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post 1625300093 12-12-2020, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Waiting to confirm if wife lost the baby

Looking like miscarriage

I guess I got more time to finish the baby room reno now


No sympathy reps please, this is a sad day.
Very sorry to hear that, brah. Stay strong and be there for your wife.

Never told anyone this, but wife had a miscarriage a year ago. Was trying for our third. Was right at the end of the 1st trimester. We were about a week away from telling our families the good news. Took the wife in for a routine check up. Went to change my youngest son’s diaper, and when I came back, wife was sitting there alone crying. I can still remember that vulnerable and devastated look on her face. Still get teary thinking about it. She told me Dr found no heartbeat. I didn’t want to believe and thought machine must have malfunctioned.

The only person that knew was her mom who we told the week before. Had to give her the bad news. No one else in our families know. The topic never came up and I didn’t know how to bring it up. Was hard telling our 6yr old. He was excited to have another little brother/sister. I think it was tough for him too. He acted up in school for a bit after that.

We decided not to try again. Every now and then, can’t help but wonder what could have been and what kind of person that child would have grown up to be. But we’re very thankful for our 2 boys and we focus on them as much as possible. Proud of the wife for her strength. We grieved privately. Sorry for the long post, but wanted to share for the first time.
post 1625300553 12-12-2020, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Truth

I am pretty even keeled, but I am really sad because it made her so happy. I was excited, but she was stoked and trying so hard. Eating perfect, vitamins...everything she could research.

Fuark, hope the doc is wrong
Looks like it will be a very dark festive season ahead for you. The only thing that the aleeboy knows deep down is you are a very solid man who has a strong relationship with his missus. I have no doubt you will bounce back stronger and you will have another chance when the timing is right.

Cheers
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post 1625315503 12-12-2020, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By aleeboy⏩
Looks like it will be a very dark festive season ahead for you. The only thing that the aleeboy knows deep down is you are a very solid man who has a strong relationship with his missus. I have no doubt you will bounce back stronger and you will have another chance when the timing is right.

Cheers
Wife doesn't even wanna do Christmas.

She will come around.

Thnx for the kind words
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post 1625316073 12-12-2020, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted By BroncManiac⏩
Very sorry to hear that, brah. Stay strong and be there for your wife.

Never told anyone this, but wife had a miscarriage a year ago. Was trying for our third. Was right at the end of the 1st trimester. We were about a week away from telling our families the good news. Took the wife in for a routine check up. Went to change my youngest son’s diaper, and when I came back, wife was sitting there alone crying. I can still remember that vulnerable and devastated look on her face. Still get teary thinking about it. She told me Dr found no heartbeat. I didn’t want to believe and thought machine must have malfunctioned.

The only person that knew was her mom who we told the week before. Had to give her the bad news. No one else in our families know. The topic never came up and I didn’t know how to bring it up. Was hard telling our 6yr old. He was excited to have another little brother/sister. I think it was tough for him too. He acted up in school for a bit after that.

We decided not to try again. Every now and then, can’t help but wonder what could have been and what kind of person that child would have grown up to be. But we’re very thankful for our 2 boys and we focus on them as much as possible. Proud of the wife for her strength. We grieved privately. Sorry for the long post, but wanted to share for the first time.
Damn. Sorry brah.

We were gonna tell people at Christmas.


She was visiting her dad yesterday, and they both decided to go get flu shots together. Her dad was filling out the questionnaire and it asked if she was pregnant. She said yes and her dad was so happy. Woulda been his first grandkid.


Fifteen mins later the doctor called and told her the bad news.


Merry fkin Christmas
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post 1625316923 12-12-2020, 12:56 PM
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I’m sorry brodie; do your best to keep your wife up like you mentioned, and take care of yourself too. God bless. (ded fkn Srs)
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post 1625316963 12-12-2020, 12:57 PM
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So sorry for you both, you'll be in my prayers.
post 1625317303 12-12-2020, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Personally, I wasn't as bummed as others. I was more sad for my wife than myself. Mainly because it was so early and my mind hadn't wrapped around the whole parenting concept yet. My wife still thinks about it sometimes, though we do have a son now.
Interesting that you weren't affected by it that much. I thought this was the kind of thing that would sneak up on you unexpectedly. Goes to show how different we all are. Thankfully your son came through healthily. Another miscer in this thread said he was glad to have the kids he did after the miscarriage, so in a sense it all worked out.
post 1625317483 12-12-2020, 01:04 PM
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so sorry to hear news like this from a fellow miscer. stay strong m8. God bless you guys.
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