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post 1705128761 08-16-2024, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk
They work from home. So i assume they need someone to keep an eye on the kid during those hours, since he's already an age where he's walking and talking. so it's not like a baby you can put in a play pen. but yeah i agree i would rather take care of the kid myself but if we both had careers that took up our mornings. i would rather what the people who pay the wife do.
I'm probably gonna hold off for now, Were gonna have my mother, and mother in law with us. I'm gonna try to wind down so I can spend more time with my kid. I may just liquidate everything and move back to DR and live like a king.
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post 1705128951 08-16-2024, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
So you had the kids first and then thought about how to afford it?
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post 1705129961 08-16-2024, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By mr.left
are you willing to relocate ? apply above
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post 1705266261 08-20-2024, 05:32 AM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny
A nanny is different to a maid, due to the kid's attachment. Do you have them join you for dinner, or do they eat in their quarters; not with the kids? Do you let them use the media room? Do you let them use the pool etc?

Kids get attached to them and they became something between the kid's friend and their "aunt". The normal boundaries between employer and employee don't work.

To me, the whole thing seems like a colossal pain in the arse.
The risk that the kids will become attached to her is a legitimate concern tbh
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