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post 1677181403 02-14-2023, 09:46 AM
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post 1677181523 02-14-2023, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Actually agree with this. Just get an escort and pay extra for girlfriend experience. If I were an FA guy I would do this.

Girls doing tinder hookups is basically the same as guys doing escorts anyway.
Minus the $400 an hour? Lol.
post 1677181563 02-14-2023, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
They're not even banging 6/10 guys, except maybe very rarely when the dude's wasted and on a dry spell. There are genuine 3s out there for you, lol.
Not for me specifically. Never happened in 31 years but I understand im an exception.

for MOST guys yes, but then you gotta be honest why is a 3/10 worth the trouble.
post 1677181913 02-14-2023, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Not for me specifically. Never happened in 31 years but I understand im an exception.

for MOST guys yes, but then you gotta be honest why is a 3/10 worth the trouble.
You seem to have this weird perception that there is something totally unique about you among the human population that makes finding a decent girl impossible for you, but meanwhile there are legitimately deformed and diseased people finding partners.
post 1677181933 02-14-2023, 09:56 AM
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my strategy at the moment is to mog the girl in looks, so i stop feeling insecure. so im looksmaxxing. ive had girls flirt with me and such over the years, but due to my mental problems i couldnt get it going with any of them and i think its because i think im ugly. if i knew for a fact i was a chad, then id be more confident. if im not a chad at the end of this, then at least i tried and i can walk off into the sunset.
post 1677182203 02-14-2023, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman
there are legitimately deformed and diseased people finding partners.
Not black guys.

Race matters, makes a huge difference. black people are way way more likely to be single for a reason.

For me personally its definitely over.
post 1677182313 02-14-2023, 10:02 AM
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post 1677184203 02-14-2023, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Not black guys.

Race matters, makes a huge difference. black people are way way more likely to be single for a reason.

For me personally its definitely over.
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post 1677184573 02-14-2023, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By TeenMisc
Post pic
Hell no. I've already done it 10 times before.
post 1677185813 02-14-2023, 10:56 AM
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OP, I'm confident that if you lose a significant amount of face fat that your looks will drastically improve and you'll get better responses from women.

But keep in mind also that women can instinctively detect if you're FA. A woman's intuition is damn near at the level of psychic powers - they can easily detect a man who gets po0n and a man that's been in a prolonged dry spell.

My recommendation after losing all the face fat is to hit up a local strip club and get a few lap dances, this is to get yourself comfortable with touching women so that you don't appear too awkward if you happen to go on a date.


Losing face fat can make all the difference in the world.


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post 1677186493 02-14-2023, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted By FA*******
Not spurred on by Valentine's Day, more of a diet/cut that's not been going well this last week.

So like you all know, I'm 27 and have never touched a woman. I have essentially zero access to women outside of dating apps, where I also get shut out. I'm trying to lose about 20 pounds to improve my chances on apps... that looks like the only way forward.

If this cut stays on schedule, I'll be at goal weight right around my 28th birthday. Let's say I get there, and that leads to some matches from sloots. What the hell's the endgame there?

-Most sloots my age are looong fukking taken, or just dog & dildo perma-slooting.
-Any sloots left are single for a reason.
-Get to fumble around and make high school level first date mistakes with sloots who are in a hurry/looking for marriage yesterday.
-Get to make high school level sexor mistakes with high body count sloots.
-Cannot expect to keep any sloot loyal while lacking the ability to replace her ASAP (redpill 101).

It's like what the fuk am I going through a 5-6 month long cut for? To whale out or get cucked after that? If you're starting from scratch at say 28, do you just go "fuk it, I missed the boat"?
Bro you're 27 pull yourself together.

Go for 21 year olds. Why are apps you're only option?

There's plenty of out of shape guys who are dating/with girlfriends that's not what's holding you back here its your mindset.

You need to get yourself out there, you got any friends? Join meetup.com if there's any groups nearby, there must be some stuff happening local to you e.g. running club, mixed gender sports team, games night etc Speed dating?

One of my friends was 30 been in the same dead end job since 18 and living with his parents never went to college.

At 30 he got himself a proper career, moved into an apartment and just overnight had confidence and was getting dates left and right and he was average looking guy.
post 1677186673 02-14-2023, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus
But keep in mind also that women can instinctively detect if you're FA. A woman's intuition is damn near at the level of psychic powers - they can easily detect a man who gets po0n and a man that's been in a prolonged dry spell.
i disagree with this. i think with blackpill knowledge you can avoid those giveaway behaviours.
post 1677187373 02-14-2023, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By davik
i disagree with this. i think with blackpill knowledge you can avoid those giveaway behaviours.
No, heโ€™s right.

Women can sense these things. You wear your inexperience more than you realise, and no amount of โ€œblackpill knowledgeโ€ can mask it.
post 1677187903 02-14-2023, 11:22 AM
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Ship has sailed for me. There's probably some hope for you if you put yourself out there more.
post 1677188103 02-14-2023, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
No, heโ€™s right.

Women can sense these things. You wear your inexperience more than you realise, and no amount of โ€œblackpill knowledgeโ€ can mask it.
yeah actually i think it is true. the mental scars never heal
post 1677188273 02-14-2023, 11:28 AM
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brah ur 27 without ever touching a woman, that's impressively pathetic
post 1677188323 02-14-2023, 11:30 AM
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Why would you go for girls your own age?
Originally Posted By FA*******
It's been 85 days and counting since I've last spoken to a white person at work. 100% srs.
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post 1677189563 02-14-2023, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By IlChosenOne
Why would you go for girls your own age?
This. My ex was almost three years older than me. Now, girls roughly 10 years younger than me are expressing interest.
post 1677190103 02-14-2023, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted By LDARidonot
There was one time years ago I spent about 4 months looksmaxxing. Would wake up hungry and eat a piece of cheese lol. I got down to 6% by caliper standards. It was pretty miserable on a day to day basis.

At the end of 4 months, gave up on the diet, but stayed lean for the next couple months just because of how lean I'd gotten. I downloaded tinder and would go to bar night on thursdays. Let me tell you, it was the easiest laying I've ever gotten. I am no jestermaxxer or anything like that. Barely had to say anything or do anything. Since then I've always believed that if they aren't making it easy, then you're doing something wrong and its not worth it
Had a similar experience. Was legit in the best shape of my life for about 3 months, I was living in a beach town so rarely wore a shirt its was crazy how easy it was I didn't have to do anything. Sadly I'm a fat kent at heart so didn't stay that way for long but I really got a whole new perspective. I had a 10/10 chad buddy who was a genetic freak and stays in shape easily and it was the same story for him and because he could maintain his physique it never dried up for him, so I both experienced it and then saw it from the other side.

I 100% agree with your last sentence. Getting laid is always easy, not saying it's always easy to get laid If it's not easy it's not worth it to jestermaxx, you just fail and make a fool of yourself.
post 1677191603 02-14-2023, 12:17 PM
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Obviously you're getting a late start and not having those younger experiences is a loss, but saying theres no good women at your age is a joke.

At any age the ratio of quality is not going to be good, but I'm 31 and since high school to now there's been no cutoff for good women being available. You just need to play the numbers game.
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post 1677192873 02-14-2023, 12:32 PM
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If you cant get laid off a dating app, you are shooting way above your league.
Likely need to re-ev who you are going for.
Dont be afraid to pound out a chick with some plump. SRS. Practice on the easy lays, at the least itll make you not care as much.

Ive been in relationships for like 9 out of last 10 years if you added it up but inbetween all 3 ive had sex with every reasonable body type off apps, its so fukcn easy if you just play cool and normal and shoot a little below your looks matched.

Drinks, Walk, Dinner and "Movie" at you house. If they agree to the third its basically a shoe in
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post 1677194743 02-14-2023, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By TitsAlternative
Ship has sailed for me. There's probably some hope for you if you put yourself out there more.
I'm 22 but can't get anything. dont know how to turn it around
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Originally Posted By EscortMaxxing
I'm 22 but can't get anything. dont know how to turn it around
It's a numbers game. Keep putting yourself out there. 22 is so young. So many ppl start relationships around that age. There is a nontrivial number of women who also have never had a bf at that age. Don't be shy and put yourself out there. There's a strong chance you won't be FA.
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post 1677252803 02-15-2023, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted By EscortMaxxing
I'm 22 but can't get anything. dont know how to turn it around
Damn. 22 feels so long ago. It gets better but you can't just sit around and post here all day. Picked up a customer service job and moved away to college at that age. You don't have to go to school if that isn't your path but at least pick up a job that puts you in front of several people consistently.

If I was 22 again I'd do sales but customer service works perfectly for getting you out of your shell. At worst you'll discover not everyone hates you and at best you'll realize you're charismatic. Or you might end up in the middle. Whatever. If you can't get anything you need to stop worrying about women and just worry about connecting with humans in general.

Now personally I recommend sales cause it's a pretty fast way to learn people and pick up a good chunk of change if you start at 22. But if you're too scared to try that (like I was) just be a cashier or some ****. You're young with time to build bro. Get in front of people and you'll realize they're not that big of a deal. Sounds cliche but they're just like you. Once you learn that sky's the limit.
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It's never too late if you truly want it. It will obviously get harder as time goes on.
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus
If you're White, just go to S Korea or Japan after the cut and they'll be chasing YOU....


S korean gal I know can't take a dik at all. She's screaming in pain every time we... you know.
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Lold i'm the same age as you OP and imo it's honestly a lack of trying. If you put yourself out there you will succeed, i've seen sub 5/10 bros pull attractive girls consistently because they adapt and put in the effort.

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