Wtf are you trying to say here? She forgot to bring her workplace in her bag wtf?

I truly believe you're mentally ill and should seek help. Your obsessivness is not normal.

Horrible horrible idea. i work at a university. You will have lots of 1 in a million girls there to meet

Typo. I mean she rummaged around in her purse for her keys to her workplace.

Also, she let it slip that it was her birthday over text and had to push the date to Tuesday cause of a family dinner.

I'm planning on getting her a necklace/pendant cause she's into that sorta stuff. Is that okay or a bad idea for a third date? I mean, I ain't gunna see her for a year after, so it should be something she can remember me by right?

Is around 300 bucks too high? If I go less I don't want it to seem too cheap.

please please tell me this is a troll thread, fuk in A.

OP, don’t act like a Simp.

Update: By all accounts I should be on cloud 9, but I'm crushed.

We met at a small café that serves wine. Sat there for three hours, talking while the place finally closed down around us and the staff were bert staring at us, waiting for us to leave. We leave. Halfway down the stairwell she jumps on me and we make out for 20 minutes. Her cab arrives and she insists I drop her home. Another 20 mins in the back. I pity the poor cabbie. Behind her house again, 30 mins. She's literally begging for it.

Thing is I don't want it.

I want something long term with this girl. So I ask her.

Now I've obviously decided to take up the MBA and I know that asking her to commit right now would be stupid, so instead I tell her that I won't be fooling around in college with other girls. She tells me that I should have fun. That I should forget about her completely till I get back.

That absolutely broke my heart mangs. I was hoping she'd say the same - that she wouldn't slut around till I got back - but she's obviously more carefree and 'progressive' than I am. She even called me old fashioned (in a good way), because earlier she was arguing that you can only date someone after you've had sex with them, while I held my ground saying, that you had to get to know them first before the sex.

I bought her a nice pair of earrings too btw. She messages today morning saying she's going to wear em for a big family function on the weekend.

By the end of it I suspected that she was in it for something physical which is ****in ironic, because that was my intention at first, until I fell flat on my face for her, while at the beginning, she was the one putting up a front about being too shy for sex. I even told her that tinder is only good for sex, but she'd countered saying, she believed she could find something long term on it. She says she's had bad experiences in the past, and the next second tells me I'm a hopeless romantic and that's my only flaw. Like seriously wtf? Does she want the douchebag or the guy who's going to care for her?

I had put up the douchebag image initially and she had complained she hated douchebags. Then I start getting nice and she calls me old fashioned. Fuk this earth.
Idk. Girls are fukin weird and confusing.

I'm sick of playing mind games and I'm sick of trying to follow this god damned 'alpha' mentality that the misc loves to propagate. Seems it might be true after all but idgaf. I'm going to speak to her openly - whatever comes to my mind, and if that makes me a beta ******* in her eyes then so be it. I shouldn't have to play around to find true love right?

Thanks for all the advice. Hopefully the course will be so intensive that I won't have time to off myself thinking about this girl.

CLiffs:
- OP meets girl for last date before he leaves, hoping to clear the air
- OP tells girl he won't fuk around in college because he sees a future with her
- Girl tells OP that he should have 'fun'
- OP guesses that this basically means the girl is a sl00t and wants to have fun
- Girl is all over OP. Definitely wants the D
- OP turns her down. Wants something fulfilling
- Girl tells OP to forget about her, but that she'll be waiting for him when he gets back
- OP is sad.

Edit: She also kept calling me handsome and charming and claimed that she couldn't see why I liked her so much. WTF does this even mean??

cliffs:
OP is a *******

29
Known a girl three weeks

Tinder



This

If I ever seize power, OP's on my purge list



Edit:

lool at being so cut up over a Tinder random

Guaranteed OP's first kiss

May want to get tested, OP. This girl's clearly dirty as phuck

And this

Disregard MBA. Acquire car sales

I just don't know how you got accepted

Holy chit what did I just read? FOR A TINDER CHICK YOU MET NOT EVEN A MONTH AGO? Dammmn bro get ya head out of your ass. Not gonna lie, I actually did something similiar with an ex I had been dating for a year. Right after high school, she was a junior and I had just graduated and going into the Navy. Long story short, I left bootcamp for her basically. We ended up breaking up about two months after I got home, arguing every day. Chit went south for me for awhile but I got my chit together eventually. I got full time jobs and going to college full time right now. Ive had multiple f*ck buddies and even another gf ( now my ex gf but not the point). Moral of the story: Never jeopardize your future for somebody else especially a gf/bf.

You seriously can't be 29 and act like this. WTF at buying her any sort of gift. You're fukking up in so many ways.

Her telling you that "you can only date someone after you've had sex with them" is a giant red flag. Run the fuk away. She's shown other signs of insecurity as well. You really want to deal with this sort of headache?

The Misc is always right. Sure we tend to embellish things and messages aren't typically delivered in a sympathetic manner but the truth is what it is and has no regards for feelings. Learn to accept this fact and you're life will be much easier. You can be the beta provider of the alpha slayer. You cannot be both. Pick one. And yes women want characteristics that oppose each other. It's like miscers who want a hot virgin gf who will have a high sex drive and be good in bed. So women say they want a nice guy and they do. They want someone who will love them regardless and provide for them. Basically a cuck who acts like a surrogate dad. They also want the douche who is a challenge. They want their love to be the special one that changes the heart of the alpha man. Of course once this happens the allure of the relationship is gone and they move onto the next challenge. Maybe in the rare occurrence he will become the provider and she'll be content but it never really works out. They'll look back to the old wild days and lament that you'e changed and then want to move on. So just accept the reality of the matter and choose who you want to be but realize you can't be everything.

You shouldn't have to play games? Women love these games as it tells them a lot. It measures you level of commitment, what other options you have, and what you're willing to tolerate. You better look to other cultures or arranged marriages if you want to forego these games.

how old is this girl>

2 things have always been true since the beginning of the Universe:

OP is a *******.

The Misc is always right.


Having said that, I feel sorry for OP now. Love is a bitch. But hopefully you will learn from this. You gonna make it, srs.

lmao you just don't get it. She's 100% aware you've only known each other for a short time and it would be futile for her to put much emotional investment in a guy she barely knows who's going away for a long time. She wanted to have a good time, take your D and move on. It's as if she was the one actually listening to the advice being given to you ITT.

Why do you think so many military brahs get cheated on? They put a ring on the first hole they develop an obsession for and go get deployed no matter the mismatch or lack of emotional development between the two. That's what you were trying to do and luckily for you, the gal had the self-awareness to realize she'd still want to **** around while you're gone.

You telling her upfront that you'd be so willing not to sleep with anyone else while you're away, waiting for her is like a girl sleeping with a guy on the first date. It's fine to do I guess..., but you're showing the other sex your cards. A girl that gives away sex so fast has nothing else to play; she's just hoping that the guy will still want to stay with her and commit (assuming the girl wants that). A guy who offers to not have sex with any other girls for a girl he barely knows is saying he's willing to give a girl all the commitment up front for absolutely nothing.

"Hi, I'm willing to give away all of my interests to accommodate what I think your needs are, please like me" is what your actions scream.

People don't listen when they're in love, OP took no one advices here. Btw OP, that girl clearly told you she wants her freedom when you won't be there. Move on, it'll hurt then it'll fades but I know you don't listen to this.

You're going to reject a top Uni offer over some insignificant disposable sloot?

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