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07-04-2016, 12:02 AM
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Being a perfectionist has its downsides. Its downsides are able to make me stressed out for the whole day srs. Ex: Forgot to clean one little speck of the interior of my car or two stains that are barely noticeable on my carpet = can't stop thinking about it the whole day. Also the fact I'm turning 23 at the end of the year and it just hit me, feels so depressing how fast time goes and how old I feel compared to last week when I was just 19.
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07-04-2016, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By 2RDEYE⏩
I was (and still am) this. So I decided to travel and say fuk it to the 9-5. Can't recommend it for the long term but short term it's brought me happiness and memories I'll cherish forever.going nowhere in life/no direction
My unhappiness is a few injuries I've had for years now that won't go away. Haven't worked out properly in years and it's made me a shadow of the person I was. Mentally too. I've tried fixing it but found nothing yet. Scared to spend more money too.
I'm also unsure about whether I should marry the girl I'm with and settle down or continue to fux other women. Life can be a bish sometimes but I should be thankful that I have options and that I'm hot stuff.
07-04-2016, 12:10 AM
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I'm always broke and will be for the foreseeable future.
Just started cutting and I'm always hungry.
My 3 best friends are all going to probably get married in the next two years...they are already distancing themselves from anything fun.
My roommate's girlfriend just moved in with us and now we hardly ever speak and I'm positive she wants me to move out.
Only thing that I have that's rocking out is my woman situation. That is top notch.
Just started cutting and I'm always hungry.
My 3 best friends are all going to probably get married in the next two years...they are already distancing themselves from anything fun.
My roommate's girlfriend just moved in with us and now we hardly ever speak and I'm positive she wants me to move out.
Only thing that I have that's rocking out is my woman situation. That is top notch.
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07-04-2016, 12:14 AM
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I wouldn't use the term unhappy but rather "frustrated" at certain times, usually when fatigued or sleep-deprived which is often with full time work and attending college full time along with summer classes all year round
Challenging keeping mood and spirit high when overcome with repetitive grind for a few years
Challenging keeping mood and spirit high when overcome with repetitive grind for a few years
07-04-2016, 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Shobeiri⏩
Its not healthy but you cannot blame us for thinking this way. How can one enjoy the ride if your vehicle is broken, not of any value, not liked, under powered for modern societyand ready for the wreckers. The only ones that enjoy the ride are the Chads of this world.you kunts serious? Whats the troubles to be having this sort of mindset.
Not healthy at all. try and enjoy the one ride u got in life bros.
Not healthy at all. try and enjoy the one ride u got in life bros.
When will I learn...
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07-04-2016, 12:23 AM
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I feel unhappy because no woman loves me for me. They see me as a sex object. A big dick pretty man to pleasure them. None of them take the time to get to know the real me. They see me and it's sex sex sex. And it makes me very unhappy
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07-04-2016, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Chezdon⏩
Where'd you travel to brah? I'm thinking about doing some myself.I was (and still am) this. So I decided to travel and say fuk it to the 9-5. Can't recommend it for the long term but short term it's brought me happiness and memories I'll cherish forever.
My unhappiness is a few injuries I've had for years now that won't go away. Haven't worked out properly in years and it's made me a shadow of the person I was. Mentally too. I've tried fixing it but found nothing yet. Scared to spend more money too.
I'm also unsure about whether I should marry the girl I'm with and settle down or continue to fux other women. Life can be a bish sometimes but I should be thankful that I have options and that I'm hot stuff.
My unhappiness is a few injuries I've had for years now that won't go away. Haven't worked out properly in years and it's made me a shadow of the person I was. Mentally too. I've tried fixing it but found nothing yet. Scared to spend more money too.
I'm also unsure about whether I should marry the girl I'm with and settle down or continue to fux other women. Life can be a bish sometimes but I should be thankful that I have options and that I'm hot stuff.
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07-04-2016, 12:32 AM
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work 2 jobs and still broke
fuk me
fuk me
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07-04-2016, 12:37 AM
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debt [$16k]
wont finish college till im 29-30
having bad shoulders
wont finish college till im 29-30
having bad shoulders
07-04-2016, 12:38 AM
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Unhappy relationship, but love my kids so I stay.
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07-04-2016, 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩
Some meds help. Especially if it gets to the point of panic attack. (Gf had very bad anxiety where I would have to talk her down and get her to breath in a paper bag to stop hyperventilating). Having a routine and learning stress reduction techniques help as wellAnxiety. I wish i was like everyone else and had no fears, worries of anything. It's made me have sleepless nights, missed opportunities, and i can't get rid of it.
I would trade everything i have to be normal mentally
If someone has any suggestions on what to do please let me know
I would trade everything i have to be normal mentally
If someone has any suggestions on what to do please let me know
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07-04-2016, 01:01 AM
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07-04-2016, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted By AngryManlet⏩
Strong everything....Its not healthy but you cannot blame us for thinking this way. How can one enjoy the ride if your vehicle is broken, not of any value, not liked, under powered for modern societyand ready for the wreckers. The only ones that enjoy the ride are the Chads of this world.
That analogy is very true.
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07-04-2016, 01:10 AM
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bodyfat, i wanna be ripped brah
07-04-2016, 01:17 AM
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lifes a rollercoaster guys. If your feeling depressed realize your currently at the bottom and better things await. Keep pushing and one day greatness shall await. Keep pushing for your big breakout, it's gonna happen soon.
It's crazy how in March you can be feeling great yet 4 months later July you might be feeling lost. Whether it's a breakup, school, work. family, don't give up; better things are gonna happen soon brahs.
It's crazy how in March you can be feeling great yet 4 months later July you might be feeling lost. Whether it's a breakup, school, work. family, don't give up; better things are gonna happen soon brahs.
07-04-2016, 01:17 AM
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College stucked me in this city and I can't leave it and begin my life.
It ends on August and I can finally apply to become a navy officer
It ends on August and I can finally apply to become a navy officer
07-04-2016, 01:17 AM
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No friends
No family
No gf
I have no idea how to make friends outside of a college setting. Even in college, though I had a lot of social success and a chitload of friends and acquaintances, that was still a lot of work for me as an introvert (meaning I get socially fatigued/burned out too easily). If it's a lot of work for me to be social even in the easiest environment to do so, I can't imagine how hard it would be out in the "real world".
I have a bunch of other minor issues in life, but they're only made worse due to my loneliness. Obstacles in life are normal and when I'm feeling fulfilled and have a lot of people I care about in my life, I can deal with them easily, but when I'm alone, even minor tasks seem insurmountable.
I'd give anything to have a lot of friends and qt pie girls again. What sucks even more is that I had that for a good four years and it was the happiest four years of my life. Every day felt like the best day ever. I had everything I wanted and now it's all gone.
My birthday's also coming up and I usually spend that alone (as well as Thanksgiving and Christmas), so I dread that day. The last time I spent my birthday with someone was with my first love years ago and it was great, but now she hates me and has went NC for a year.
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I have no idea how to make friends outside of a college setting. Even in college, though I had a lot of social success and a chitload of friends and acquaintances, that was still a lot of work for me as an introvert (meaning I get socially fatigued/burned out too easily). If it's a lot of work for me to be social even in the easiest environment to do so, I can't imagine how hard it would be out in the "real world".
I have a bunch of other minor issues in life, but they're only made worse due to my loneliness. Obstacles in life are normal and when I'm feeling fulfilled and have a lot of people I care about in my life, I can deal with them easily, but when I'm alone, even minor tasks seem insurmountable.
I'd give anything to have a lot of friends and qt pie girls again. What sucks even more is that I had that for a good four years and it was the happiest four years of my life. Every day felt like the best day ever. I had everything I wanted and now it's all gone.
My birthday's also coming up and I usually spend that alone (as well as Thanksgiving and Christmas), so I dread that day. The last time I spent my birthday with someone was with my first love years ago and it was great, but now she hates me and has went NC for a year.
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07-04-2016, 01:20 AM
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Originally Posted By LightskinSwag⏩
lol.I feel unhappy because no woman loves me for me. They see me as a sex object. A big dick pretty man to pleasure them. None of them take the time to get to know the real me. They see me and it's sex sex sex. And it makes me very unhappy
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07-04-2016, 01:26 AM
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I can only feel pain to its full extent. Enjoyable stuff leaves me like 'meh'.
I have been to great length to try and have fun. I've had meaningful relationships and sex. I have tried drugs (legal and illegal ones), MMA, dancing, free fall skydiving, you name it... I have been lucky enough to be able to do a lot of things that would make normal people happy.
So many things I have liked and got really deep into, yet it barely made life bearable.
Every kind of suffering, I will feel it 100% though.
Been fighting major depression since the age of 11. Therapy and antidepressants haven't done ****.
If I could go back in time, I would kill myself. The last 20 years weren't worth all the suffering I've been through.
Before you judge me... I've had health problems from a very young age, including cancer. It pretty much sucked all the happiness I had in me. It has not come back yet.
I have been to great length to try and have fun. I've had meaningful relationships and sex. I have tried drugs (legal and illegal ones), MMA, dancing, free fall skydiving, you name it... I have been lucky enough to be able to do a lot of things that would make normal people happy.
So many things I have liked and got really deep into, yet it barely made life bearable.
Every kind of suffering, I will feel it 100% though.
Been fighting major depression since the age of 11. Therapy and antidepressants haven't done ****.
If I could go back in time, I would kill myself. The last 20 years weren't worth all the suffering I've been through.
Before you judge me... I've had health problems from a very young age, including cancer. It pretty much sucked all the happiness I had in me. It has not come back yet.
07-04-2016, 01:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Winzer⏩
This helped me when I had Chronic Fatigue....I become pretty depressed because I couldn't leave the house...but this thing helped with my moods and wellbeing....never went on pills though, they do more harm than good.I can only feel pain to its full extent. Enjoyable stuff leaves me like 'meh'.
I have been to great length to try and have fun. I've had meaningful relationships and sex. I have tried drugs (legal and illegal ones), MMA, dancing, free fall skydiving, you name it... I have been lucky enough to be able to do a lot of things that would make normal people happy.
So many things I have liked and got really deep into, yet it barely made life bearable.
Every kind of suffering, I will feel it 100% though.
Been fighting major depression since the age of 11. Therapy and antidepressants haven't done ****.
If I could go back in time, I would kill myself. The last 20 years weren't worth all the suffering I've been through.
Before you judge me... I've had health problems from a very young age, including cancer. It pretty much sucked all the happiness I had in me. It has not come back yet.
I have been to great length to try and have fun. I've had meaningful relationships and sex. I have tried drugs (legal and illegal ones), MMA, dancing, free fall skydiving, you name it... I have been lucky enough to be able to do a lot of things that would make normal people happy.
So many things I have liked and got really deep into, yet it barely made life bearable.
Every kind of suffering, I will feel it 100% though.
Been fighting major depression since the age of 11. Therapy and antidepressants haven't done ****.
If I could go back in time, I would kill myself. The last 20 years weren't worth all the suffering I've been through.
Before you judge me... I've had health problems from a very young age, including cancer. It pretty much sucked all the happiness I had in me. It has not come back yet.
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07-04-2016, 01:31 AM
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Originally Posted By johnnyboi123⏩
You need to open up and talk to people. You must meet new people and try to build new bond with people with similar chemistry or frequency. Sitting by yourself and wallowing in self pity is not going to help you. Go out and get a new hobby or get to meet new people in the gym. Exercising will definitely improve your mood and help you feel energized and help you think clearly. The sooner you start the better it is for you so that when the holidays come around you can be in a better state of mind.Most of us feel unhappy from time to time whether it's about a relationship, your job, career/education, regrets about decisions you made in the past etc etc. For me it's the lack of companionship whether it's romantic or just a good friendship which ultimately is tied to my past and a lot of regrets go with that. I'm an introverted person and usually very happy spending time alone but I still need to feel accepted, feel loved, and feel wanted by other people from time to time. This is a huge void in my life right now while my career etc is starting to take off. This especially hits home when there's a holiday and you see people making plans and enjoying life and i'm here rotting in front of a 2012 macbook pro with a ****ty battery. feel with me.
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07-04-2016, 01:34 AM
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I just spent my 23rd birthday alone and I think im only going to get even lonelier. Its like im a ghost to the rest of the world now.
One of the things that always made me happy was how easy it was for me to make other people laugh. I loved seeing their faces light up. I don't see it as often anymore and it makes me feel empty.
Meanwhile most of the rest of the world is celebrating their birthdays or the 4th of july together, and everyone is laughing and having a good time. Im sitting behind a keyboard wishing I had the life I used to have.
One of the things that always made me happy was how easy it was for me to make other people laugh. I loved seeing their faces light up. I don't see it as often anymore and it makes me feel empty.
Meanwhile most of the rest of the world is celebrating their birthdays or the 4th of july together, and everyone is laughing and having a good time. Im sitting behind a keyboard wishing I had the life I used to have.
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07-04-2016, 01:37 AM
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If you are white and 6'+ and at least 6/10 face, you literally have no excuses as you have won the genetic lottery.
Brb jobs, instant connections
Brb girls of all races want you
Jk mane, we're all gon make it tho..I hope.
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Jk mane, we're all gon make it tho..I hope.
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Feelings of currently overworking and overexerting self for successful future
Future looks so rocky/unstable, what's the point?
Health is sh!t. Sleeping 4-5 hrs/night. Have lost all muscle. From 228 > 174 lbs in 3 years.
Passion is in general surgery. As one of the first deaf (with cochlear implant) ever to pursue this - overcoming challenges lays majorly on my shoulders. Need to devise an intricate intercomm network for use in the OR. If it doesn't work - I'm screwed. I find nothing else in medicine the least bit satisfying.
Don't even concern myself with the money to be made. Just want to wake up each day going to a job I find completely exhilarating and gratifying; coming home each night feeling utterly satisfied that I've pursued a career in which I can achieve all I possibly can in my short life - relieving the pain and sickness of the ill, and curing others of disease (regardless of the cluster fk of politics involved in medicine these days that seems to becoming worse and worse.) This political sh!t is also a serious concern - rapidly declining reimbursement from the government for services already provided by doctors (aka emergency situations). There will be a revolt of medical professionals in this country, it is inevitable.
Became dual citizen to forgo discrimination in the residency-matching process. Have remained Canadian because of impending political fiasco in American medicine (amongmanyother reasons).
Mentally, if you want something so damn bad that you keep pushing and pushing yourself at the expense of much - you can only do so much before thinking 'What's the point? What if it doesn't work out?'
C'est la vie, mes amis.
Future looks so rocky/unstable, what's the point?
Health is sh!t. Sleeping 4-5 hrs/night. Have lost all muscle. From 228 > 174 lbs in 3 years.
Passion is in general surgery. As one of the first deaf (with cochlear implant) ever to pursue this - overcoming challenges lays majorly on my shoulders. Need to devise an intricate intercomm network for use in the OR. If it doesn't work - I'm screwed. I find nothing else in medicine the least bit satisfying.
Don't even concern myself with the money to be made. Just want to wake up each day going to a job I find completely exhilarating and gratifying; coming home each night feeling utterly satisfied that I've pursued a career in which I can achieve all I possibly can in my short life - relieving the pain and sickness of the ill, and curing others of disease (regardless of the cluster fk of politics involved in medicine these days that seems to becoming worse and worse.) This political sh!t is also a serious concern - rapidly declining reimbursement from the government for services already provided by doctors (aka emergency situations). There will be a revolt of medical professionals in this country, it is inevitable.
Became dual citizen to forgo discrimination in the residency-matching process. Have remained Canadian because of impending political fiasco in American medicine (amongmanyother reasons).
Mentally, if you want something so damn bad that you keep pushing and pushing yourself at the expense of much - you can only do so much before thinking 'What's the point? What if it doesn't work out?'
C'est la vie, mes amis.
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07-04-2016, 03:00 AM
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stress fracture in my rib which has kept me from doing what i love most (rowing) for 6 weeks already. Still not healed.
Don't know what to do with it..
Don't know what to do with it..
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07-04-2016, 03:35 AM
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