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post 1630253793 02-01-2021, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
It is a stage of grief called the bargaining stage. It is in between denial of the loss and acceptance of the loss. In that intermediary stage you try to bargain to cope with the loss.You tell yourself that you lost the romantic relationship but that not all is lost because you can still be friends.

As you move forward in the grieving process you can move past the bargaining stage on to full acceptance of the loss.
What do you think of the concept that if you can be friends with your ex then you still love them, or you never did?

So far haven't been friends with an ex, or even wanted to.
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post 1630254123 02-01-2021, 08:53 AM
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Told her that her mom's pusci and dik suckin was better...and I wasn't lying.
post 1630254623 02-01-2021, 09:00 AM
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When I’m really angry I tend to just go silent and step away for a bit to calm myself so the worst things were probably just telling her fck you or calling her a btch.
post 1630255773 02-01-2021, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422
What do you think of the concept that if you can be friends with your ex then you still love them, or you never did?

So far haven't been friends with an ex, or even wanted to.
It's called self respect more than anything. Yes you can always still love them from afar, but have zero desire to be their friend while they're off dating and sleeping with somebody new slowly building a new bond with somebody else which eliminates the need for your friendship now anyways. Most exes just want to hang on to the friendship just long enough until they've found somebody new that they're totally into. Then neither side communicates ever again, or rarely at most. Basically you should just go ahead and push it to the finish line of what it's ultimately going to be vs deluding yourself and grieving that there's some way you'll always be in each other's life.
post 1630256243 02-01-2021, 09:24 AM
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post 1630256263 02-01-2021, 09:25 AM
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Called her a dumpster rat, spat in her face, told her the only thing she was good for was suckin dik, said her whole family were a bunch of tramps and if I ever seen her again I'd slit her throat.

Banged her again 6 months later
post 1630256373 02-01-2021, 09:26 AM
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Too many bad things, feels bad mane
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post 1630258193 02-01-2021, 09:50 AM
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You irritate your parents.
Your brother can't stand you.
My parents never liked you.
You can't make friends because everybody sees how you behave.
The only friends you have, are losers and cat lady's.
You were verbally and mentally abusive to our children and they will never forget that, even if they can learn to forgive it.
Our children don't want to be anything like you and you know it.

Its because every year you are 10% worse than the year before.
It seems you will continue on this destructive path for the rest of your life and you don't care.
post 1630258653 02-01-2021, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By CellyTech
Called her a dumpster rat, spat in her face, told her the only thing she was good for was suckin dik, said her whole family were a bunch of tramps and if I ever seen her again I'd slit her throat.

Banged her again 6 months later
Hard to top this srs

Aren’t toxic relationships the best though??

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Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
post 1630258823 02-01-2021, 10:00 AM
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Not an ex but a girl I matched with on Tinder. Told her I was abused as a child and slang drugs when I as 10 years old. I also mentioned some other past criminal records along with my time in the pen. She said good night and never texted me after that.
post 1630260313 02-01-2021, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
Don't even wanna type it

Worse than anything that will be posted in this thread by far

Fukk
do it
post 1630348333 02-02-2021, 10:38 AM
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Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
post 1630349053 02-02-2021, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
Don't even wanna type it

Worse than anything that will be posted in this thread by far

Fukk
Stop promoting and get on with it you teasing coneheaded bastard
post 1630349203 02-02-2021, 10:49 AM
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post 1630349573 02-02-2021, 10:54 AM
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Pretty sure I said something about her popping pills for her depression at some point.

I was also a real POS when I broke up with her to really drive home the point that it was really over and I did not and would not ever want to be with her. I did this to make sure she wouldn't hang onto some thread of hope that maybe someday we'd get back together and so she could move on with her life.

Still kinda feel bad about it even though I was young and stupid.
post 1630349793 02-02-2021, 10:57 AM
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Worst thing I ever said to my ex?

"I do"
post 1630387593 02-02-2021, 06:17 PM
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