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03-12-2024, 10:18 AM
#61
Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
You honestly sound like a low-test twink. You have this low-energy vibe from your posts that scream you're pathetic IRL and a loser. You can fix all of that, but the odds are you'll be defensive about my post, rather than looking at yourself in the mirror and finding a way to work on your self-development. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
Why are you trying to act righteous when just yesterday you were a toxic fk negging me for no reason?

There's nothing low vibe about me. I'm happy with my life srs….

Do please elaborate…because I'd love to hear more about your opinion of me so I could work on it
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03-12-2024, 10:25 AM
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Or guys who can't be bothered going out to places like bars and clubs. I'd much rather stay home and start chatting up potential weekend lays on Wednesday, which is like child's play on an app.

Anyone who thinks apps are useless is typically an incel or has terrible game (or is just downright unattractive).
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03-12-2024, 10:30 AM
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To be a virgin at 30 you must literally have to be in the bottom .001 % in terms of attractiveness for men

Lmao. And these are the dudes you take advice from , just saying.
If you count the guys only having had sex with prostitutes.
I would say virginity is about 30% at 30.

If you only count the guys having had sex with an attractive girl without paying above 7/10 it’s probably under 30%.
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03-12-2024, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted By jack5432⏩
If you count the guys only having had sex with prostitutes.
I would say virginity is about 30% at 30.

If you only count the guys having had sex with an attractive girl without paying above 7/10 it’s probably under 30%.
Still.take out all this bs abouts apps and $. These ****s never been to high school or college?

Wasn't exactly rocket science getting laid in that setting
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03-12-2024, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Try talking to women in real life. It's so uncommon these days. I wonder how the average app based sloot would respond to having someone cold approach her.
I cold approach any opportunity I get. Even if I'm not interested just to keep the skills sharp

Almost all of them are overly flattered and explain how no one approaches them and they wish more guys would approach. Occasionally I get the "I have a boyfriend" line but they're not nasty about it. It's all good, can't win them all.

It's so fookin easy because 99% of dudes are spergs and are sold the lie about women's standards and being me too'd etc. People are just scared to hear no because they have fragile little egos.

Just have to have a sense of humor, be light hearted and think on your toes. Just be cool. It's not that big of a deal.
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03-12-2024, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Still.take out all this bs abouts apps and $. These ****s never been to high school or college?

Wasn't exactly rocket science getting laid in that setting
times have changed. its very easy to stay a virgin for a long time.
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03-12-2024, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
I cold approach any opportunity I get. Even if I'm not interested just to keep the skills sharp

Almost all of them are overly flattered and explain how no one approaches them and they wish more guys would approach. Occasionally I get the "I have a boyfriend" line but they're not nasty about it. It's all good, can't win them all.

It's so fookin easy because 99% of dudes are spergs and are sold the lie about women's standards and being me too'd etc. People are just scared to hear no because they have fragile little egos.

Just have to have a sense of humor, be light hearted and think on your toes. Just be cool. It's not that big of a deal.
and a firm handshake while youre at it while pulling yourself up by the bootstraps. dating does not work how it did. online has altered the way people date
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03-12-2024, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Still.take out all this bs abouts apps and $. These ****s never been to high school or college?

Wasn't exactly rocket science getting laid in that setting
I didn’t get laid in highschool but I did get laid before highschool.
Idk man I was pretty tall back then taller then my teachers and nope no girls.
They were all social media addicts during my time in highschool.

So I can relate and I think during my time I only noticed like 20% of the guys getting any girls.
Those were the guys who did well on social media and had a lot of friends.

Actually the guy that got laid the most was a really short guy.
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03-12-2024, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
and a firm handshake while youre at it while pulling yourself up by the bootstraps. dating does not work how it did. online has altered the way people date
boomers dont get it.
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03-12-2024, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
boomers dont get it.
They really don’t the last 10+ years it’s hard to get laid without social status.
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03-12-2024, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
and a firm handshake while youre at it while pulling yourself up by the bootstraps. dating does not work how it did. The cell phone has altered the way people date
Ftfy
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03-12-2024, 05:05 PM
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tinder used to be good back in its hayday up until about 2017 at the very latest.

i deleted it for good last summer and will never be on a dating app again.
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03-12-2024, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
boomers dont get it.
If you really wanted it as bad as you claim, you'd be out there doing anything and everything to make it happen (legally I mean). But you really don't.
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03-12-2024, 05:48 PM
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You should use https://www.photofeeler.com/ to see how your pics do. I wouldn't bother with online dating unless your pics consistently score above 8 and you're at least 6 ft tall.
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03-12-2024, 06:07 PM
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you're tall and white
Getting on test, deca and dbol in July. Gonna get up around 240lb lean at 5'10" and slay like a fukin boss
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03-12-2024, 06:19 PM
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50% if pretty low for male..

It was rare for me to see ugly girls in my stack somehow. So it was like 90% yes, 10% fats/ trannies
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03-12-2024, 06:22 PM
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getting laid is super easy. Problem is 90% of women don't offer anything and aren't worth jestermaxing for.
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03-12-2024, 06:33 PM
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If you really wanted it as bad as you claim, you'd be out there doing anything and everything to make it happen.
Except regardless of what I do its not going to happen
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03-12-2024, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
getting laid is super easy if you're attractive. Problem is 90% of women don't offer anything and aren't worth jestermaxing for.
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03-12-2024, 06:53 PM
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fixed
im not attractive. But you usually need to be above the woman by a little.
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03-12-2024, 07:04 PM
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Problem is BBMG is a 1/10, or at least thats how women would rate him. Women consider 5'9 "too short" nowadays. Im sure they view 5'3 men as literal subhuman
It never began at 5'3
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03-12-2024, 07:09 PM
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I made a Tinder once. Zero matches. Was like "yep" and deleted lol. If you're a below average to average looking guy, you are better off trying IRL. Every girl I asked out IRL at least humored me with a meal and conversation. The truth is not everybody is going to be loved or wanted. You just have to accept that and keep moving forward. You only get one life so you may as well make the most of your situation. You should take an attitude of "If it works out, great. If not, meh." Maybe you will meet the right person. Maybe not. It is what it is. (Not to mention the chance of meeting a decent girl on Tinder are pretty low given that it is usually a hookup app.)
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03-12-2024, 07:11 PM
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Problem is BBMG is a 1/10, or at least thats how women would rate him. Women consider 5'9 "too short" nowadays. Im sure they view 5'3 men as literal subhuman
Most women won't date a 5'3" guy. That's just a fact. Not much you can do about that. Your best bet is to try to find some woman with a short guy fetish.
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03-12-2024, 07:19 PM
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it's never been easier to talk to girls in real life. Why? Because other men are not doing it. And it is without debate, the superior method (compared to online). In person, you remove all of the nonsense on the apps. The profiles, the swiping, messaging, abysmal response rate, trying to hold their attention, etc.

And I don't mean "cold" approach. You have to get a smile or something. But the confidence in approach, strong eye contact, and a smile, it's not that hard. Just don't be hideous. This is why you need some type of a signal.

I am telling you most young girls would be thrilled for a guy to pick up on their subtle signals and approach confidently. These younger guys… are absolute pussies.
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03-12-2024, 07:21 PM
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They're only made for women, yet men pay the most for them. Why haven't you quit dating apps already? Do you like looking like a total loser?
I did great on dating apps and I'm a 5/6 out of 10. Most men put in **** effort on taking the photos and swipe right on every single chick. If you aren't getting consistently laid with 5s and above off of them, maybe have a chick you're close with tell you what sucks about your profile and fix it?
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03-12-2024, 07:26 PM
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I did great on dating apps and I'm a 5/6 out of 10. Most men put in **** effort on taking the photos and swipe right on every single chick. If you aren't getting consistently laid with 5s and above off of them, maybe have a chick you're close with tell you what sucks about your profile and fix it?
That stats say you're either full of chit or you were plowing 4s.

As a 5/6, you weren't pulling 6's. Because a 6 is overwhelmed by a buffet of cock, of guys much better looking than you.

I've had my sister's friends critique my profile and guess what? They all had different opinions, it's almost as if there isn't a one size fits all profile, unless you are in the top like 5-10%.
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03-12-2024, 07:32 PM
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I did great on dating apps and I'm a 5/6 out of 10. Most men put in **** effort on taking the photos and swipe right on every single chick. If you aren't getting consistently laid with 5s and above off of them, maybe have a chick you're close with tell you what sucks about your profile and fix it?
What type of pictures do you take? Do you hire a photographer or take them in a studio?
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03-12-2024, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
it's never been easier to talk to girls in real life. Why? Because other men are not doing it. And it is without debate, the superior method (compared to online). In person, you remove all of the nonsense on the apps. The profiles, the swiping, messaging, abysmal response rate, trying to hold their attention, etc.

And I don't mean "cold" approach. You have to get a smile or something. But the confidence in approach, strong eye contact, and a smile, it's not that hard. Just don't be hideous. This is why you need some type of a signal.

I am telling you most young girls would be thrilled for a guy to pick up on their subtle signals and approach confidently. These younger guys… are absolute pussies.
All of this chit is irrelevant unless you're attractive. They want certain attractive men whether online or not. Those are the guys getting 'signals'.

Stop with this stupid nonsense pretending like women are just dying for average eddy to sweep them off their feet. its a waste of time for the majority of men.
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03-12-2024, 08:18 PM
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if you look like an average guy on tinder no way you will get a match

that's why you gotta lift or have good pics to put yourself above of the rest

i never have issues with matches but the girls are all boring and basic
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03-12-2024, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
That stats say you're either full of chit or you were plowing 4s.

As a 5/6, you weren't pulling 6's. Because a 6 is overwhelmed by a buffet of cock, of guys much better looking than you.

I've had my sister's friends critique my profile and guess what? They all had different opinions, it's almost as if there isn't a one size fits all profile, unless you are in the top like 5-10%.
Those stats are a phucking joke lmao. You realize the type of guy you're competing with on tinder? Genuinely, the majority of them are phucking losers with zero to offer. chit job, chit tattoos, zero hobbies, zero social circle, and on top of that the majority of them are dyel who can't hold a conversation to save their phucking life. If you crawl back enough in my post history, you can see the chicks I've posted in a few tinder threads from way back when (2019-early 2020) and make the decision of whether or not they're 6+s. The general consensus back then was that I was batting out of my league. I'll acknowledge that, cause at the end of the day I dgaf. Don't take this to mean I was slaying 6/7+ constantly, wasn't above slaying a few dragons as long as they weren't fat, but I wasn't starving for it.

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Calling complete BS if your a 5/10 claiming you plowed with attractive girls on Tinder…. unless you mean Tinder from 2014

In 2024, there's just no way a 5/10 is getting anything but whales from apps. Hell, I'm a 4/10 and I cant even get whales
Was active on tinder from when it released up until 2019ish, with breaks in between when I was seeing someone exclusively. I can guarantee you your photos just suck. They probably show zero personality, just bathroom selfies and quirky face selfies.
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What type of pictures do you take? Do you hire a photographer or take them in a studio?
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