I'm an unemployed loser who is in debt. AMA

04-20-2022, 01:02 AM

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Lastly bro, I'm sorry to hear about your dad in the hospital

I got tough love and career advice, but I don't want to put you down

You will be alright bro, just gotta dig deep and find that fire in you

Love you bro, I hope you find your peace and succeed in life

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04-20-2022, 01:09 AM

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So many opinions, so much advice in the thread...I really need to get off of the MISC, its just not healthy for me mentally...Thank you all that has done good, for all that has been a di*k, I understand I do, im nit a bad guy im not. I do my best to be good...I just have a problem that needs to be solved, the only one that can solve that is me...

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04-20-2022, 01:10 AM

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FYI......Its 3AM by me i cant sleep,, this is why i drink, to sleep, this is why i post for money, for alch, i am so sorry

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04-20-2022, 01:18 AM

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The MKSC is the therapy as sad as that sounds, i connect with you dudes

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04-20-2022, 01:45 AM

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In my opinion, employment in the wrong field, looks better than a gap in employment.

If the gap gets bigger than 6 months, people start to think it’s a medical / mental health thing and you start drastically cutting down companies that will take you.

Also, applying for jobs doesn’t take 8 hours a day. You’ll have all the notifications set and CV templates. Most 1st interviews are over zoom / teams for web dev roles. I doubt you’d be compromising your prospects much by taking a temporary position.

04-20-2022, 01:52 AM

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04-20-2022, 02:06 AM

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`well op is drunk and posting based on drunkness mixed with uneven emotions and incoherency .

thats why i hate alcohol and dont drink , make you do stupid sh!t

Cherish your life. Live to tell your story

04-20-2022, 02:27 AM

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You could work part time
You could take a chitty temp job as an assistant/admin/data entry and use your skills to work up rapidly
You could do some freelance, though most of that is front end chit cause no one wants to do that

04-20-2022, 02:28 AM

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Just drive uber or lyft op. Mybadbrah makes 100k+ per year doing it

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04-20-2022, 02:50 AM

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I'm sure you'll figure it out man, if u have your health that's a blessing and u have a means to improve your situation.

04-20-2022, 02:55 AM

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Hope you father recovers, but get your a$$ off the misc and get a job. They're everywhere for Christ sake. Wages have gone up cause leeches don't want to work, don't be one of them. Plus you're Dad's probably going to need help at home when he gets out. Get it together and man up.

04-20-2022, 03:02 AM

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Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩

`well op is drunk and posting based on drunkness mixed with uneven emotions and incoherency .

thats why i hate alcohol and dont drink , make you do stupid sh!t

This. OP cries and wants advice, then just gets plastered and starts spewing dumb chit.

OP you probably need to get your alcoholism under control before you seek new employment. Stop being a bitch and go to a rehab or get professional help

Uncontrollable behavior with some psychopathic tendencies

04-20-2022, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted By ShortMonster⏩

FYI......Its 3AM by me i cant sleep,, this is why i drink, to sleep, this is why i post for money, for alch, i am so sorry

Bro you are forgiven

Kick the bottle bro it's time

I gotta get off the misc for a while too

Will check back in after I hit my new goals

It's time to fly bro, we're all gonna make it

God bless and good luck out there

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04-20-2022, 04:38 AM

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Don't worry brah, you'll be okay. I'll tell you about my best mate. He was your age, a drug addiction. Looser as you would put it. $12 per hour as a orderly. They fired everyone and got rid of that position. He was redeploy as a tech in the operating theatre. Worked well, got offered a job on a transplant team. Met his now wife there. All within 3 years. He's now 40, has a 1million house, a 5 yo daughter, a wife, kicked the habits. On $150k p.a. it's never over until you give up.

04-20-2022, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted By EnochsProphecy⏩

Location: San Diego

Keep your head up man. Work with the mexicans in gardening or trade work until you get your debt payed off. 1.5k in debt is nothing major. Better to clear it now before it snowballs.

edit: you look fit. Look into the military, you might qualify.

**** san diego go join the poop clean up brigade they pay 100k a year

04-20-2022, 07:45 AM

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Got another interview!

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04-20-2022, 08:07 AM

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mate your debt is a 40 hour work week

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04-20-2022, 08:26 AM

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Good luck mate. It's never too late to turn your life around. Plus your only a few years older than me. Still got time.

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04-20-2022, 08:33 AM

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You shouldn't be worrying bromeo. You have skills from what you said. I would have started worrying if you were like some people who worked some ****ty ass job all their life and acquired no desirable skill in their 30s.

04-20-2022, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted By BigDeeps01⏩

Damn aren’t you black too?

It's really my fault, I never really tried. I don't do anything outside of work. Srs. When i worked retail i had people my age and sloots galore, now I'm rotting at an office. I wouldn't go back though.

I'm looking to make some changes this year. Losing weight and finding a higher paying job, then start going out more.

04-20-2022, 08:47 AM

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Yeah after reading 2 pages of this…. Op is a ****ggot

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04-20-2022, 08:51 AM

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Lifechanging money here my friend, borrow a few K from someone and get in on the ground floor

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04-20-2022, 08:56 AM

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At first I felt for OP, tough financial situation, it sucks.. i'm there right now but trying.

Then I saw his excuses:
- can't do Doordash. BS, if you have a gallon of gas in your car, and get 25mpg...you can do 1 fkng delivery, cash out instant, and put gas in the car. repeat.
I do this often as my backup plan to make a few bucks, realize life could be worse, and try harder.

- won't work a part time job bc "values time". is worth $35/hr but makes $0/hr. you have no other responsibilities right now, you don't pay rent, go work part time and spend the rest of the time looking for the job you want.

- if that $20 paypal "loan" post is legit... and the rest of this chit ITT then yes, OP is a loser

I wish you better times OP, but you gotta stand up for yourself and go make it happen. If you don't back yourself, like said above, who's going to? Nobody is coming to save you, me, or anyone else.

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04-20-2022, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted By ShortMonster⏩

Its so bad, i even take my old beer and seltzer cans and cash them in for money (srs)

Ehh my parents are ballin and they just stopped doing that like last year.

*Updated* If you can't hit a 320 yard drive, are you even a man?

04-20-2022, 09:01 AM

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Jope your dad gets better. Sorry to hear he is not well.

As for your situation, things could be worse. You could be that broke with a wife and kids to care for.

Of course the best way to make money as you probably know is to get a job. High paying jobs are hard to get but that doesnt mean you cant get another one while you are working on that.

My suggestion as a fellow san diegan is a call center. They are always hiring, many work remote now and dont require any real experience other than maybe a good personality and customer service. They are actually pretty cush jobs too, way under rated as far as simple to get and ok pay.

You could basically have one by weeks end if you looked around a bit. They are always in need of people esepcially men. men are more reliable and show up to work, They know this as women flake all the time and create unneeded drama.

Try not to let yourself get to the homeless level as once you get there its a much harder road out of it.

One step at a time. Get the work first then you can get the other stuff taken care of. Keep in mind to the fair is coming in june and they are already hiring. Just temp gig work stuff but easy to get hired and lots of hours.

Look at placement agencies. They offered me so many positions I eventually just had to tell them I dont need any more. I dont have any real skill or magic either. Just a hard working regular guy.

Best of luck.

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04-20-2022, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted By ShortMonster⏩

Got another interview!

You're gonna make it brah, srs.

Also, you can sell blood/plasma for fast cash. It helps people in need and is an honest way to get some extra cash. Several of my coworkers do it regularly.

04-20-2022, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted By Visel⏩

We all have phark ups, it's about learning from them and doing things in the future to avoid repeats.

I'm 26. Last year for the first time in my life I was debt free, student loan and car paid off, made over $110k gross, saved back over $30k, and through a combination of lucky investing and options gambling like a mad man I got as high as $60k I believe with that account, all in the same year. Fast forward to now that account is actually $0. Ded fkn srs.

Now it's April 2022 and I've got back my emergency fund of 6 months, got a juicy 401k, still debt free with the same paid off car, but no extra investments/savings beyond that. Partially because I've bought a lot of chit lately, including study materials and an expensive exam voucher for a cyber security certification, which I studied for 3 months and passed on the first try thank phark.

I'm glad I'm 26. But it hurts and I've been depressed for 4 months due to a combination of the above, having also broke up with my gf of 3 years LTR last year, having zero social life, and I was not proud of my physique. I haven't laughed in months, not even a smirk when genuinely funny thing is presented to me. That's depression.

I've recently lost 15 pounds, and have gained a lot of confidence. I'm laughing again as of this week. I'm going out more, and wanting to be seen more. I want to build a social life and strike conversations with randoms and care about people. I actually went as far as to knock on the door of some hot neighbors, two girls that are roommates, who have been there for a year and I never knew their name, and they host parties and chit in their apartment from time to time. Super friendly, shook hands, told eachother our names, made some jokes, and I'm pretty sure I came off as endearing and sociable. I might get invited to future parties they have or hang out if I'm lucky.

Thats it boyo
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Originally Posted By binlogic⏩

You're gonna make it brah, srs.

Also, you can sell blood/plasma for fast cash. It helps people in need and is an honest way to get some extra cash. Several of my coworkers do it regularly.

I didnt get the job

- Even though im still negative in my accounts and broke AF right now i have money coming in in about two - three weeks, so i figure out how to make beer money between then lol