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08-26-2022, 06:04 AM
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She's got borderline personality.
My now gf of 4 years doesn't behave like that.
My ex from college did. Run (srs)
My now gf of 4 years doesn't behave like that.
My ex from college did. Run (srs)
08-26-2022, 06:16 AM
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It's only a 3 month relationship... either sit her nanny ass down and have a serious discussion with her or break up with her
It's only a 3 month relationship... either sit her nanny ass down and have a serious discussion with her or break up with her
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08-26-2022, 06:19 AM
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Once you have raw intercourse with her she isn't going to deviate much from her state of consciousness at that point
08-26-2022, 06:46 AM
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Bro I’m the same. Lost all attraction to GF. Worst thing is she legit wants to marry me. It’s been like 9 months
It’s gonna absolutely crush her, I’ve never found it so hard to leave someone. She’s done nothing wrong, I just don’t have the attraction anymore
It’s gonna absolutely crush her, I’ve never found it so hard to leave someone. She’s done nothing wrong, I just don’t have the attraction anymore
Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
I told you she was weird from day 1 but you didn’t listenSo my gf and I got engaged 2 weeks ago. Last night I told her I think we should push the wedding back a few months to give us more time to prepare. Now she says she doesn’t want to get married anymore.
You’re not alone dude
You’re not alone dude
08-26-2022, 06:48 AM
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yeah that's not a problem that's just gonna fix itself, she needs to work on that and it sounds like she doesn't have any desire or want to
should probably end things if she doesn't make some changes after a conversation about it, I wouldn't jump the gun just yet tho, I think it's fair to give her a chance to hear your side
my guess tho is that she probably won't react well and if that happens you might as well dump her anyways, you can't have a relationship with someone who you can't have hard conversations with
should probably end things if she doesn't make some changes after a conversation about it, I wouldn't jump the gun just yet tho, I think it's fair to give her a chance to hear your side
my guess tho is that she probably won't react well and if that happens you might as well dump her anyways, you can't have a relationship with someone who you can't have hard conversations with
08-26-2022, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because i dont want to want to spend my evening eating an ass that had another guy’s balls slapping on it 2 hours earlier.Why would you even get into a relationship at all. Just date casually it’s soooo much better. Relationships are completely overrated srs
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08-26-2022, 07:26 AM
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introverts are usually just people with really bad self esteem/insecurity issues, which she's showing. Run.
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08-26-2022, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
It's interesting how men can lose sexual attraction to someone who is a sex freak because of her non-sexual behavior.
Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
It's worth a shot if OP otherwise feels she "checks all the boxes".Try communicating these concerns to her in an adaptive, flexible way.
"Your insecurity and clinginess is killing my attraction to you."
Originally Posted By Nicky161200⏩
But if OP's description of events is accurate and he isn't triggering this behavior by how he acts re: other women then...yeah that's not a problem that's just gonna fix itself, she needs to work on that and it sounds like she doesn't have any desire or want to
should probably end things if she doesn't make some changes after a conversation about it, I wouldn't jump the gun just yet tho, I think it's fair to give her a chance to hear your side
my guess tho is that she probably won't react well and if that happens you might as well dump her anyways, you can't have a relationship with someone who you can't have hard conversations with
should probably end things if she doesn't make some changes after a conversation about it, I wouldn't jump the gun just yet tho, I think it's fair to give her a chance to hear your side
my guess tho is that she probably won't react well and if that happens you might as well dump her anyways, you can't have a relationship with someone who you can't have hard conversations with
Originally Posted By yakuza233⏩
^^^i think i say again
you of dumb man
she act with problem in head she not love you not attatch you
you think special but not special
she have head problem and act same with all man
she act way with every man
she not sad if leave
she find new man and act same very soon
you of dumb man
she act with problem in head she not love you not attatch you
you think special but not special
she have head problem and act same with all man
she act way with every man
she not sad if leave
she find new man and act same very soon
This man has nailed it.
I get lonely sometimes and I've grieved about sex and relationships not being part of my life any more. Then I happen on to a misc thread and it's like yeah, I miss having a partner, but damn that BS.
FWIW I got "too independent" or not clingy enough. Sigh...
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08-26-2022, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Why would you even get into a relationship at all. Just date casually it’s soooo much better. Relationships are completely overrated srs
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08-26-2022, 08:04 AM
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stage 5 clinger. batchit crazy
why do people use terms like this? i've been hearing it forever and every single time it makes me cringe, sounds like incel talk that you'd only hear on the internet.
why do people use terms like this? i've been hearing it forever and every single time it makes me cringe, sounds like incel talk that you'd only hear on the internet.
08-26-2022, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Clingy with trust issues is fearful-avoidant attachment insecurity, which is the underlying psychological issue of borderline personality. Be careful, it doesn't get better if she is full blown BPD.Shes a sex freak, thats why i lasted almost 3 months. I treat her like a sex doll, she gets off on that ****. It isn’t about control.
She just has a severe case of trust issues. At first I said all right I will still do whatever I want to do and if she bounces that’s her choice. No cheating or anything just going out and doing whatever i wanna do, and fuk her while I can.
Now I have zero desire to fuk her tho. I have no option but to be the one that breaks it up, and I hate hurting people because she’s attached to the max
She just has a severe case of trust issues. At first I said all right I will still do whatever I want to do and if she bounces that’s her choice. No cheating or anything just going out and doing whatever i wanna do, and fuk her while I can.
Now I have zero desire to fuk her tho. I have no option but to be the one that breaks it up, and I hate hurting people because she’s attached to the max
08-26-2022, 08:08 AM
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I hear you...but id rather deal with a stage 5 clinger ( granted she was hot) than a girl you can barely get the time of day from half the time haha
Good luck man.
Good luck man.
08-26-2022, 08:21 AM
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Ditch her.
I never dated a super clingy/jealous girl, but some of my friends have and in my experience, they are more likely to cheat than other types.
One of my friends gfs cheated on her last boyfriend because she thought he had cheated on her. He had not. Crazy.
Jealous is ok, but it has to have some merit - unhinged jealously is more than enough reason to leave something.
… mad simply because a good looking woman is in her vicinity… yeah, that’s reason enough to break up. Let alone getting mad if you arrive 10m later than planned
I never dated a super clingy/jealous girl, but some of my friends have and in my experience, they are more likely to cheat than other types.
One of my friends gfs cheated on her last boyfriend because she thought he had cheated on her. He had not. Crazy.
Jealous is ok, but it has to have some merit - unhinged jealously is more than enough reason to leave something.
… mad simply because a good looking woman is in her vicinity… yeah, that’s reason enough to break up. Let alone getting mad if you arrive 10m later than planned
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08-26-2022, 08:22 AM
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Sit her down and have a serious talk about what you will and will not tolerate. She can be trained OP.
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08-26-2022, 08:23 AM
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I linked up with ur bich in the back seat of my lambo, kid.
And it was good sex.
And it was good sex.
08-26-2022, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
I hear you...but id rather deal with a stage 5 clinger ( granted she was hot) than a girl you can barely get the time of day from half the time haha
Good luck man.
Good luck man.
Don't take it personal bb. I can't hear very well anymore and I rarely look at my phone.
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08-26-2022, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Aren't you pretty much an incel? I probably would've felt the same way when I was a virgin.I hear you...but id rather deal with a stage 5 clinger ( granted she was hot) than a girl you can barely get the time of day from half the time haha
Good luck man.
Good luck man.
08-26-2022, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
Probably daddy issues predicts this as well as anything.Clingy with trust issues is fearful-avoidant attachment insecurity, which is the underlying psychological issue of borderline personality. Be careful, it doesn't get better if she is full blown BPD.
08-26-2022, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By yakuza233⏩
Op got owned by crazy, ghey Bruno lmfaoyou are of dumb man
you with gym girl
all gym girl i see are mental head problem
you dumb man and not see true
dumb dumb
you with gym girl
all gym girl i see are mental head problem
you dumb man and not see true
dumb dumb
08-26-2022, 10:37 AM
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Not to downplay any of your complaints about her clinginess, because you're spot on in your assessment of her and she truly is a psycho bitch.
That being said, just be really careful before you decide to cut her loose over it if she's really as great aa you say other than that. My ex-wife was never a jealous type at all, which I thought waa awesome at first, but you how that turned out for me. The grass ain't always greener on the other side. Just some food for thought, breh
That being said, just be really careful before you decide to cut her loose over it if she's really as great aa you say other than that. My ex-wife was never a jealous type at all, which I thought waa awesome at first, but you how that turned out for me. The grass ain't always greener on the other side. Just some food for thought, breh
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relatable, you can try as much as you want but you'll never be able to change her views/behaviour brah
sloots like this have deep psychological problems, she's not ready for a relationship and needs to take time to work on herself
it's a shame because they're always the "10/10" in your eyes with a bangin body that keeps you coming back for more
sloots like this have deep psychological problems, she's not ready for a relationship and needs to take time to work on herself
it's a shame because they're always the "10/10" in your eyes with a bangin body that keeps you coming back for more
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This needs to be filed under under “attractive people problems”.
It’s what happens when you have a relationship that is founded primarily on attraction and little else. If we could take attraction out of the equation, you would realise you don’t actually LIKE this girl very much and she would realise the same about you.
It’s what happens when you have a relationship that is founded primarily on attraction and little else. If we could take attraction out of the equation, you would realise you don’t actually LIKE this girl very much and she would realise the same about you.
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been there before and its ugly, It doesnt get better unless they actually seek psychiatric help because once a girl gets that into her psyche? good luck on her trying break that on her own.
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Some of these Attractive women think they can do whatever they want because of the way they look.....
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Once in a committed relationship, isn't it good shes a stage 5 clinger to you than someone else?
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Clingy is one thing, I feel like that can be weaned down with some frank discussion - but fighting over that kind of stupid ****? Don't blame you for being stressed out about it - although you shouldn't even be entertaining it.
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