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post 1534348271 11-12-2017, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Here's the link to the big tinder thread op.

Again only go in if you're interested in some redpill/bk insight. I was and it really helped me understand the dating market and how some (not all) men approach online dating. I was really clueless and naive when I started so that thread was very useful to me.

Warning: if you prefer bluepill/wk/pk encouragement don't go in there. Proceed with caution.

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=174196551
Men who date through Tinder are still looking for a decent girl..if she offers herself to him correctly, and is better or on his level looks and body wise.... and especially attitude wise.
post 1534348491 11-12-2017, 02:29 PM
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I get cold approached maybe average 4-6 times a year but people here are not shy.
post 1534348511 11-12-2017, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Honestly don't tbh. Last time was a few months ago on the train but besides that... not much. I duno if it's just up here or what but I find Scouse lads to be shy as fuk
Scouse lads are shy?

I had a mate from Liverpool (very good with women), and he told me the opposite. Maybe times have changed.

How often do you get warm approached?
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post 1534348521 11-12-2017, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
...you are? (no hate... haven't seen what you look like besides your trolling avis)
I didn't mean I'm chadette, I meant I have no kids and am not dyel, and am looking for the same in a potential partner
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post 1534348561 11-12-2017, 02:30 PM
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4 pages and no profile pics posted yet?

Let's see what you're putting out there, will give tips for improvement
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post 1534348651 11-12-2017, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
I didn't mean I'm chadette, I meant I have no kids and am not dyel, and am looking for the same in a potential partner
Yeah but no offense a LOT of guys lift and are even in shape... Way more than women do (there are more in shape men than there are in shape women). Why is it so hard to find just one?

Just at my gym, practically every guy who lifts is in shape... Some are perma bulkers, but most of them look in shape compared to the women.
post 1534348691 11-12-2017, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
Scouse lads are shy?

I had a mate from Liverpool (very good with women), and he told me the opposite. Maybe times have changed.

How often do you get warm approached?
All depends on the person I guess. Define warm approached...?
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post 1534348791 11-12-2017, 02:32 PM
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Didn't some miscer make a dating account as a whale with a Photoshop pig face and get tons of attention?

Something doesn't add up!
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post 1534348801 11-12-2017, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
But I AM the female equivalent..... seems like too much to ask to want someone the same
I think the female equivalent in a Miscers head would be a Barbie doll overly made up pouter tbh
post 1534348831 11-12-2017, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
I didn't mean I'm chadette, I meant I have no kids and am not dyel, and am looking for the same in a potential partner
Are those really that important for you? I mean you could fall in love with someone with kids and who is a runner for instance, you never know.
post 1534348841 11-12-2017, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Honestly don't tbh. Last time was a few months ago on the train but besides that... not much. I duno if it's just up here or what but I find Scouse lads to be shy as fuk
Difficult to believe you don't get approached on nights out. Unless you spend your fri / sat nights in the gym.
post 1534348901 11-12-2017, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I think the female equivalent in a Miscers head would be a Barbie doll overly made up pouter tbh
Some skank.
post 1534348961 11-12-2017, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Difficult to believe you don't get approached on nights out. Unless you spend your fri / sat nights in the gym.
Mels doesn't really come across like the clubbing every weekend type, seems to me she's more into lifting, hanging with friends, more low key social settings...

Also, where she's from I doubt (as she said) many guys would come up to her asking for her number.
post 1534349161 11-12-2017, 02:35 PM
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post 1534349191 11-12-2017, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Anorexilla⏩
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post 1534349271 11-12-2017, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Difficult to believe you don't get approached on nights out. Unless you spend your fri / sat nights in the gym.
Lol you're actually right, I sometimes DO spend a fri/sat night at the gym

Inb4 loser
Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Mels doesn't really come across like the clubbing every weekend type, seems to me she's more into lifting, hanging with friends, more low key social settings...

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RC bang on the money as per ^
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post 1534349351 11-12-2017, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
All depends on the person I guess. Define warm approached...?
Being asked out by work colleagues, clients/customers, acquaintances, brahs at the gym you've had convos with, etc.
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post 1534349371 11-12-2017, 02:38 PM
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just because you match on tinder with a guy doesnt really mean chit
guys swipe right to anything, the reason you got ghosted is due to the fact that a more attractive woman replied to the message they sent out

online dating is hard for unattractive woman srs just how online dating is hard for unattractive men.

das life unfortunately
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post 1534349431 11-12-2017, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes I think you can find quality people online and people who are serious about dating. You just have to sort through A LOT of people to find someone like that.

And as a woman you have to put a lot of effort into screening and put safety guards in place to filter out guys who might pretend to be interested in dating but really just want to use you for sex.

Similarly guys have to put safety guards in place to filter out girls who might pretend to be interested in meeting up but really just want to use you for attention.

Btw op Rmboyos posts in the tinder thread too so you can ask him about it too.
If you feel you need to put filters up as a woman, it's because you KNOW you are shooting for a guy that is clearly out of your league, and need to tip toe to get him to stay. You're just delaying the inevitable.

It's the same way guys who are scared a girl will use him for attention are also delusional about their looks. If you are better than someone OBJECTIVELY or on the same level (same level works almost as well) - they will NEVER use you. Unless they are clearly a sociopath. And even then... I still don't think they will.

The real problem is with women shooting for men they have no business shooting for.

Also: You can very safely fuk a guy on the first date and have him stay if you are QUALITY as a woman - are feminine, show him you are interested, compliment him, and fuk him properly.

I KNOW this is true because I have experienced certain exes that I do very much regret losing who had these traits that seem so rare in women today. In fact, when I think back to some of them I'm still in love with them on some level just because of how they acted..
post 1534349461 11-12-2017, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Lol you're actually right, I sometimes DO spend a fri/sat night at the gym

Inb4 loser



RC bang on the money as per ^
LOL you gymcel
post 1534349681 11-12-2017, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
What kind of man do you like?
Strong but not too ripped, gentle in spirit and touch. Dude needs to be able to hold a conversation and function as a top notch wingman or buddy on the night out. Needs to understand the pecking and sloppy seconds order. Good hairline, no balding unless he can really pull it off. Nice hands, they should look like he's worked a few days in his life but not be so greasy that I have to follow him around the house with a Clorox wipe sanitizing everything he touches. Should know what type of beer goes with what and should automatically buy the next round instead of being told it's his turn to buy the next round. Must have his own means of transportation and it can't just be a bike. He should also know to immediately run interference when I'm being shepherded by the fat friend and jump on that grenade knowing he has zero chance of survival and that I'll make fun of him for it forever but will never forget the sacrifice since I will do the same. Should know when and when not to play the air guitar. Can spit at least 5 feet. Bonus points if he's close to my size since on occasion we will need to swap shirts on the spot because I spilled something on me. No Turtlenecks in his wardrobe.

What about you?
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post 1534349721 11-12-2017, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
Being asked out by work colleagues, clients/customers, acquaintances, brahs at the gym you've had convos with, etc.
Colleagues no.. I work with a team of 2 men and loads of women lol. Clients no (I don't really deal with people in my city), gym brahs I have been in the past but it's not a regular occurance tbh.
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I dont even go out. I'd rather rot than socialize in person
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Some skank.
Meeeeooowwww! Catty today.

There's nothing wrong with Barbie type girls.
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OP have you met JaymzJ? He is into online dating
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Originally Posted By Clinos⏩
Strong but not too ripped, gentle in spirit and touch. Dude needs to be able to hold a conversation and function as a top notch wingman or buddy on the night out. Needs to understand the pecking and sloppy seconds order. Good hairline, no balding unless he can really pull it off. Nice hands, they should look like he's worked a few days in his life but not be so greasy that I have to follow him around the house with a Clorox wipe sanitizing everything he touches. Should know what type of beer goes with what and should automatically buy the next round instead of being told it's his turn to buy the next round. Must have his own means of transportation and it can't just be a bike. He should also know to immediately run interference when I'm being shepherded by the fat friend and jump on that grenade knowing he has zero chance of survival and that I'll make fun of him for it forever but will never forget the sacrifice since I will do the same. Should know when and when not to play the air guitar. Can spit at least 5 feet. Bonus points if he's close to my size since on occasion we will need to swap shirts on the spot because I spilled something on me. No Turtlenecks in his wardrobe.

What about you?
wtf is all this dribble
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post 1534350201 11-12-2017, 02:48 PM
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Slide up in my pm's slot...I'll clap dem cheeks. Holla
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper⏩
OP have you met JaymzJ? He is into online dating
hahaha love this kunt
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Slide up in my pm's slot...I'll clap dem cheeks. Holla
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typical thread destruct

hang in there op, sometimes things don't happen when we think they should happen , life happens, sure you can influence a bit , but by and large things happen, we are just there , when, never can tell


you have to climb through the bad apples to get to the good ones


it's been fkn hell for me

that's life
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