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post 1467382011 10-20-2016, 10:37 AM
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if I were you I'd go on a date, push for smash on first night, then never ever call her again cuz she was rude to you when you were less aesthetic, fuk her literally
post 1467389781 10-20-2016, 11:28 AM
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So if some fat chick asked you out and you said no and she lost weight to something you are attracted too you wouldnt try to hit her up? She doesnt like skinny neckbeards so why are you so butthurt about it?
post 1467390941 10-20-2016, 11:34 AM
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bang her big league and disregard
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Originally Posted By Shortstop36⏩
this is awful advice OP. never lose your dignity for hole
This.
post 1467391891 10-20-2016, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
So if some fat chick asked you out and you said no and she lost weight to something you are attracted too you wouldnt try to hit her up? She doesnt like skinny neckbeards so why are you so butthurt about it?
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
post 1467392341 10-20-2016, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
I guess this happened to me too, I was given a "Creeper" vibe in HS sort of due to my lack of social anxiety so no girls would even try with me. I wasn't bad looking though solid 8/10, just my social anxiety made the girls not want to be seen with me. Fast forward to when I graduated and now all these chicks trying to with me because there's no more "HS social status" to keep nom say?
post 1467392641 10-20-2016, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
The more important question now is how do I forget what she did? I still get way too anxious to ask girls out and I'm suspicious of girls flirting with me still. I definitely let a few opportunities go because of the fear of being called a creep and turned down.
exposure therapy. I'll keep calling you a creep until you get used to it and it stops making you anxious.


creep.
post 1467393081 10-20-2016, 11:50 AM
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Women do not wish to be part of your journey, but they gladly wait for you at the finish-line. If you play an instrument, it doesn't enter their mind that you dedicated months upon months for your craft. If you have a ripped body, they don't think about the hardship you took upon yourself when hitting the gym. All their perspective revolves around the end-product. Your crush didn't care to get with you when you were just starting to get a grasp on life, she'd rather 'enjoy her youth' aka be a sloot. Now that her social value is starting to decline and yours is going up, she's trying to score her very own dependable beta bucks in you.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
You have standards. Good job man.
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Originally Posted By HaydeeDjinn⏩
exposure therapy. I'll keep calling you a creep until you get used to it and it stops making you anxious.


creep.
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post 1467394861 10-20-2016, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
Creep? Ouch, well you have improved and are better for it. GJDM.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you." Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
Smash and dash. What else are you gonna do with dat dere manlet time?
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post 1467395021 10-20-2016, 12:02 PM
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Smash then ignore, if she persist call her a creep

Make sure you piss on her in a shower of something as well in case she tries talking some ****, then you can go 'i pissed on you slut'
Maybe dont even use a shower
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post 1467395321 10-20-2016, 12:04 PM
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Hasn't happened to me personally, but it's a pretty common occurrence for women, and especially for men. Think of it this way: 80% of men aged 18-25 have physical attraction as a priority, while 70% of women aged 18-25 have physical attraction as a priority. Commonplace behaviour from both sexes, but men do it more than women (and are also more exposed for this behaviour).
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post 1467395871 10-20-2016, 12:08 PM
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No surprise here, goes both ways as several other folks have already mentioned in this thread. Did you by any chance mention your rep power on the misc?
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I am 29 now and this has happened to me with numerous broads from HS. I was a puny quiet fella in HS.

A lot of these broads I thought were fukkin hot in HS. Now they are kinda losing their glow or they are getting fatter. I am in shape and look a lot better than i did back then. They have hit on me at bars numerous times and have no clue I went to HS with them lol.
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post 1467396901 10-20-2016, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Smash and dash homie, smash before NC
This^
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post 1467415691 10-20-2016, 02:27 PM
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This happened to me in high school. In the 9th grade, a friend of mine was dating a girl at a rival school. We head out to the mall to meet her and a few friends...one of them I was attracted to. I walk up to her and ask her name...she looks me up and down, starts laughing, and they just walk away. I was scrawny and clumsy. Fast forward a few years, I hit puberty and become a little more social. During a football game my junior year, we bump into each other. She sends her friend over to see if I'm interested. I tell her yea and to come over. She walks up, stands in front of me, and in front of the whole crowd I said "fnck outta here, you slutty bish!" The whole crowd started laughing. Can't lie, I felt bad...but she deserved that karma!

My advice, pass on it.
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post 1467417611 10-20-2016, 02:40 PM
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Just smash and NC if you think you're not gonna get attached/deal with your ****gy morals.

Never consider dating her though. At best she could be a fwb if you've mastered not feeling chit for sloots which by the looks of your posts you're not any near to accomplish it right now
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Has anyone else been in this situation?

The last time I saw her was three years ago. For some reason she was on my campus today and saw me as I left the gym. Three years ago Iwasa very skinny ******* with no jawline. I asked her out back then and she turned me down.
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People change. Think about the kind of guy you were back then and honestly ask yourself these questions...

Would you call yourself a beta *******?
If you were a girl back then and saw a guy like your old self, would you cringe/be creeped out?

I'm sure if we all go back far enough we would cringe HARD at some of the stuff that's happened, but we've all matured/changed since then, most of us for the better. If you still have some feelings toward her then put your ego aside, set up a date, and see where it goes. Who knows, you may just hit it off and that old flame may spark right up once you guys get into a good conversation over some drinks.

She's clearly into you if she willingly gave you her number and hinted to contact her again. What's the worst that'll happen? You'll get laid.
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as many ppl have said, she had every right to say no when she wasn't attracted to you and if you've changed fot he better it's not surpring she's interested now.
however, the way she did it was cruel. if you agree to go out with her, you have no guarantee it'll go anywhere. you can find yourself feeling insecure again, she'll sense it and will reject you again. and even if you succeed, sleeping with her will still let her know that you're attracted to her. even if you "smash and dash" - she'll know you did it out of spite. and you'll just become a worse person, because let's be honest, doing that is quite awful. you've worked on improving yourself, don't let your past insecurities bring you down.
hold yourself to a higher standard. if you ignore her, that'll hurt her and you won't be doing anything bad.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you." Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
Then either you can take the high road and just NC and forget about her.

Or

You can seek revenge. Pull her in, get in her mind, play with her emotions and then leave her. But always leave some dangling hope that you can continue to drag her along anytime you want.

^I wouldn't recommend #2, it feels fun and justified at first but then it just gets old and you'll also get a rep for being an *******.

But do as you will.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
lol so what the fukk is the point of ur thread?

u got rejected, she gave u her number, u deleted it and will not smash her.

cool starry bra, breh. keep lifting and have that same idgaf attitude to other sloths
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
Then you smash n dash now. Nothing ruins a chick more than that
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
No I still wouldn't try to hit her up. It's my loss. Me hitting her up after she lost weight would make me appear shallow, because she's still the same person she is, only inside a different body.

It's not that she rejected me that was a big deal, it's how she did it. She basically made it impossible for me to ask out any other girl in highschool because she told everyone that I was a creep.
You posted the best response in your own thread (except for maybe wisops lol), you know what to do.
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