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post 1666766033 08-25-2022, 10:40 PM
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Lost all sexual attraction to GF (srs)

At first I thought she was perfect, full blown introvert like me and hot as fuk. Gym rat too. Likes anime and nerd **** like that

Turns out she’s a stage 5 clinger. Gets upset if I go out instead of seeing her, if I text her I’m home 10 minutes later than I told her I would be home, insanely jealous about any girl that looks my way, as in, I get paranoid if we are eating out and a hot girl walks inside the place, if I just so happen to be looking that way when the girl enters or if I accidentally take a glimpse, it’s a one hour fight.

Just psycho **** like that, im talking at least 2-3 big fights per week about **** she completely made up in her mind.

It’s been 3 months and im stressed and tired as fuk. She’s an ángel otherwise, but can’t deal with that crazyness.


I know cool story bro no pics etc, feel free to neg. I’m just ranting
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post 1666766293 08-25-2022, 10:48 PM
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post 1666766313 08-25-2022, 10:48 PM
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Feel you on all of that.


Nothing kills attraction for me more than unchecked jealousy. All I can offer is condolences. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
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post 1666766333 08-25-2022, 10:48 PM
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From your posts it sounds like you aren't really into committed relationships and that you enjoy being single.

She definitely sounds too clingy and you're too independent for that. Gosh, relationships are so tough.

If you're stressed and tired then it's not worth it.
post 1666766363 08-25-2022, 10:49 PM
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So my gf and I got engaged 2 weeks ago. Last night I told her I think we should push the wedding back a few months to give us more time to prepare. Now she says she doesn’t want to get married anymore.

You’re not alone dude
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post 1666766433 08-25-2022, 10:52 PM
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Insanely jealous and fights to the death....

No chit, she's latina isn't she?
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post 1666766443 08-25-2022, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
At first I thought she was perfect, full blown introvert like me and hot as fuk. Gym rat too. Likes anime and nerd **** like that

Turns out she’s a stage 5 clinger. Gets upset if I go out instead of seeing her, if I text her I’m home 10 minutes later than I told her I would be home, insanely jealous about any girl that looks my way, as in, I get paranoid if we are eating out and a hot girl walks inside the place, if I just so happen to be looking that way when the girl enters or if I accidentally take a glimpse, it’s a one hour fight.

Just psycho **** like that, im talking at least 2-3 big fights per week about **** she completely made up in her mind.

It’s been 3 months and im stressed and tired as fuk. She’s an ángel otherwise, but can’t deal with that crazyness.


I know cool story bro no pics etc, feel free to neg. I’m just ranting
you are of dumb man


you with gym girl

all gym girl i see are mental head problem


you dumb man and not see true



dumb dumb
post 1666766513 08-25-2022, 10:54 PM
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She just loves making your life miserable because she is hot
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post 1666766523 08-25-2022, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted By yakuza233
you are of dumb man


you with gym girl

all gym girl i see are mental head problem


you dumb man and not see true



dumb dumb
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post 1666766543 08-25-2022, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface
So my gf and I got engaged 2 weeks ago. Last night I told her I think we should push the wedding back a few months to give us more time to prepare. Now she says she doesn’t want to get married anymore.

You’re not alone dude
what the fuk? I would dump her on the spot dead srs.

Don't waste your time on women who waste your time, you and OP.
post 1666766663 08-25-2022, 11:01 PM
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same thing happened with my ex... she accused me of cheating on her, dumped me and now I can't get over her easily

while in reality was I loved her so much I was willing to overlook the issue (ok it's not like I had ZERO attraction to her but things get stale and you can take it or leave it, normal)

if it's true just end things brah, you don't want to be in my position. Even if you think it's for the best a breakup is way harder when it's not your choice
post 1666766783 08-25-2022, 11:06 PM
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Nothing more of a pain that a jealous kling on sloot. Too bad you've lost sexual attraction for her cause some of those kling ons fuk the best when they think you're gonna bounce and they're living on a fear of loss and you can turn them into a nice little sex slave.

Look and flirt with other sloots while she's around. Don't text her during the day either. She'll start kissing your ass. Set demands on whatever it is you want. And set boundries that she knows not to cross.

You're handing her the controls and letting her run your life in an effort to keep the peace. Do what you want and make no apologies for it. The less you care the more control you'll have, and the less of her demands you jump for the more she'll know that you won't jump.

If you're dumping a kling on make sure all your assets are locked down. No joint accounts or something worse like owning a house together. When they get dumped they get vicious AF.
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post 1666766863 08-25-2022, 11:09 PM
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Well either break up with her or cheat on her. Those are your only 2 options.
post 1666766953 08-25-2022, 11:11 PM
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post 1666766993 08-25-2022, 11:12 PM
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post 1666767023 08-25-2022, 11:13 PM
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dang, sounds like you can't control your women srs
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post 1666767093 08-25-2022, 11:14 PM
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You. need to assert dominance and let her know you don't play that drama crap. Either chill the phuck out and please me or gtfo. Nobody wants to be with a psycho.
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post 1666767243 08-25-2022, 11:20 PM
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Shes a sex freak, thats why i lasted almost 3 months. I treat her like a sex doll, she gets off on that ****. It isn’t about control.


She just has a severe case of trust issues. At first I said all right I will still do whatever I want to do and if she bounces that’s her choice. No cheating or anything just going out and doing whatever i wanna do, and fuk her while I can.

Now I have zero desire to fuk her tho. I have no option but to be the one that breaks it up, and I hate hurting people because she’s attached to the max
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post 1666767253 08-25-2022, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted By yakuza233
you are of dumb man


you with gym girl

all gym girl i see are mental head problem


you dumb man and not see true



dumb dumb
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post 1666767283 08-25-2022, 11:21 PM
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Thread is meaningless without pic of sloot . C’mon man, you know the rules
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you have to tell her directly what you will and will not tolerate. if you need space to do you, then you need space. no compromise - if she can not give you that or trust you, then she needs to find someone else. set your boundaries and let HER choose her fate - not by words but actions.
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Originally Posted By Ironface
So my gf and I got engaged 2 weeks ago. Last night I told her I think we should push the wedding back a few months to give us more time to prepare. Now she says she doesn’t want to get married anymore.

You’re not alone dude
lol she was looking for an out and a way to make it your fault, now that you brought up even changing the wedding she used it to place the blame on you.


lol at sloots
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
Shes a sex freak, thats why i lasted almost 3 months. I treat her like a sex doll, she gets off on that ****. It isn’t about control.


She just has a severe case of trust issues. At first I said all right I will still do whatever I want to do and if she bounces that’s her choice. No cheating or anything just going out and doing whatever i wanna do, and fuk her while I can.

Now I have zero desire to fuk her tho. I have no option but to be the one that breaks it up, and I hate hurting people because she’s attached to the max
shes going to freak out and stalk you and chit when you dump her. You are going to have to get her to dump you. Tell your you are bi or like her mom or something to make her dump you
post 1666767533 08-25-2022, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Hey I saw When Harry Met Sally yesterday and the guy reminds me of your facial expressions and mannerism etc pls confirm
Try watching City Slickers then
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post 1666767573 08-25-2022, 11:34 PM
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It's interesting how men can lose sexual attraction to someone who is a sex freak because of her non-sexual behavior.
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Where are the fckin pics mate?
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
Shes a sex freak, thats why i lasted almost 3 months. I treat her like a sex doll, she gets off on that ****. It isn’t about control.


She just has a severe case of trust issues. At first I said all right I will still do whatever I want to do and if she bounces that’s her choice. No cheating or anything just going out and doing whatever i wanna do, and fuk her while I can.

Now I have zero desire to fuk her tho. I have no option but to be the one that breaks it up, and I hate hurting people because she’s attached to the max
i think i say again

you of dumb man

she act with problem in head she not love you not attatch you

you think special but not special

she have head problem and act same with all man

she act way with every man


she not sad if leave


she find new man and act same very soon
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really nice pics man. glad you made this thread!
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
At first I thought she was perfect, full blown introvert like me and hot as fuk. Gym rat too. Likes anime and nerd **** like that

Turns out she’s a stage 5 clinger. Gets upset if I go out instead of seeing her, if I text her I’m home 10 minutes later than I told her I would be home, insanely jealous about any girl that looks my way, as in, I get paranoid if we are eating out and a hot girl walks inside the place, if I just so happen to be looking that way when the girl enters or if I accidentally take a glimpse, it’s a one hour fight.

Just psycho **** like that, im talking at least 2-3 big fights per week about **** she completely made up in her mind.

It’s been 3 months and im stressed and tired as fuk. She’s an ángel otherwise, but can’t deal with that crazyness.


I know cool story bro no pics etc, feel free to neg. I’m just ranting
Don’t mind clingers. I had a non-clinger, turns out it’s cos she was pretty “casual” about the relationship.

Your job is to guide her. Reassure her and control the frame. Find it sexy when they’re jealous but they suppress that chit for you cos they know you won’t like it.

I don’t understand how men “fight” with women. To use Andrew Tates analogy, women are like kids. I cringe when grow adults fight with kids. If you’re fighting with kids, it means you don’t know how to raise them properly.

Same token, if you’re fighting with a girl, you’re too emotional. Set some boundaries and make her adhere to them or she gtfo.
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