10-28-2020, 03:55 PM
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Men and women cannot be friends. They can be friendly but thats about it.
Your bull**** about could have smashed etc etc doesnt make him a jealous prick. It made him right.
You should hook up with her so she an do the same to you since you know for a fact that she has boundary issues.
Your bull**** about could have smashed etc etc doesnt make him a jealous prick. It made him right.
You should hook up with her so she an do the same to you since you know for a fact that she has boundary issues.
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10-28-2020, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By memcop⏩
I don't understand the bolded bit. He's been jealous of me and not just because of this girl when she was going out with him. I only noticed it when he'd refuse to invite me to nights out, attend my parties and also refuse to help me out with tasks after we'd agreed on them. She'd openly hit on me even when cuddling up to my buddy and i'd always reject her.Men and women cannot be friends. They can be friendly but thats about it.
Your bull**** about could have smashed etc etc doesnt make him a jealous prick. It made him right.
You should hook up with her so she an do the same to you since you know for a fact that she has boundary issues.
Your bull**** about could have smashed etc etc doesnt make him a jealous prick. It made him right.
You should hook up with her so she an do the same to you since you know for a fact that she has boundary issues.
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