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ยป DD: Parents are getting old and NGL im a bit sad i havent given them grandkids (srs)
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post 1692793593 11-03-2023, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted By PowerPal
dim lighting with heavy filter can make anymore look Chad
he looks like Brad aka Noah here lol



he almost looks incel tier here wtf
I said either in this thread ir somewhere else, this guy isn't a chad. More like a 7.
Monster0ultra self proclaimed "Chad" face pic looks like vtech school shooter: https://i.imgur.com/z2m6Why.jpg
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
I said either in this thread ir somewhere else, this guy isn't a chad. More like a 7.
dedsrs he looks like a average young lean guy 6/10 at most in unfrauded pics lol
legit looks like a different guy in the eating video with all the filters. I hate zoomers so much srs (they prob aren't zoomers)

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post 1692793993 11-04-2023, 12:25 AM
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If you were in America, the move would be to adopt a black baby.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
post 1692794033 11-04-2023, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
It doesnt help that 1) i dont believe in monogamy yet im not a bad enough person to cheat and 2) my standards are stupidly high (looks wise and non-slootyness wise)
Those are just choices you're making, sounds like you're happy with that choice for now.

Tbh you're gonna have a real hard time, because your position on monogamy is gonna turn off every single "attractive wholesome woman". Your choice is to either stay with a filthy slut who's okay with the idea of non-monogamy, or make some minor sacrifices to have a partner for life.

Regardless, don't have kids just to satisfy your parents.
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post 1692794073 11-04-2023, 12:29 AM
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post 1692794393 11-04-2023, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
But finding a wholesome woman to be the mother of your child honestly seems like an S+ ranked mission nowadays.
unfortunately true in 2023
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post 1692817863 11-04-2023, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
OP I like you and you post a lot of good stuff, you do post some things I can't get onboard with, but the thing I have noticed about you is you tend to think what's keeping you down is completely unchangeable. Constructive criticism time: a lot of that kind of crap is the same type of crap modern women peddle about themselves; the mentality that this is how I am, it is set in stone, I will not change for anything, and I just need to find that perfect jigsaw puzzle piece that will adhere to me. You might be able to find someone like that but it's very unlikely to happen (at least before it's too late) and at the end of the day giving up some of what is holding you down isn't going to be so detrimental to you or make you miserable. The idea that you can't go back to being with a woman who isn't drop dead gorgeous because you've already tasted the best fruit, is what modern women do as well with the top tier dudes they get pumped and dumped by. But you already knew that...

I would say figure out what your values are, which ones need to be dropped (or at least which ones should take precedence over the others) and just stick to your guns on it. If you're having pangs of being a parent, it's time to possibly make some sacrifices with yourself.

by the way I didn't read all the replies itt ... in case some of this was already covered.
Yeah, i do share some similarities with modern women lol, im aware of that. And im not blaming anybody. The differences in my favor id say that often modern women refuse to accept reality (like accepting they lose value as they grow older or accepting) aka lack of self awareness and also that im still barely entering my best years. I dont think my options are going to change much in the next decade or so.

So i guess i have time to play. Im not desperate or anything, nor need a family, im perfectly fine alone at the moment, but i simply got a bit sad that so far my parents dont know the feeling of having grandkids.

Btw i dont need a drop dead gorgeous woman, a wholesome 7-8 would do just fine. The standards im not willing to compromise on is on the aspect of promiscuity, ive realized i cant stand the idea of that.

Who knows maybe in a couple of years ill stop caring that much, i doubt it tho.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Those are just choices you're making, sounds like you're happy with that choice for now.

Tbh you're gonna have a real hard time, because your position on monogamy is gonna turn off every single "attractive wholesome woman". Your choice is to either stay with a filthy slut who's okay with the idea of non-monogamy, or make some minor sacrifices to have a partner for life.

Regardless, don't have kids just to satisfy your parents.
Yeah, thats the catch 22. Most men go for option number 2, and just fuk other women on the side without nobody finding out. The amount of married man out there that are cheating on their wives, NGL its pretty damn ridiculous.

To me, monogamy for men doesnt make sense, nor does marriage, so we will see how i handle that in the future. Ive never cheated on my life so going the NPC route of the typical married man that cheats seems so stupid to me.

I do believe in the future polyamorous relationships will be common, aka several women with just one man. Not necessarily just filthy sluts, but normal women just looking for a home, a man, and a family. Thats how its done in certain religions, and thats how it has been done in long periods of history.

Marriage and monogamy was a brilliant concept that took society to the next level, but sadly it has run its course i think. Lasted for a good 200 years or so but now its unpractical.
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post 1692818573 11-04-2023, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
Yeah, thats exactly it. I want a top .01% woman (gorgeous, young, and no sexual past other than legit boyfriends). Even if i consider myself to be a .01% man as well, those women go for the .0001% type of men. Even a top 10% woman gets the world served in a plate, you can be perfect for her and she will still feel like she can do better, which is why i believe there are going to be TONS of super beautiful 30 and 40 y/o single woman in the near future, the ones that wasted their 'young and beautiful' card.


Either way, i know im not perfect, im messed up a bit, and i overthink too much.
You may have to compromise on some of the points on your list. Try picking a woman who you i) could view yourself as raising a family with long term, and ii) who you enjoy spending time with apart from sex

Men put so much value on sex yet sex is maybe 4% of a day max, and that's if you last way, way longer than the average dude.

You should of course then try to stay loyal, but may end up falling for temptation at some point. But it's important to try to keep yourself in check if the goal is to build a legacy (a stable family). Building a good family is probably heavily reliant on the ability to delay gratification to some extent and put your own needs aside for relatively long periods of time.

I'd avoid looking for these women on dating apps and try looking for them at work/other places.
post 1692819073 11-04-2023, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
I dont think they are unrealistic, as ive banged plenty of really hot women. The problem is that promiscuity is at an all time high, and i refuse to marry a promiscuous woman regardless of how hot she may be.

How old are you? Women today are being taught by tiktok, instagram, mainstream media, feminism etc. You know what all of these promote? Promiscuity. Listen to the songs young women listen today, or what are the popular netflix shows today among young women (Euphoria in HBO, Elite in Netflix, Sexual Education in Netflix), its basically teens fuking EVERYONE, doing drugs, etc, and passing it as completely normal.

Even women with good parenting are exposed to this and they are influenced by this. And the better looking a woman is the more attention by males (of all ages) shes gonna get, so it is really a small % of woman that i believe to be wife material, without even taking looks into consideration.


Now, this isnt a thread about that per se, nor about my standards (as deluded as they may be), im guessing many men are encountering the same problems regardless of how hot they want their woman to be.
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post 1692819103 11-04-2023, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By FinsburyCircus
lol I used to watch elite, great show. Wood have wifed Carla
Carla is mega hnnngggg but sheโ€™s a mega sloot too lol

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post 1692819453 11-04-2023, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By PowerPal
dim lighting with heavy filter can make anyone look Chad
he looks like Brad aka Noah here lol



he almost looks incel tier here wtf who got his first gf
Strong disagree, heโ€™s very good looking
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
Do you really think many women would go for that kind of situation?
With the way things are going on in the world today, I wish they would and it could happen. Look at all the broken families today. Mom and dads constantly fighting/arguing and these poor kids are caught in the middle of unwanted nonsense. None of them can seem to stay civil with each other for the sake of their children because they're selfish af. I think when it comes to friends, there's that bond where you have each other's backs. Even though it might not be the traditional family unit...there's more stability and it's crucial when it comes to raising children.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
Yesterday was Dia de Muertos here in Mexico and it got me a bit nostalgic (watching Coco didnt help lol). Realized my parents werent getting any younger and the fact that my dad struggles with obesity and hes almost 70 really got me thinking that he may never see another baby with his own blood being born, which must suck for a man, to feel like his dinasty may come to an end. I had another brother that died and have an older sister that is a modern woman (lol), so im the only realistic one left.


But finding a wholesome woman to be the mother of your child honestly seems like an S+ ranked mission nowadays. It doesnt help that 1) i dont believe in monogamy yet im not a bad enough person to cheat and 2) my standards are stupidly high (looks wise and non-slootyness wise)

Attractive women in today world receive a lot of attention, and this is a double edged sword for them and really bad for relationships. And since i like REALLY attractive women, it gets even worse. Im disgusted by promiscuity so finding a really attractive wholesome woman that hasnt been around, not gonna lie its not looking good.

Im not worried, im barely entering my prime financially and i enjoying a lot these years as a single man, but i do want kids so hopefully that comes sooner rather than later, especially for my parents.



Just sharing my emotions like a modern man here, im guessing others are going trough something similar.
It is depressing op, I am not at your age but I had a very sad dream where my mom is at her last(my dad already passed when I was 15yo) and I haven't had a kid yet.

I would suggest that you share this insecurity with your parent's op, it is better to be talked about that left in your head. I spoke to my mom about it and she said that she wouldn't want me to have a child just because of her.

Also my family doesn't believe in bloodlines, religion or humans being a special species soo... I do not think everyone has to do it
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