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Thread: Do relationships involving Threesomes Ever Work?

post 1659917783 04-19-2022, 01:12 PM
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Your girlfriend is a keeper and loves you.

Don't do it, put yourself in her shoes, she'll give you everything, why isn't she alone not good enough? (that's what she will be thinking)

99% of women aren't down for this. Some might pretend to be, but they're not.

Where's MantissTobaggan? that bro was able to navigate these waters, but his girl was REALLY into chicks and he didn't give a chit.
post 1659918063 04-19-2022, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted By John
In after that edit. Sound like OP may have goofed and already let her know that he wants a threesome. RIP in peace relationship.

But seriously, OP do not do it and try to not bring this up ever again.
'You're a raging fookin homo if she doesn't already expect you'd want a threesome.

Am in the same boat. Current gf says it could be hot, but after she thought about it a while, she said she thinks she'd get jealous if I bang the rando. So am a little torn here. Think I'd be down to bang my gf while a girl licks her butt, but at the same time, like some of the ****g0ts have said, maybe we should just ensure we don't ruin something that's already good.
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post 1659918683 04-19-2022, 01:29 PM
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wait til she wants to add a guy to the threesome
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post 1659918843 04-19-2022, 01:32 PM
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if doing three some i would have my current gf suck my balls while i fuk the side piece. then have her suk my dick as it comes out of the side piece, and lick her jooces off.

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post 1659918913 04-19-2022, 01:34 PM
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If you go that route, be prepared for the possibility of future her using it as ammunition to pursue a threesome with a second dude or to engage in other extracurricular activities. She might not feel that way right now, but a lot can happen over the years and she'll always have it in her back pocket


Not a reason not to do it, just be prepared for it to go both ways and don't do it unless you can also let go of the jealousy/possessiveness
post 1659920333 04-19-2022, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
99% of women aren't down for this. Some might pretend to be, but they're not.
I wouldn't say 99% but a good amount. 99% are definitely down with Devils 3s though
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post 1659921583 04-19-2022, 02:27 PM
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good lord yall must all date some boring ass weak minded women

if your girl cant be cool after she said she was open to the idea and you follow through and she cant understand it was just an experience for fun, then you got a bunk chick i wouldnt stay with. Shes got some insecurity issues and sexual repression and it aint going to be a fun sex life ahead.
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post 1659922283 04-19-2022, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
My gf is the type to overly try & please me, and my threesome seeds have finally begun to grow. We went to a local bar last friday, and some college chick was boldly hitting on me with my gf right next to me.

Me being drunk, I was being overly friendly (in my gfs opinion).


Long story short, she wants to give this a try for my sake, because she knows I still want to bang other girls.

If I value this relationship should I let this happen?

She is just my type, cooks, cleans, works out, no social media. Although I still wish I get with other women, I would rather keep what I have
You should secretly do that with hookers.

I have read a variety of psych studies about deviant sex and threesomes have a HIGH rate of killing relationships.

Relationships with normal people are "family" type of relationships. We want a wife that treats us like our mom and girls want a dad type of relationship.

Proof of that are girls with "daddy issues" who always want scumbags and abusers, like dad. So, normal people want their spouse to be loving and exclusive like their opposite sex parent.

So, a threesome is poison because your partner will see you getting pleasure from another woman. If another man is there you will see your gf sucking some other guy's dick and getting wet. That sticks in everyone's mind and PROVES your relationship is not exclusive.

That's like something Borderlines would subject themselves to.

Do you think you have any kind of personality disorder or abandonment issues?

Are your parents married?

Whatever the case, keep the gf out of it and get hookers you can do that with then never see again.
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post 1659924023 04-19-2022, 03:08 PM
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post 1659935403 04-19-2022, 06:45 PM
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People are so quick to say "dont do it" but only you know your girl. If she has BI tendencies or anything like that I say go for it just make sure you don't focus too much on the other girl and do your best to make sure your girl is pleasured by the other chick.. in my personal experience if the chemistry is good between all of yall there wont be any issues
post 1659935583 04-19-2022, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
My gf is the type to overly try & please me, and my threesome seeds have finally begun to grow. We went to a local bar last friday, and some college chick was boldly hitting on me with my gf right next to me.

Me being drunk, I was being overly friendly (in my gfs opinion).


Long story short, she wants to give this a try for my sake, because she knows I still want to bang other girls.

If I value this relationship should I let this happen?

She is just my type, cooks, cleans, works out, no social media. Although I still wish I get with other women, I would rather keep what I have
Not sure about a relationship, but some girls get off HARD to being dped or spitroasted - can you just imagine being a sexy girl and being desired by 2 or three studs at the same time? soooo hot to think about.
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post 1659935683 04-19-2022, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By RvaBadBoy⏩
People are so quick to say "dont do it" but only you know your girl. If she has BI tendencies or anything like that I say go for it just make sure you don't focus too much on the other girl and do your best to make sure your girl is pleasured by the other chick.. in my personal experience if the chemistry is good between all of yall there wont be any issues
none of these people crying "dont do it" have actually ever had a threesome
Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Not sure about a relationship, but some girls get off HARD to being dped or spitroasted - can you just imagine being a sexy girl and being desired by 2 or three studs at the same time? soooo hot to think about.
most girls fantasize about it but most wont admit it because they know most guys will see them as garbage forever if they admit it. One of those tings most women know is best left unsaid but they all want it.

but yeah definitely wouldnt do that one in a relationship
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post 1659936143 04-19-2022, 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
none of these people crying "dont do it" have actually ever had a threesome



most girls fantasize about it but most wont admit it because they know most guys will see them as garbage forever if they admit it. One of those tings most women know is best left unsaid but they all want it.

but yeah definitely wouldnt do that one in a relationship
Please go through and count the number of people who responded and said "no"..
post 1659936433 04-19-2022, 07:07 PM
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Originally Posted By RvaBadBoy⏩
Please go through and count the number of people who responded and said "no"..
I stopped after the first 3 responses all said no

you want to be red or something?

is misc on retard mode tonight with these arguments ?
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post 1659936573 04-19-2022, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
I stopped after the first 3 responses all said no

you want to be red or something?

is misc on retard mode tonight with these arguments ?
LMAO I don't give a **** about being red if you think my response was that wrong then neg me all your heart desires.. i still stand by what I said
post 1659936683 04-19-2022, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted By RvaBadBoy⏩
LMAO I don't give a **** about being red if you think my response was that wrong then neg me all your heart desires.. i still stand by what I said
then go read the first three responses to this thread and work your way down and count yourself and see how stupid of a comment it was
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post 1659937023 04-19-2022, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
I stopped after the first 3 responses all said no

you want to be red or something?

is misc on retard mode tonight with these arguments ?
Actually I just re read your response my bad bro.. time for me to put the bong down apparently feel free to neg me that's what i get for not paying attention lmao
post 1659937133 04-19-2022, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By RvaBadBoy⏩
Actually I just re read your response my bad bro.. time for me to put the bong down apparently feel free to neg me that's what i get for not paying attention lmao
nah not going to neg you

keep smokin bruv
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post 1659937223 04-19-2022, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
nah not going to neg you

keep smokin bruv
Next hit is for you!
post 1659947543 04-19-2022, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
This. I've had threesomes in 3 or 4 relationships, in one we added a second gf in to the mix. As you'd expect it poisoned every relationship to varying extents, and as you'd expect the second gf scenario built a lot of resentment and got messy

No threesomes with gfs anymore crew
This sounds like a typical outcome.
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Originally Posted By RvaBadBoy⏩
Next hit is for you!
LOL @jestbrah america certainly has some weird ass cops
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Bad idea. Sure, itโ€™d be fun at first but those relationships never work out in the long run. Youโ€™ll be sacrificing the future for some fleeting gratification. If you didnโ€™t say she had all those great qualities itโ€™d be different but sounds like youโ€™ve gotten very lucky. Not many girls left in this day and age that meet that description.
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
99% of women aren't down for this. Some might pretend to be, but they're not.
You're very wrong. Most of our female friends and acquaintances know we're into that and a few times a year we have a woman reach out to my wife on social media about joining in but we shoot almost all of them down for various reasons. We're fairly selective for personality and things like that to make sure nobody gets the wrong idea. I think you'd be very surprised how open most women are to trying things, they might not all be down for doing two girl ass to mouth but a surprising number are down for a chill two girl bj.

Its easy when your girl picks them up though, she can shoot the chit with them to test the waters without the other girl's defenses going up and if they're receptive then make moves. It's harder for dudes because bringing sex stuff up casually when you have a gf/wife immediately sets off the alarms, unless she's into you which isn't good as she'll get attached.

If you have any female friends ask them about it, I'd wager a bunch of them if not all have done it at least once. Very few young (under 30) women I know haven't.
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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
Youre gonna lose something amaxing for 4 mins of dopamine rush
This is core to the human male condition
post 1659979553 04-20-2022, 02:02 PM
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Canโ€™t respect a girl who would let me bang other women, specially in front of her, itโ€™s like she has no self respect, why should I respect her? Also, women should need you and be possessive of you, if they arenโ€™t, it means she dgaf as much as u think she does.

That or she lets her lust get the better of her rationality, and if she does that with this, what happens when sheโ€™s out on a girls night and Chad hits on her after you both just had an argument?

Na.

FYI, convinced ex to threesome. She was a cheating sloot exactly as predicted.
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